what is the best excuse or some possible excuses that you guys have used to break up with your girlfriend or a girl you were ';seeing'; not officially dating...and how did she react?Boy's: what is the best excuse that you have used to break up with a girl?
My ex's excuse was his mom told him to do so, because he doesn't deserve me; which ended up being true..Boy's: what is the best excuse that you have used to break up with a girl?
well my man wasnt using an excuse instead he wrote a girl saying he would drop what he got for me. So just be honest because excuses are lame! just be up front and tell her how you feel.
it's not really an excuse, but I became deathly ill (bronchitis AND the flu) and I asked her to keep away for her own health...
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to get a girl to break up with her boyfreind for you?
is there a certain strategy u can use to get girl to break up with her boyfrend for uHow to get a girl to break up with her boyfreind for you?
best not to interferer
best not to interferer
Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
If you break up with someone and you tell them it's not it's me how is that bad when that could be the real reason. Maybe you don't trust your partner or feel feel insecure which is pretty much goes hand in hand. Maybe you don't feel connected to your partner anymore so that is technically still YOU. Do you actually think people 100 percent truthful? Should you say ';I don't think it's working anymore'; which is just as VAGUE as saying ';it's not it's me';.Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
Mayb you should say the reason instead of just, it's not you it's me.Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
It's cliche, but it's better than most cliches so if you can't be more specific, go ahead and use it.
nah just say
';***** its over.
now get the **** out of my house and on the street..';';
Mayb you should say the reason instead of just, it's not you it's me.Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
It's cliche, but it's better than most cliches so if you can't be more specific, go ahead and use it.
nah just say
';***** its over.
now get the **** out of my house and on the street..';';
Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Well I got got done with a rather terrible break up. My girl ended up cheating on me, insulting me and well making me look like a fool at my entire school
I'm in so much pain right now, all I can do is think about her, but the only thing I want to do is go for a rebound. Find someone else to fill that void in my heart. I feel it's the only way for me to get better.
Sadly because I'm so down and depressed picking up girl's won't be easy with my mindset, so all I can do is try.
Anyone got any tips on rebounds?Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Im really sorry about what she did to you... Don't go for the rebound. You'll end up with more pain and regrets than what you started with. Just give yourself time to deal with the pain. Although it is painful, it is only healthy to deal with the pain than to try to hide it... Once it builds up inside it can be extremely damaging.Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Rebounds only work for a very short time...you need to get over your old girlfriend so you're not using the new girl to complain to...that is known as ';carrying baggage';. Everyone that your ex-girlfriend mouths off to is going to think SHE'S the jerk, so relax, go on about your business, and some other girl will come along to heal your broken heart. Keep the faith!
Been there, done that.. Doesn't work just makes everything worst.. Just take sometime off dating.. Find yourself before you start finding for someone :)uninstall internet explorer c++
I'm in so much pain right now, all I can do is think about her, but the only thing I want to do is go for a rebound. Find someone else to fill that void in my heart. I feel it's the only way for me to get better.
Sadly because I'm so down and depressed picking up girl's won't be easy with my mindset, so all I can do is try.
Anyone got any tips on rebounds?Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Im really sorry about what she did to you... Don't go for the rebound. You'll end up with more pain and regrets than what you started with. Just give yourself time to deal with the pain. Although it is painful, it is only healthy to deal with the pain than to try to hide it... Once it builds up inside it can be extremely damaging.Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Rebounds only work for a very short time...you need to get over your old girlfriend so you're not using the new girl to complain to...that is known as ';carrying baggage';. Everyone that your ex-girlfriend mouths off to is going to think SHE'S the jerk, so relax, go on about your business, and some other girl will come along to heal your broken heart. Keep the faith!
Been there, done that.. Doesn't work just makes everything worst.. Just take sometime off dating.. Find yourself before you start finding for someone :)
How Long after a girl breaks up?
How Long after a girl breaks up with a guy till they're ready to date again?How Long after a girl breaks up?
it really depends on a lot of factors man
how long the relationship was
how good or bad it was
how much love and commitment there was in the relationship
how much they have both let go of each other
etc...How Long after a girl breaks up?
It depends on how long she was out with the guy. If it was just a couple weeks, give her a week. However, console her in her week of grieving. If it is months with the same guy, give her a couple weeks. However, again console her the couple of weeks while she is grieving. Make your call.
until she actually likes him again. a durr.
but most girls break up for a reason soo...don't expect anything.
right away, whenever you feel up to it.
give them 1 day or two!
it really depends on a lot of factors man
how long the relationship was
how good or bad it was
how much love and commitment there was in the relationship
how much they have both let go of each other
etc...How Long after a girl breaks up?
It depends on how long she was out with the guy. If it was just a couple weeks, give her a week. However, console her in her week of grieving. If it is months with the same guy, give her a couple weeks. However, again console her the couple of weeks while she is grieving. Make your call.
until she actually likes him again. a durr.
but most girls break up for a reason soo...don't expect anything.
right away, whenever you feel up to it.
give them 1 day or two!
Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
if she dont see it coming then what is the problem?if your in a realtionship thats showing her NO signs of a break up you must be a shallow person to just want to end it without her sensing anything is wrong..
also if she dont see it coming it means you havent not tried to talk threw any issue your having with her.your just jumping to hurting her.typical male!
either that or she DOES see it coming..
guys are such idiots..leaving it up to yahoo answers to break a girls heart...
i hope she leaves your sorry *** first!Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
This might sound weird but why instead of you breaking up with her ... try her to break up with you... use your imagination. Then you wont be a hearth breaker. Haven't tried it myself but a friend told me that works.Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
so u wont be waisting time and she dont keep thinking something is still their. its always good to say it straight out .
also if she dont see it coming it means you havent not tried to talk threw any issue your having with her.your just jumping to hurting her.typical male!
either that or she DOES see it coming..
guys are such idiots..leaving it up to yahoo answers to break a girls heart...
i hope she leaves your sorry *** first!Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
This might sound weird but why instead of you breaking up with her ... try her to break up with you... use your imagination. Then you wont be a hearth breaker. Haven't tried it myself but a friend told me that works.Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
so u wont be waisting time and she dont keep thinking something is still their. its always good to say it straight out .
I broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
she is older than me and she was playing mind games with me...........i never wanted to argue or fight with her..........just wanted to make her happy and believed that we should treat each other equally .........
any how she use to say sorry but then behave the same way after that.......
she came to my place and i thought it will be better to break up at that moment........before i could say anything she was kissing me and you know the rest........while we were laying naked in each others arms i told her that we should break up .........and it will be good to end it on a good note instead of fighting and then breaking up..........
she was obviously shocked but i still think it was a better way of breaking up (more civilised and mature) rather having a fight and breaking up......
what do you think people was i right or was i wrong and whyI broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
When I went to college I was 5 hours away from my boyfriend. We talked for hours a day, every day as I would think a couple that had been together for two years would do. But within a month our conversations got shorter. Sometimes he wouldn't call at all, when I called him he wouldn't answer, etc. I planned a trip to visit him. He had been kicked out of his parents house. He was living in a crap apartment, he had no food only beer and I began to feel bad. My intention was to see him, spend time with him and talk about our relationship. After getting awkward vibes from him I decided that night we would have sex and then I would be able to tell which way our relationship should go. I missed him so much and sex had always been fantastic before, but this night it was awful. We lied naked in each others arms for a while and I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. He was pissed because I knew he felt used. I gathered my things and left and afterward I felt as if a giant weight had been lifted from me.
In hindsight he was playing mind games and trying to make me feel as if I needed him. The method of breaking up was kind of shitty, but what's done is done and saying you're sorry, even if you aren't really, still doesn't clean salt from a wound. Let it go and move on.I broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
I think it is very immature for you to sleep with somone and then break up with them. It sounds like your a highschool boy, or like 19 years old. You should not have had sex with her and then broke up with her. I would have been so pissed at you. It makes it look like you used her to have sex, and then just said ohh heyy by the way I dont want to be with you..
You should really grow up.
i personally would be pretty pissed if my boyfriend broke up with me right after i got done screwing him but if she was okay with it then cool. Yes no 1 wants to fight but i wouldnt of done it that way.
to each is own
breaking up immediately after having sex with her? that's real mean and naughty! i'm sure santa's putting you on his naughty list this christmas.
what's done is done, i guess. i hope she survives this though.
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I think it was a little harsh...sometimes women are offended by the ';naked break-up';, but myself, I think that it is nicer than fighting. : ) That's just me though!
i think thats funny.
but if a guy did it to me i would probably grab his dick and yank it off.
:)
it was kinda mean.
Not good it would have been better to break up on the phone than this. You might have really hurt her.
You couldnt be more wrong. That was an awful thing to do. You should be ashamed of yourself.
thats...really interesting. ive never heard of something like that before. but its not so horrible of an idea honestly- at least there's good heart behind it...although she might take it as you thought of her as a whore.
Ive heard of one last Howrah but dang. I wouldn't have done it that way but then I have been with the same person for 8 years.
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no because you lead her on
lol
any how she use to say sorry but then behave the same way after that.......
she came to my place and i thought it will be better to break up at that moment........before i could say anything she was kissing me and you know the rest........while we were laying naked in each others arms i told her that we should break up .........and it will be good to end it on a good note instead of fighting and then breaking up..........
she was obviously shocked but i still think it was a better way of breaking up (more civilised and mature) rather having a fight and breaking up......
what do you think people was i right or was i wrong and whyI broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
When I went to college I was 5 hours away from my boyfriend. We talked for hours a day, every day as I would think a couple that had been together for two years would do. But within a month our conversations got shorter. Sometimes he wouldn't call at all, when I called him he wouldn't answer, etc. I planned a trip to visit him. He had been kicked out of his parents house. He was living in a crap apartment, he had no food only beer and I began to feel bad. My intention was to see him, spend time with him and talk about our relationship. After getting awkward vibes from him I decided that night we would have sex and then I would be able to tell which way our relationship should go. I missed him so much and sex had always been fantastic before, but this night it was awful. We lied naked in each others arms for a while and I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. He was pissed because I knew he felt used. I gathered my things and left and afterward I felt as if a giant weight had been lifted from me.
In hindsight he was playing mind games and trying to make me feel as if I needed him. The method of breaking up was kind of shitty, but what's done is done and saying you're sorry, even if you aren't really, still doesn't clean salt from a wound. Let it go and move on.I broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
I think it is very immature for you to sleep with somone and then break up with them. It sounds like your a highschool boy, or like 19 years old. You should not have had sex with her and then broke up with her. I would have been so pissed at you. It makes it look like you used her to have sex, and then just said ohh heyy by the way I dont want to be with you..
You should really grow up.
i personally would be pretty pissed if my boyfriend broke up with me right after i got done screwing him but if she was okay with it then cool. Yes no 1 wants to fight but i wouldnt of done it that way.
to each is own
breaking up immediately after having sex with her? that's real mean and naughty! i'm sure santa's putting you on his naughty list this christmas.
what's done is done, i guess. i hope she survives this though.
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I think it was a little harsh...sometimes women are offended by the ';naked break-up';, but myself, I think that it is nicer than fighting. : ) That's just me though!
i think thats funny.
but if a guy did it to me i would probably grab his dick and yank it off.
:)
it was kinda mean.
Not good it would have been better to break up on the phone than this. You might have really hurt her.
You couldnt be more wrong. That was an awful thing to do. You should be ashamed of yourself.
thats...really interesting. ive never heard of something like that before. but its not so horrible of an idea honestly- at least there's good heart behind it...although she might take it as you thought of her as a whore.
Ive heard of one last Howrah but dang. I wouldn't have done it that way but then I have been with the same person for 8 years.
