Me and this girl having been going together for about 2 months and as time goes on i feel like we have nothing in common. i want to break up with her but i want to stay her friend and not look like a jerk. Any suggestions?How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
I had a guy tell me this. It doesn't hurt any less. If you're lucky, she'll break up with you first.How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
Do not be her friend just to save yourself from looking like a jerk or because it will sound good to her and you see it as an easy way of letting her down. Because if you end up saying that and not following through you will just lose more credibility.
Either way you will hurt her, no matter how you sugar coat it.
If she doesn't want to be you're friend right away, then allow her the space she needs. Just be honest with her and then take 5 steps backwards and see where she goes from there.
Say, 'I don't think things are going well between us, I think it would be best to stay as friends' or something similar to those lines.
Although, when you break up with her, give her some time to 'heal' and get over it, before you two start talking again. Until she shows signs that she's back on her feet, start a conversation like you normally would with a friend, although take in the factors, that it might not be the same like it was.
Tell her, that you don't think you're meant to be together, but you'd still love to keep her in your life as a friend. :) or tell her that you're better off as friends, and you would reallly like to remain being her friend. :) Good Luck!!! :D
tell her that friendship is important, if relationship doesn't work out out, you still want to be a good friend.
Here are the sites that has lots of information on relationship. you might find that helpful, check that out.
thebigromantic.com
singlewomen4dating.com
relationshiptip.com .
I'd just be honest with her. Tell her she means a lot to you but more like a friend then as a bf/gf and you feel you both should just go on and you hope she will still remain a friend to you cause it would mean a lot to you.
you need to give yourself time for that, tell him to give you time and make sure you don't do it in a manner that will create tension.keep distance but never fail to communicate with her . [no much because i hate divorce]
You're allowed to break up with someone and not be a jerk. being friends usually takes a period of ';getting over' time.
You sound like a gem, many guys wouldn't care about how they broke up.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
well we've been dating for 6 months now and it really isn't working, iv lost that feeling and iv try'ed to get it back but yeah epic fail. only problem is that formal is just around the corner and i would feel terrible to break up with her now. should i stay or run like no tomorrow How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
Lol, just break up with her like you would if formal wasn't around the corner. She won't take it well no matter what. just be nice about it!How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
If the relationship is really not what your looking for, then i would say to break up with her because theres no point in dating a person that you lost that special touch with. You could still go to formal with her though as friends so she doesnt feel as if you broke up with her because you didnt want to take her there.
How about telling her now that you've come to the decision that your relationship isn't working. Ask her if she'd still want to go with you to the formal upon knowing this. Give her the option to back out. It's more honest , you'll feel better about it latter and she should feel respected. Good Luck
Is it your Year 12 formal? Neither of you probably need the added stress if you are sitting your exams right now. Leave it til exams are over.
No, break up with her now. It's better for both of you guys to be able to find a new date now instead of right before the formal.
thats a tricky situation. cos im guessing u have already asked her to go with u
i think if u have someone else u really like then ask her to the formal, otherwise maybe u should just wait it out.
dont break up wth her. u dont just break up cuz there is no vibe, only she does that. u break up if u get in a fight. at least date her until a week or two after formal.
Pull a George Castanza, tell her ';It's not you, it's me.';
Lol, just break up with her like you would if formal wasn't around the corner. She won't take it well no matter what. just be nice about it!How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
If the relationship is really not what your looking for, then i would say to break up with her because theres no point in dating a person that you lost that special touch with. You could still go to formal with her though as friends so she doesnt feel as if you broke up with her because you didnt want to take her there.
How about telling her now that you've come to the decision that your relationship isn't working. Ask her if she'd still want to go with you to the formal upon knowing this. Give her the option to back out. It's more honest , you'll feel better about it latter and she should feel respected. Good Luck
Is it your Year 12 formal? Neither of you probably need the added stress if you are sitting your exams right now. Leave it til exams are over.