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no because you lead her on
lol
How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
theres this girl and she is only going out with this guy just so she can say she is going out with him so dont think im a total jerk because she really doesnt like him. so how do i convince her to break up with him and get in a serious relationship with me?How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
To me I wouldn't think a person would want to. I mean if shes really that stupid to go with someone for that reason, why would you want to go with her?How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
She needs to make her own decisions and realize her own mistakes. You have to wait, no one likes a relationship wrecker whether it's a good relationship or not. When she wants you she'll come to her.
Your making a huge assumption that this girl thinks the other guy is a jerk. Very few girls go out with a guy they don't like. Unfortunately, she has chosen to be with this other guy and you need to respect that, or she WILL think you're a jerk. There are other fish in the sea. So go fish for some of them.
First of all - don't actually try to break them up.
Become friends with her.
Then confess feelings.
If she likes you more, she'll probably leave him.
To me I wouldn't think a person would want to. I mean if shes really that stupid to go with someone for that reason, why would you want to go with her?How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
She needs to make her own decisions and realize her own mistakes. You have to wait, no one likes a relationship wrecker whether it's a good relationship or not. When she wants you she'll come to her.
Your making a huge assumption that this girl thinks the other guy is a jerk. Very few girls go out with a guy they don't like. Unfortunately, she has chosen to be with this other guy and you need to respect that, or she WILL think you're a jerk. There are other fish in the sea. So go fish for some of them.
First of all - don't actually try to break them up.
Become friends with her.
Then confess feelings.
If she likes you more, she'll probably leave him.
How to break up with a girl?
i need to know how to break up with my girl friend with out hurting her. we been dating for a year now. and i need to break up with her. i was thinking telling her i was gay or something uncontrollable along those kind or lines.How to break up with a girl?
tell her it just isn't working out. just grow some balls and do it. that's the cleanest break you'll ever be able to get. don't make up stuff.
tell her it just isn't working out. just grow some balls and do it. that's the cleanest break you'll ever be able to get. don't make up stuff.
How to break up with a girl after a steady relationship?
I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now and i want out, but i have no idea what to say cause i really dont have a good reason why i want to... can anyone give me ideas on what to say?How to break up with a girl after a steady relationship?
just be honest..im guessing you want out because you dont love her like you used to? or maybe you dont want anything serious anymore and just want to have fun.. I cant really give you a reason without knowing the situation...just tell her the true reason because nothings worse then getting a bunch of excuses and lies when your being dumped hahuninstall internet explorer c++
just be honest..im guessing you want out because you dont love her like you used to? or maybe you dont want anything serious anymore and just want to have fun.. I cant really give you a reason without knowing the situation...just tell her the true reason because nothings worse then getting a bunch of excuses and lies when your being dumped hah
How to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
Ok this girl isnt really my girlfriend but we have been on and off for a while and we have been talking and stuff and this girl knows some very personal secrets of mine, she is very into me, but i dont feel the same way, but also there are two other girls i wanna go to, but she knows them and she might tell them my secrets, how do i break up with this girl without getting her angry and keeping her trustworthyHow to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
tell her that you think that you are better off as friends... you want to be close friends and keep each others secrets, but you just dont think being in a relationship with eachother is a good thing. tell her how you feel and tell her you are sorry and not to be mad at you. make sure not to tell her anything that will upset her...make it all happy and maybe even compliment her on something like her hair or clothesHow to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
Just talk to her and be calm.
There is no easy way to break up with her...girls usually tend to get sad, angry or both no matter how you ended it with her. Just tell her that you don't want to be with her, but tell her that you still want to keep her trust. Good luck.
tell her that you think that you are better off as friends... you want to be close friends and keep each others secrets, but you just dont think being in a relationship with eachother is a good thing. tell her how you feel and tell her you are sorry and not to be mad at you. make sure not to tell her anything that will upset her...make it all happy and maybe even compliment her on something like her hair or clothesHow to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
Just talk to her and be calm.
There is no easy way to break up with her...girls usually tend to get sad, angry or both no matter how you ended it with her. Just tell her that you don't want to be with her, but tell her that you still want to keep her trust. Good luck.
How do you break up with a girl?
How do break up with a girl that you have had a long but kind of a ****** up relationship and you know well atleast think that she likes u alot but u know it needs to end.How do you break up with a girl?
Tell her that you've reached a point in your life, where you've realized it's important to surround yourself with stable adult relationships. And as much as you two might have in common, or have history together, you don't think being in a relationship with her is healthy for either of you.
And on a side note, honest is good, but its not an excuse to be an absolute asshole. Also, when you guys do that long slow blow off, it tends to hurt us more. It's kind of like a bandaid, just rip it off quickly.How do you break up with a girl?
tell her its over. tell it to her face, not over the internet, it just shows your a pussy.
You don't do what I just did. Wait. No it would work for you. I just told my girlfriend to quit cutting into my friend time and she got pissed for more than just that, trust me she's not a *****. Just tell her shes naggy and hogs your homeboys time. Or if you want to be nice. Be like...My mom think's you a skank, and I she'll kick my *** out of the house if I date you or keep dating you.
Face to face. You look her in the eye and say, ';I'm sorry but I don't think we should see each other anymore. It's not working for me. I wish it could have worked out.';
Don't tell her you want to remain friends, and don't agree when she proposes that you remain friends. This just gives her false hope and will keep both of you from moving on. If she says she wants to stay friends, you can say, ';I don't know how I feel about staying friends. Right now, I think I'd like time apart to get my head together.';
Oddly enough, if you both make a clean break of it and move on, there is a chance you CAN become friends down the road. It's only when the feelings are unequal (one of you wants to get back with the other) that you really can't be friends.
Be direct. Be certain. Be respectful.
Sleeping with her best friend will usually do the trick.
Make sure to take pictures.
Don't play around. Tell her straight up it's over.
invite her over a cup of coffee n break it gently saying she can reach u always as a friend
here are some steps:
Have things turned around in your relationship?
Know for sure that you really do want to break up. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.
Before having ';the talk'; that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.
# Plan out how long you are willing to spend ';breaking up'; and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say ';I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now.';
# Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked ';why?'; or ';about what?';, simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.
# Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:
* Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
* Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.
* Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.
* Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.
* Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying ';You'll never find anyone as good as me'; or as scary as saying ';I'll make you regret this';, he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.
just pull her a side and tell her if you let it go it will only hurt her even more
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I think it pretty much sums it up for any girl.
nip it in the bud.
to the point.
why linger? GET OUT! BREAK CLEAN!
run.
to be very honest and tell her its over
have a friend tell her u killed urself, then go into hiding until she kills herself, hehe.
'Let's break up'
Delete her off all contacts.
Well I like the way Jerry Seinfeld handles it, u tell her that the problem is really not her but U. That's right, turn it around to convince her that's it's not her that's the problem but U. It's slick and it works, they usually don't get mad or cry or anything because they are left thinking, hey! It's not my fault, there's nothing wrong with me. Good luck.
Be quick, respectful, and honest
I dunno ive never had a girlfriend. Al i can sayu is let her down easy. Im sorry if i wasnt much help.
Oh your so mean, what a freaking jerk!
call her or walk up to her and say ITS OVER
yesa
don't break up with a girl ever! She'll spend the rest of her life trying to mess you up... but that's just my opinion.
It's easy to send an email. Be as professional as you can without saying you will break up with her. Use some big words and ****. Also, make it long so she'll get bored and eventually get the point.
Good luck.
you play, ';the end'; by the doors
you'll be back just take a break see what hapens.
well first be understanding to her feelings you will probably hurt after you do it just be honest not just with her but with yourself
i was stuck in this situation.
i think i just flat out told him. it's better to let the person know than just keep the relationship going on.
you say its over and walk away
Tell her that you've reached a point in your life, where you've realized it's important to surround yourself with stable adult relationships. And as much as you two might have in common, or have history together, you don't think being in a relationship with her is healthy for either of you.
And on a side note, honest is good, but its not an excuse to be an absolute asshole. Also, when you guys do that long slow blow off, it tends to hurt us more. It's kind of like a bandaid, just rip it off quickly.How do you break up with a girl?
tell her its over. tell it to her face, not over the internet, it just shows your a pussy.
You don't do what I just did. Wait. No it would work for you. I just told my girlfriend to quit cutting into my friend time and she got pissed for more than just that, trust me she's not a *****. Just tell her shes naggy and hogs your homeboys time. Or if you want to be nice. Be like...My mom think's you a skank, and I she'll kick my *** out of the house if I date you or keep dating you.
Face to face. You look her in the eye and say, ';I'm sorry but I don't think we should see each other anymore. It's not working for me. I wish it could have worked out.';
Don't tell her you want to remain friends, and don't agree when she proposes that you remain friends. This just gives her false hope and will keep both of you from moving on. If she says she wants to stay friends, you can say, ';I don't know how I feel about staying friends. Right now, I think I'd like time apart to get my head together.';
Oddly enough, if you both make a clean break of it and move on, there is a chance you CAN become friends down the road. It's only when the feelings are unequal (one of you wants to get back with the other) that you really can't be friends.
Be direct. Be certain. Be respectful.
Sleeping with her best friend will usually do the trick.
Make sure to take pictures.
Don't play around. Tell her straight up it's over.
invite her over a cup of coffee n break it gently saying she can reach u always as a friend
here are some steps:
Have things turned around in your relationship?
Know for sure that you really do want to break up. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.
Before having ';the talk'; that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.
# Plan out how long you are willing to spend ';breaking up'; and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say ';I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now.';
# Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked ';why?'; or ';about what?';, simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.
# Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:
* Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
* Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.
* Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.
* Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.
* Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying ';You'll never find anyone as good as me'; or as scary as saying ';I'll make you regret this';, he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.
just pull her a side and tell her if you let it go it will only hurt her even more
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I think it pretty much sums it up for any girl.
nip it in the bud.
to the point.
why linger? GET OUT! BREAK CLEAN!
run.
to be very honest and tell her its over
have a friend tell her u killed urself, then go into hiding until she kills herself, hehe.
'Let's break up'
Delete her off all contacts.
Well I like the way Jerry Seinfeld handles it, u tell her that the problem is really not her but U. That's right, turn it around to convince her that's it's not her that's the problem but U. It's slick and it works, they usually don't get mad or cry or anything because they are left thinking, hey! It's not my fault, there's nothing wrong with me. Good luck.
Be quick, respectful, and honest
I dunno ive never had a girlfriend. Al i can sayu is let her down easy. Im sorry if i wasnt much help.
Oh your so mean, what a freaking jerk!
call her or walk up to her and say ITS OVER
yesa
don't break up with a girl ever! She'll spend the rest of her life trying to mess you up... but that's just my opinion.
It's easy to send an email. Be as professional as you can without saying you will break up with her. Use some big words and ****. Also, make it long so she'll get bored and eventually get the point.
Good luck.
you play, ';the end'; by the doors
you'll be back just take a break see what hapens.
well first be understanding to her feelings you will probably hurt after you do it just be honest not just with her but with yourself
i was stuck in this situation.
i think i just flat out told him. it's better to let the person know than just keep the relationship going on.
you say its over and walk away
How to break up with a girl?
How do you break up with your girlfriend and not hurt her feelings? She already sad she loves me.How to break up with a girl?
The best way is to make her hate you( this way she wont cry much, nor she would be really sad that you ditched her). Tell her that you like some other girl. If you tell her that you are simply breaking up with her, she may go under depression. So a reason is a must.How to break up with a girl?