No, break up with her now. It's better for both of you guys to be able to find a new date now instead of right before the formal.
thats a tricky situation. cos im guessing u have already asked her to go with u
i think if u have someone else u really like then ask her to the formal, otherwise maybe u should just wait it out.
dont break up wth her. u dont just break up cuz there is no vibe, only she does that. u break up if u get in a fight. at least date her until a week or two after formal.
Pull a George Castanza, tell her ';It's not you, it's me.';
How should I ask her to meet up with her?
I asked this earlier..thx to the people who helped me...and for you that called me a ';stalker';, you guys are immature Dumba$$'s...please don't answer if your gonna say something stupid.. :)
so here is my question again,
I added this girl on FB on the 18th..just cuz i thought she was cute/ and interesting person i should get to know.lol..neways..we started talking at around 9pm the first night..and b4 we knew it i was 1am!!!..the next day we talk from 5pm-11pm..then yesterday we talk from 3pm-12am.this not all done over the computer..so we don't sit there for 8 hours and type away..lol..we are on our phones...our convos are very random..it goes from music, movies, than deeper talk about families, and relationships. and we also ask eachother for advice...
We really hit it off as ';friends';..what is the best way to ask her to meet me in person?...or should we continue to talk online a little longer.? btw she has a bf (and i asked her if he is cool with her talking to guys, and she said yes) and that is why i say as friends lol. don't want to ruin the relationship, but her mom doesn't want her to date the guy anymore, cuz he is not the same race as her (traditions)..and she actually tried breaking up with the guy a few weeks ago..but couldn't...again i am no where near a home wrecker.believe me....plus i want to know who im talking to..lolHow should I ask her to meet up with her?
I think you shouldn't meet up with her I smell Bad news.How should I ask her to meet up with her?
Okay well i think you should just say something like '; hey i was wondering , you and me get along so well :) that maybe we should meet, it would be nice to see you face-to-face :) '; well somethin like that anyways , just come out and say it !! and you didnt give much info on the whole bf situation but if you do really like her and she doesnt really wana be with him or anythin then maybe you should try and see exactly how she feels about her bf and how she feels about you and just go from there !! hope i helped !! :) :)
Unless she lives close to you it's too much hassle to meet up. If she does, don't go alone. You never know, it could be someone dangerous no matter how friendly they may seem to you.
Just casually ask her what she's doing, then suggest you meet up and go somewhere with a few friends. Tell her to bring a few friends and say you'll be bringing a few friends - means if she is for real she doesn't get suspicious.
Might be a good idea to wait a few more days at least as well.
great you form a good friendship on the phone, but the real kicker is if you can carry it off in person, about the Boyfirend, i dont think its serious if she is able to talk to you that long on the phone, she obvisously is intrigued enough to forget the BF, by the way where is he at during these conversations?
I say she grew a spine and break up with the guy if not she is a fluzy. who wants the BF and the sidekick (you) under no circumstances should she keep the boyfriend if she is interested in you, that would be creepy and weird
Think of the things you guys have talked about on the phone.. find a common ground.. was there a movie or even a type of movie that you guys agreed that you both like? If so, bring it up in conversation and ask if she feels like going to see it.. ''one day next week'' / ''this weekend'' (or whenever you want).. you could even say right after you ask her: ''by the way, I realise you have a bf, I am just suggesting we meet as friends because I get on really well with you and we were talking about (this movie) the other day''... this might help so she doesn't feel awkward (considering she has a bf) and so it takes the pressure off for both of you. Often it's better to get to know someone as friends anyway, because then if it doesn't go anywhere other than friendship, then there's no hard feelings. If she's talking to you for hours on end over several days then she's interested, regardless of whether she has a bf. Remember one thing however, she mentioned she tried to break up with her bf a few weeks ago but couldn't (there's a reason she couldn't and this could be a problem for you if you do start to really like her). Good luck anyway.
I would not advice online dating because people can steal others people identity and when you check it out they are not who they said they really are. Secondly you should meet her
so here is my question again,
I added this girl on FB on the 18th..just cuz i thought she was cute/ and interesting person i should get to know.lol..neways..we started talking at around 9pm the first night..and b4 we knew it i was 1am!!!..the next day we talk from 5pm-11pm..then yesterday we talk from 3pm-12am.this not all done over the computer..so we don't sit there for 8 hours and type away..lol..we are on our phones...our convos are very random..it goes from music, movies, than deeper talk about families, and relationships. and we also ask eachother for advice...