Just say the truth. I would say to the person that I feel it is time we were not together anymore, but I still want to be your friend. I have kept several good friends this way even though at first they go through a withdrawal phase in which they are stunned and depressed. I try to be there for them even then personally because I explain the reasons when they will ask for my thoughts. Oftentimes, they come to realize that the reasons are logical and that feeling get in the way of a bad mesh of personalities or a nagging issue.
Tell her that you want to do a 3-way with her and her mom... She will be so repulsed that she will dump you! And if she says yes, well then saddle up... Either way, it's a win, win for you.
just say you need time to yourself and then call her in two weeks and say you have moved on and you hope you can stay friends
just tell him nicely that you need time to re-evaluate your relationship and seeing other people is part of the evaluation
Wear some stinky socks and make her smell them.
Shes going to have hurt feelings no matter what if she said shes in love with you, u just have to be considerate of her feelings and let her down easy.
If she said she loves you...she will have her feelings hurt when you break up with her.
The only way it won't hurt her feelings is if she is already seeing someone else.
Or if she thinks you are a jerk for some reason.
Be honest with her, there is no reason to lead her on-
it'll only hurt her more in the long run.
Good Luck
Break it to her easy. Don't use myspace, or facebook (she might not check her messages and she would think you were still going out). If she is a very emotional girl don't break up with her in person, at least in public and when doing it tell her the exact truth.
Dont lie, and do it in person, that way you will show respect
tell her exactly why you are breaking up with her, otherwise she will try to fix the relationship based on the fake reason you gave her which will end up in her getting nore hurt that she would of otherwise
she may be more hurt in the short run but in the long term, the truth is better
and if you cannot bring yourself to tell her the real reason, then ask yourself why you are breaking up with her for a reason that seems so insignificant when you say it out loud that you dont feel that you can tell her. think about if it is really what you want to do
If you want to break up with a girl, DO NOT do it in front of her friends. Take her to a private place and tell her how you think she's great and tell her all the stuff you like about her. Then you tell her even though she's a awsome person you think maybe that you two weren't meant to be together and there's alot of great guys out there that your sure would love her and appreciate her way more then you ever could.
If you let this girl down hard after she said she loved you i'm going to personaly kill you!
Just tell her you think it is better if you guys break up. do it quick, don't lead her on, it will only make things worse.
Just be honest. IT will hurt her more if you dont tell her.
Just be honest and tell her that this isn't working for you. Tell her a reason why, but it has to do with you. Like if she's annoying, don't tell her! Say that you're not ready to be in a relationship right now. Be kind but clear that it's over. Breaking up is never ever easy, but you have to do it, if you don't feel that it's right. Otherwise it's unfair towards her.
show some exceptions and not interested un her
flip her the birdie
Thats pretty much not possible.
just try to be as considerate as you can!
BE NICE!
dont talk about it to your friends!
try to make her understand that you are not hurting her on purpose!!!
Good Luck Bro!
The best way is to make her hate you( this way she wont cry much, nor she would be really sad that you ditched her). Tell her that you like some other girl. If you tell her that you are simply breaking up with her, she may go under depression. So a reason is a must.How to break up with a girl?
Just say the truth. I would say to the person that I feel it is time we were not together anymore, but I still want to be your friend. I have kept several good friends this way even though at first they go through a withdrawal phase in which they are stunned and depressed. I try to be there for them even then personally because I explain the reasons when they will ask for my thoughts. Oftentimes, they come to realize that the reasons are logical and that feeling get in the way of a bad mesh of personalities or a nagging issue.
Tell her that you want to do a 3-way with her and her mom... She will be so repulsed that she will dump you! And if she says yes, well then saddle up... Either way, it's a win, win for you.
just say you need time to yourself and then call her in two weeks and say you have moved on and you hope you can stay friends
just tell him nicely that you need time to re-evaluate your relationship and seeing other people is part of the evaluation
Wear some stinky socks and make her smell them.
Shes going to have hurt feelings no matter what if she said shes in love with you, u just have to be considerate of her feelings and let her down easy.
If she said she loves you...she will have her feelings hurt when you break up with her.
The only way it won't hurt her feelings is if she is already seeing someone else.
Or if she thinks you are a jerk for some reason.
Be honest with her, there is no reason to lead her on-
it'll only hurt her more in the long run.
Good Luck
Break it to her easy. Don't use myspace, or facebook (she might not check her messages and she would think you were still going out). If she is a very emotional girl don't break up with her in person, at least in public and when doing it tell her the exact truth.
Dont lie, and do it in person, that way you will show respect
tell her exactly why you are breaking up with her, otherwise she will try to fix the relationship based on the fake reason you gave her which will end up in her getting nore hurt that she would of otherwise
she may be more hurt in the short run but in the long term, the truth is better
and if you cannot bring yourself to tell her the real reason, then ask yourself why you are breaking up with her for a reason that seems so insignificant when you say it out loud that you dont feel that you can tell her. think about if it is really what you want to do
If you want to break up with a girl, DO NOT do it in front of her friends. Take her to a private place and tell her how you think she's great and tell her all the stuff you like about her. Then you tell her even though she's a awsome person you think maybe that you two weren't meant to be together and there's alot of great guys out there that your sure would love her and appreciate her way more then you ever could.
If you let this girl down hard after she said she loved you i'm going to personaly kill you!
Just tell her you think it is better if you guys break up. do it quick, don't lead her on, it will only make things worse.
Just be honest. IT will hurt her more if you dont tell her.
Just be honest and tell her that this isn't working for you. Tell her a reason why, but it has to do with you. Like if she's annoying, don't tell her! Say that you're not ready to be in a relationship right now. Be kind but clear that it's over. Breaking up is never ever easy, but you have to do it, if you don't feel that it's right. Otherwise it's unfair towards her.
show some exceptions and not interested un her
flip her the birdie
Thats pretty much not possible.
just try to be as considerate as you can!
BE NICE!
dont talk about it to your friends!
try to make her understand that you are not hurting her on purpose!!!
Good Luck Bro!