We really hit it off as ';friends';..what is the best way to ask her to meet me in person?...or should we continue to talk online a little longer.? btw she has a bf (and i asked her if he is cool with her talking to guys, and she said yes) and that is why i say as friends lol. don't want to ruin the relationship, but her mom doesn't want her to date the guy anymore, cuz he is not the same race as her (traditions)..and she actually tried breaking up with the guy a few weeks ago..but couldn't...again i am no where near a home wrecker.believe me....plus i want to know who im talking to..lolHow should I ask her to meet up with her?
I think you shouldn't meet up with her I smell Bad news.How should I ask her to meet up with her?
Okay well i think you should just say something like '; hey i was wondering , you and me get along so well :) that maybe we should meet, it would be nice to see you face-to-face :) '; well somethin like that anyways , just come out and say it !! and you didnt give much info on the whole bf situation but if you do really like her and she doesnt really wana be with him or anythin then maybe you should try and see exactly how she feels about her bf and how she feels about you and just go from there !! hope i helped !! :) :)
Unless she lives close to you it's too much hassle to meet up. If she does, don't go alone. You never know, it could be someone dangerous no matter how friendly they may seem to you.
Just casually ask her what she's doing, then suggest you meet up and go somewhere with a few friends. Tell her to bring a few friends and say you'll be bringing a few friends - means if she is for real she doesn't get suspicious.
Might be a good idea to wait a few more days at least as well.
great you form a good friendship on the phone, but the real kicker is if you can carry it off in person, about the Boyfirend, i dont think its serious if she is able to talk to you that long on the phone, she obvisously is intrigued enough to forget the BF, by the way where is he at during these conversations?
I say she grew a spine and break up with the guy if not she is a fluzy. who wants the BF and the sidekick (you) under no circumstances should she keep the boyfriend if she is interested in you, that would be creepy and weird
Think of the things you guys have talked about on the phone.. find a common ground.. was there a movie or even a type of movie that you guys agreed that you both like? If so, bring it up in conversation and ask if she feels like going to see it.. ''one day next week'' / ''this weekend'' (or whenever you want).. you could even say right after you ask her: ''by the way, I realise you have a bf, I am just suggesting we meet as friends because I get on really well with you and we were talking about (this movie) the other day''... this might help so she doesn't feel awkward (considering she has a bf) and so it takes the pressure off for both of you. Often it's better to get to know someone as friends anyway, because then if it doesn't go anywhere other than friendship, then there's no hard feelings. If she's talking to you for hours on end over several days then she's interested, regardless of whether she has a bf. Remember one thing however, she mentioned she tried to break up with her bf a few weeks ago but couldn't (there's a reason she couldn't and this could be a problem for you if you do start to really like her). Good luck anyway.
I would not advice online dating because people can steal others people identity and when you check it out they are not who they said they really are. Secondly you should meet her
How can you break up with a teenage girl?
I'm 12 and so is my girlfriend but i want to break up with her. we've only been dating for 6 days. How can i breakup with her without her or her friends getting mad. also her bff is my other exgirlfriend and i still liek her bffHow can you break up with a teenage girl?
be upfront, answer any questions why you did (shell need closer) dont give her any cheesy lines like its not you, its me (girls hate that). explain to her with detail why, and hug her at the end.How can you break up with a teenage girl?
You're 12?
Dude, your not even a teenager.
6 days isn't a long time.
Stop starting drama.
Just tell her you want to break up.
Tell her you still have feelings for your ex.
I dont know but me as a teen as well i just start not hanging around with her in lunch and other time you can then whate tell she brakes up with me .