How can i break up with a girl...?
u know ,i cant take it when i break a girl `s heart ! i love some one but we can`t get along well..she is a cold %26amp; senseless girl ,just against me..!she`s had nothing to tell me in these 2 years but looking in my eyes(terrible ,huh?!! )it`s difficult to break up with a girl after 2 years or more...tell me what can i do?!!thanks friendsHow can i break up with a girl...?
dump her and move on especially if she is that cold. she will always remain a stress and unfrindly to you kins/friendsHow can i break up with a girl...?
well, all you can do is be EXTREMELY nice about it. but i think it's extemely sweet that she looks in your eyes though. but maybe u can talk to her about how you are feeling. (us girls are very good at understanding feelings) but if u must break up with her. tell her the exact reason. don't forget to give her a big hug and tell her that u still care a bunch about her
dump her and move on especially if she is that cold. she will always remain a stress and unfrindly to you kins/friendsHow can i break up with a girl...?
well, all you can do is be EXTREMELY nice about it. but i think it's extemely sweet that she looks in your eyes though. but maybe u can talk to her about how you are feeling. (us girls are very good at understanding feelings) but if u must break up with her. tell her the exact reason. don't forget to give her a big hug and tell her that u still care a bunch about her
how to get a girl to break up ?
when I'm with her we have a deep connection but the only prpblem Is she's taken..what do you all think might help my cause? how to get a girl to break up ?
well... talkk to her about it maybee! (how else). but dont like make a move n have her cheat on her bf cuz thats shady. andd u might just like hook up with her n then she'll like never talk to u cuz shes too ashamed... well i would be hah. soo yeah, definalty talkt to her about ur connection or whatever n if she feels the same way or not and yeah! whoo knows what'll happen.
well... talkk to her about it maybee! (how else). but dont like make a move n have her cheat on her bf cuz thats shady. andd u might just like hook up with her n then she'll like never talk to u cuz shes too ashamed... well i would be hah. soo yeah, definalty talkt to her about ur connection or whatever n if she feels the same way or not and yeah! whoo knows what'll happen.
How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
This girl really likes me but she has been going through a rough time in her life her mom just died and she feels abandoned by her dad. I want to still be friends with her but I'm afraid she might hurt herself or something if I break up with her. How can I handle this? Oh we are both leaving college for winter break so I wont be near her for a good month or 2 the last time ill be able to see her is tomorrow also.How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
does she have other friends or family members that you could talk too? if not, then let her go to college, you said you won't be near her for a month or two, in that time she will have settled in and made friends and be feeling a little more confident about herself and situation. if you still feel that you want to break up with her, then do it.How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
Please tell me that you aren't breaking up with this girl because she's unstable. If so, you are a jacka**. If not then okay.
I wouldn't advise breaking up with her if she is suicidal. She needs someone. Do you know of anyone that could keep watch on her? If so then okay. You don't seem happy with her and it would be horrible if she thinks that you both are happy in the relationship. Don't lead her on. You said it. she really likes you. She's in too deep and you don't want her anymore.
I would find someone to keep watch on her, then break up. I would hate to break up with some after a few months of wanting to while they were oblivious to the fact. It's kind of wrong.
Good luck to you.
She is already in rough time. Please don't do that.
Analyze why you really need to break up with her. This is time she would require you the most.uninstall internet explorer c++
does she have other friends or family members that you could talk too? if not, then let her go to college, you said you won't be near her for a month or two, in that time she will have settled in and made friends and be feeling a little more confident about herself and situation. if you still feel that you want to break up with her, then do it.How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
Please tell me that you aren't breaking up with this girl because she's unstable. If so, you are a jacka**. If not then okay.
I wouldn't advise breaking up with her if she is suicidal. She needs someone. Do you know of anyone that could keep watch on her? If so then okay. You don't seem happy with her and it would be horrible if she thinks that you both are happy in the relationship. Don't lead her on. You said it. she really likes you. She's in too deep and you don't want her anymore.
I would find someone to keep watch on her, then break up. I would hate to break up with some after a few months of wanting to while they were oblivious to the fact. It's kind of wrong.
Good luck to you.
She is already in rough time. Please don't do that.
Analyze why you really need to break up with her. This is time she would require you the most.
How do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
What are some signs that a girl doesn't want to be with you anymore?How do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
You don't hang out as much
She ditches you
She dosent call/txt you like she used to
Shes not as affectionate
She dosent smile at you a lot
You have more awkward moments
She is some times embarrassed of the things you doHow do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
If you've been with her a while then you'll know what she's usually like. She'll stop being like that. She'll stop texting/calling just to say ';Hi.'; She'll be hanging out with her friends more often and won't break as many plans to be with you. She won't kiss you the same and she won't do that cute thing she does when she really wants you to stay when you have to leave. She'll stop wearing your jacket just to have it around her, and more often then not, when you ask her if something is on her mind she'll try to avoid the question in some way so that she doesn't hurt your feelings. My advice is to talk to her as soon as possible and tell her what you're worried about before you end up watching tv with her like always and having her get a text from a friend asking is she's broken up with you yet. good luck!
You don't hang out as much
She ditches you
She dosent call/txt you like she used to
Shes not as affectionate
She dosent smile at you a lot
You have more awkward moments
She is some times embarrassed of the things you doHow do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
If you've been with her a while then you'll know what she's usually like. She'll stop being like that. She'll stop texting/calling just to say ';Hi.'; She'll be hanging out with her friends more often and won't break as many plans to be with you. She won't kiss you the same and she won't do that cute thing she does when she really wants you to stay when you have to leave. She'll stop wearing your jacket just to have it around her, and more often then not, when you ask her if something is on her mind she'll try to avoid the question in some way so that she doesn't hurt your feelings. My advice is to talk to her as soon as possible and tell her what you're worried about before you end up watching tv with her like always and having her get a text from a friend asking is she's broken up with you yet. good luck!