Or just be traite out
Go to her and tell her that is not working out. Done
just break up with her. her friends are gonna get mad either way. by the way your 12 thats means your a preteen. haven't quite reached the teen years hun. Don't worry though a relationship as 12 year old will be nothing compared to when 16.
just tell her nicely but in person not in a text message or anything!
dont go out with her bff yet
this is a hard one! just say that i still like my old girlfrined but i also like you...even if you dont. then go ask her bff if she still likes you. if she says no then i dont know what you should do but if she says yes. nice one
Give her a good hug and then say we need to break up its not me its you im so sorry. trust me im a girl and if you say anything else she will kick you so hard you wont be able to have children if you know what i mean :p Been there DONE THAT.
i done it twice... all u have to say is we can be freinds but its a bit getting to serios so its over...you will probaly end up being with a girl crying ..
honestly you are too immature. you shouldn't even have a girlfriend.
you need to be honest. she is not going to hold this against you forever i promise! years from now in high school, the who dated who's in middle school are quite funny. just be honest with her and do it in person! dont do it over the phone or texting or instant messaging, thats cowardly like.
do the ';it's not you, its me'; bit, tell her you wanna just be friends for now, then bring her to Mcdonalds
Even if you try to make a clean break, she will still be hurt and I hope you understand that 12 is kinda young to be dating in the first place. (Personally I don't think you would have any chance with her BFF, but others may say otherwise. One of my BFF had a boy break up with her then hit on me and she was devastated. So you might have blown it already.) But you could make a clean break by trying to say you think it would be better if you just stay friends, (If you want to) .
This question doesn't concern you as you and your girlfriend aren't even teenagers.
Ouch what a mess!
Since you've been dating for a tiny bit, then you're probably not that serious or in too deep, so going serparate ways won't be that humungous, if i can say.
It's rather early for you to do stuff like that. Being 12 is about hanging out with friends, going out to the movies, theme parks...and running around, like skateboarding... you get the picture.
Good luck
tell her gently you don't feel right with her and all, but tell her you want to be friends. NOW trying to like her bff a week after can cause friend problems. Just tell her bff you still like her AT LEAST 4 months after (if u can wait that long...hahahaha) and tell her you want to go out with her if her best friend would be ok with it. be nice and polite and try to still be friends. AND PS- people on here WILL tell you that your to young to have a gf or call you names but listen to me- ignore them. im 12 to, and have asked love questions and those are the only answers i get. so dont listen to them. and im not in for ten points, im in to help you.....although ten points would be nice......hahahahaha. good luck!
don't lie to her. But your only twelve mate calm down. If you like her BF, if they're are truly BF then I doubt that you have a chance with her. but cool things down with you gf and then let her go. then when your just friends again and she does like you then you can ask her BF out again if you want but have the guts to do it in person. I know it awkward but (i'm a girl btw) I cant stand it when boys don't have the guts. kay. and boys wont know what to do so don't take there advice. kay good luck.
She'll be embarrassed so DO NOT do it around her friends. DO NOT ask her bff out for at least another week. Say you're sorry. Do not do it over the phone! or E-mail! When she's alone say ';i'm really sorry but i don't want to be with you anymore'; Don't make it a long discussion try to get it over with, avoid her for a couple days so she doesn't feel all weird around you. She might actually be ok with it but just pray she doesn't cry or you'll be back with her in 5 seconds!
good luck. x
Just break up with her, girls come and go, you have your whole life ahead of you
tell her its over you cant go on or do it anymore and kiss her tell her you loved her but ur srry
Oh go screw yourself. You're 12, just throw you mighty mouse lunchbox at her and tell her it's over.
';im breaking up with you... its not you, its me.';
be upfront, answer any questions why you did (shell need closer) dont give her any cheesy lines like its not you, its me (girls hate that). explain to her with detail why, and hug her at the end.How can you break up with a teenage girl?
You're 12?
Dude, your not even a teenager.
6 days isn't a long time.
Stop starting drama.
Just tell her you want to break up.
Tell her you still have feelings for your ex.
I dont know but me as a teen as well i just start not hanging around with her in lunch and other time you can then whate tell she brakes up with me .