Did any guys have a girl break up with and you still regret loosing them because you realize they were a good?
person..how long did it take you to get over the,?Did any guys have a girl break up with and you still regret loosing them because you realize they were a good?
Everybody has had that happen to them at one time or another and it makes you sad, but there is nothing you can do except move on. In a while, it won't hurt so bad!
Everybody has had that happen to them at one time or another and it makes you sad, but there is nothing you can do except move on. In a while, it won't hurt so bad!
How to break up with a girl?
theres a girl named liz that im going out with, but i think whatever spark we had is gone. this jerk friend of mine named kevin told her that i was thinking of breaking up with her and she was really hurt. i couldnt bear it so i told her that i was feeling really conflicted, and that i wasnt thinking, and that seemed to fix it. i didnt want to hurt her, but i have to do this. i love her, but its bland being with her. i need advice. how do i do it? How to break up with a girl?
Take on the Nike phrase and just do it.
There is no easy way to break up with somebody you love or care about - it's still going to hurt, and it's going to hurt for awhile. Let her know that a big part of the reason for doing this is because you do love and care for her and know that she deserves the truth and the chance to be with someone else who can give her 100% and love her as much as she loves him. It's not fair to either one of you to continue on with a relationship where you can't love her like you used to or give it your all. You both deserve the opportunity to find true happiness if you haven't found it with each other. I've been in a couple of relationships where my significant other 'knew' that we were supposed to be together, or that they had found the one, or haven't been happier with anyone else. I thought that maybe I just wasn't trying hard enough to make the relationship work, and drug it out a lot longer than I should have. I should have broken up with them long before I did, because the longer you wait, the harder it gets and the more heartache is involved. You owe to her (and yourself) to be honest and go your separate ways. Yeah, it's going to suck, and it's going to hurt - but that will pass over time, and you will eventually find yourself in love again.How to break up with a girl?
jerk
Lol your talkin to the lovemaker ha dawg just be like ';sorry but i just feel that im gay'; lmao naw im just kiddin seriosuly tho be like ';look i really care about you but weve grown apart we can still be friends but we need a break and well see where things go from there
Well the truth is there is no way that you can make it any easier. Just apologize to her, and then tell her that she deserves to have someone that likes her back, also that you are not the type of guy that would say 'I like you'; but not really think so. Good luck kiddo.
chao
just break it down to her easily tell her that i dont but i dont feel that connection so im breaking up with you i dont want to hurt you but we can still be friends
You love her, but it's bland being with her???
Tell her the truth. Tell her you looking for something else.
If she replies in French...
';Je vous aime,
Je vous adore,
qu'est-ce que voulez- vous encore?';...
just give in and stay with her. She will only make you happy.
so, i take it you ';love her'; but you're not IN LOVE with her anymore?....
tell her that.
through a text message..... haha jkjk
sit down with her an explain your feelings and tell her that you would still like to be friends because u love her but u just dont want to be with her anymore.
if you love her then you might not want to leave her yet...
why dont you try spicing things up between you to, do something special you don't often do...
and if you still have that feeling about breaking up, then make it direct and tell her..
don't keep leading her on in this relationship, especially if you think it is going to end soon, cause that will just make it harder for her to get over in the end.
hope everything works out
cheers
Tell her she stank, she'll get da message bruh!
firstly, are you sure you are not a freaky man ?
if not , pls remember , to her , it is better a finger off than always aching......
just calmly sit her down and say that u think that u need to see other people
Honestly - the best advise is to be gentle but honest. You can explain that you had a feeling / spark in the beginning that you are not feeling at this time. You are not sure if you can get this feeling back but you are not closing the door on the idea. Explain that you need space but would like friendly contact w/ her w/ no expectations -meaning you guys can still have a friend relationship w/o making her feel like you are leading her on. She will know up front that friends is what you are needing at the moment. You could be honest and explain your feelings that you have and who knows - maybe there is a compromise that can be made that will rekindle your relationship or maybe you two will just learn better communication to being great friends for long term.
TOUGHiE....
You can start by asking her out on coffee. Tell her then. After 10 min, of talking to her. Tell her that you can't bear to see her hurt, so you were PRESSURED to say that you were conflicted. and tell her you still wanna be friends %26amp; all that.. just that you don't love her anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!
I would want to hear the truth. It seems like you do care and don't want to hurt and since you have big mouth friends I'd steer clear of sugar coating it just in case the mention of her blandness came back to her. Honesty is the best policy. Plus if I knew deep down the reason for a break up wasn't the whole truth it'd drive me crazy trying to figure out what was.
be straight up honest don't lie about why and answer any question she has....if you don't she is going to have a even harder time getting over you
tell her straite up!
i mean she knows
so jst tell her
do you think she deserve 2
know???
Would you like 2 know????
Good luck
-Shawdy-
you need to be 100% honest (without being mean of course). Dont be too nice, dont leave her hope that there is anything she can do to fix it, Say exactly what you said in your first sentence on here. ';I think whatever spark we had is gone.';
Ahh tough situation. Well, you really should confront her straight up and tell her how you are feeling because she deserves to know the truth. The worst thing to do would to avoid the situation and lead her on more with false intentions.
Maybe just text/call her and say that you want to talk to her about something; this will allow her to get a heads up that something is coming so she wont be totally surprised. Then, just meet and explain your feelings...
she will get over it, i promise :)
good luck!
Go to a place in private but in the general public, hold her hands, look her straight in the eyes, and tell her what you feel.
VIVA LA RAZA!
I'm sick of seeing so many people who don't even know what love is throw the word around like it's nothing.
Dude, if you loved her you wouldn't be breaking up with her for such a stupid reason. If it were real love you'd do anything you could to find a way to fix what is wrong. Stop jerking her around, fool.
Just break it to her gently, make sure to tell her that its not her that its you, all you, and you didn't want to hurt her. You could always tell her that you're coming out of the closet and you're really gay. LOL!!
make a clean cut. don't keep hanging out, giving mixed signals like you just did! thats very very hurtful. to give hope and take it away then give it back and take away again. thats cruel really. just do it and go on. life does go on, she will not die, she'll go on with her life and she'll tell her friends what a jerk you are, and then she'll get over it.
you ';love her, but it's bland';, then dude you need to try spicing things up before that.
Take on the Nike phrase and just do it.
There is no easy way to break up with somebody you love or care about - it's still going to hurt, and it's going to hurt for awhile. Let her know that a big part of the reason for doing this is because you do love and care for her and know that she deserves the truth and the chance to be with someone else who can give her 100% and love her as much as she loves him. It's not fair to either one of you to continue on with a relationship where you can't love her like you used to or give it your all. You both deserve the opportunity to find true happiness if you haven't found it with each other. I've been in a couple of relationships where my significant other 'knew' that we were supposed to be together, or that they had found the one, or haven't been happier with anyone else. I thought that maybe I just wasn't trying hard enough to make the relationship work, and drug it out a lot longer than I should have. I should have broken up with them long before I did, because the longer you wait, the harder it gets and the more heartache is involved. You owe to her (and yourself) to be honest and go your separate ways. Yeah, it's going to suck, and it's going to hurt - but that will pass over time, and you will eventually find yourself in love again.How to break up with a girl?
jerk
Lol your talkin to the lovemaker ha dawg just be like ';sorry but i just feel that im gay'; lmao naw im just kiddin seriosuly tho be like ';look i really care about you but weve grown apart we can still be friends but we need a break and well see where things go from there
Well the truth is there is no way that you can make it any easier. Just apologize to her, and then tell her that she deserves to have someone that likes her back, also that you are not the type of guy that would say 'I like you'; but not really think so. Good luck kiddo.
chao
just break it down to her easily tell her that i dont but i dont feel that connection so im breaking up with you i dont want to hurt you but we can still be friends
You love her, but it's bland being with her???
Tell her the truth. Tell her you looking for something else.
If she replies in French...
';Je vous aime,
Je vous adore,
qu'est-ce que voulez- vous encore?';...
just give in and stay with her. She will only make you happy.
so, i take it you ';love her'; but you're not IN LOVE with her anymore?....
tell her that.
through a text message..... haha jkjk
sit down with her an explain your feelings and tell her that you would still like to be friends because u love her but u just dont want to be with her anymore.
if you love her then you might not want to leave her yet...
why dont you try spicing things up between you to, do something special you don't often do...
and if you still have that feeling about breaking up, then make it direct and tell her..
don't keep leading her on in this relationship, especially if you think it is going to end soon, cause that will just make it harder for her to get over in the end.
hope everything works out
cheers
Tell her she stank, she'll get da message bruh!
firstly, are you sure you are not a freaky man ?
if not , pls remember , to her , it is better a finger off than always aching......
just calmly sit her down and say that u think that u need to see other people
Honestly - the best advise is to be gentle but honest. You can explain that you had a feeling / spark in the beginning that you are not feeling at this time. You are not sure if you can get this feeling back but you are not closing the door on the idea. Explain that you need space but would like friendly contact w/ her w/ no expectations -meaning you guys can still have a friend relationship w/o making her feel like you are leading her on. She will know up front that friends is what you are needing at the moment. You could be honest and explain your feelings that you have and who knows - maybe there is a compromise that can be made that will rekindle your relationship or maybe you two will just learn better communication to being great friends for long term.
TOUGHiE....
You can start by asking her out on coffee. Tell her then. After 10 min, of talking to her. Tell her that you can't bear to see her hurt, so you were PRESSURED to say that you were conflicted. and tell her you still wanna be friends %26amp; all that.. just that you don't love her anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!
I would want to hear the truth. It seems like you do care and don't want to hurt and since you have big mouth friends I'd steer clear of sugar coating it just in case the mention of her blandness came back to her. Honesty is the best policy. Plus if I knew deep down the reason for a break up wasn't the whole truth it'd drive me crazy trying to figure out what was.
be straight up honest don't lie about why and answer any question she has....if you don't she is going to have a even harder time getting over you
tell her straite up!
i mean she knows
so jst tell her
do you think she deserve 2
know???
Would you like 2 know????
Good luck
-Shawdy-
you need to be 100% honest (without being mean of course). Dont be too nice, dont leave her hope that there is anything she can do to fix it, Say exactly what you said in your first sentence on here. ';I think whatever spark we had is gone.';
Ahh tough situation. Well, you really should confront her straight up and tell her how you are feeling because she deserves to know the truth. The worst thing to do would to avoid the situation and lead her on more with false intentions.
Maybe just text/call her and say that you want to talk to her about something; this will allow her to get a heads up that something is coming so she wont be totally surprised. Then, just meet and explain your feelings...
she will get over it, i promise :)
good luck!
Go to a place in private but in the general public, hold her hands, look her straight in the eyes, and tell her what you feel.
VIVA LA RAZA!
I'm sick of seeing so many people who don't even know what love is throw the word around like it's nothing.
Dude, if you loved her you wouldn't be breaking up with her for such a stupid reason. If it were real love you'd do anything you could to find a way to fix what is wrong. Stop jerking her around, fool.
Just break it to her gently, make sure to tell her that its not her that its you, all you, and you didn't want to hurt her. You could always tell her that you're coming out of the closet and you're really gay. LOL!!
make a clean cut. don't keep hanging out, giving mixed signals like you just did! thats very very hurtful. to give hope and take it away then give it back and take away again. thats cruel really. just do it and go on. life does go on, she will not die, she'll go on with her life and she'll tell her friends what a jerk you are, and then she'll get over it.
you ';love her, but it's bland';, then dude you need to try spicing things up before that.
How to break up with a girl i still love with minimal emotional damage to myself and her?
theres really no way of not hurting someone when ur splitting up just be truthful and try not go back on ur decision that hurts more to be led on then have heart broken again
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