Or just be traite out
Go to her and tell her that is not working out. Done
just break up with her. her friends are gonna get mad either way. by the way your 12 thats means your a preteen. haven't quite reached the teen years hun. Don't worry though a relationship as 12 year old will be nothing compared to when 16.
just tell her nicely but in person not in a text message or anything!
dont go out with her bff yet
this is a hard one! just say that i still like my old girlfrined but i also like you...even if you dont. then go ask her bff if she still likes you. if she says no then i dont know what you should do but if she says yes. nice one
Give her a good hug and then say we need to break up its not me its you im so sorry. trust me im a girl and if you say anything else she will kick you so hard you wont be able to have children if you know what i mean :p Been there DONE THAT.
i done it twice... all u have to say is we can be freinds but its a bit getting to serios so its over...you will probaly end up being with a girl crying ..
honestly you are too immature. you shouldn't even have a girlfriend.
you need to be honest. she is not going to hold this against you forever i promise! years from now in high school, the who dated who's in middle school are quite funny. just be honest with her and do it in person! dont do it over the phone or texting or instant messaging, thats cowardly like.
do the ';it's not you, its me'; bit, tell her you wanna just be friends for now, then bring her to Mcdonalds
Even if you try to make a clean break, she will still be hurt and I hope you understand that 12 is kinda young to be dating in the first place. (Personally I don't think you would have any chance with her BFF, but others may say otherwise. One of my BFF had a boy break up with her then hit on me and she was devastated. So you might have blown it already.) But you could make a clean break by trying to say you think it would be better if you just stay friends, (If you want to) .
This question doesn't concern you as you and your girlfriend aren't even teenagers.
Ouch what a mess!
Since you've been dating for a tiny bit, then you're probably not that serious or in too deep, so going serparate ways won't be that humungous, if i can say.
It's rather early for you to do stuff like that. Being 12 is about hanging out with friends, going out to the movies, theme parks...and running around, like skateboarding... you get the picture.
Good luck
tell her gently you don't feel right with her and all, but tell her you want to be friends. NOW trying to like her bff a week after can cause friend problems. Just tell her bff you still like her AT LEAST 4 months after (if u can wait that long...hahahaha) and tell her you want to go out with her if her best friend would be ok with it. be nice and polite and try to still be friends. AND PS- people on here WILL tell you that your to young to have a gf or call you names but listen to me- ignore them. im 12 to, and have asked love questions and those are the only answers i get. so dont listen to them. and im not in for ten points, im in to help you.....although ten points would be nice......hahahahaha. good luck!
don't lie to her. But your only twelve mate calm down. If you like her BF, if they're are truly BF then I doubt that you have a chance with her. but cool things down with you gf and then let her go. then when your just friends again and she does like you then you can ask her BF out again if you want but have the guts to do it in person. I know it awkward but (i'm a girl btw) I cant stand it when boys don't have the guts. kay. and boys wont know what to do so don't take there advice. kay good luck.
She'll be embarrassed so DO NOT do it around her friends. DO NOT ask her bff out for at least another week. Say you're sorry. Do not do it over the phone! or E-mail! When she's alone say ';i'm really sorry but i don't want to be with you anymore'; Don't make it a long discussion try to get it over with, avoid her for a couple days so she doesn't feel all weird around you. She might actually be ok with it but just pray she doesn't cry or you'll be back with her in 5 seconds!
good luck. x
Just break up with her, girls come and go, you have your whole life ahead of you
tell her its over you cant go on or do it anymore and kiss her tell her you loved her but ur srry
Oh go screw yourself. You're 12, just throw you mighty mouse lunchbox at her and tell her it's over.
';im breaking up with you... its not you, its me.';
How to break up with a girl that really likes you?
I dont know how she really likes me and weve been dating for a while and like uh um i dont wanna hurt her feelings but i kinda lost feelings for her .
Ps. i dont want to hear say:we should see other people.
BE REASONABLE! :DHow to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Be genuine. . sincere. . and honest!!
Even if it hurts her; At least don't be a jerk! be like you always have been to her.
Be there for her; but hold to breaking up with her.. dont be like.. 'well maybe we can stay together'
cause then you will end up breaking up with her later on; and then you hurt her twice!
So just let her down easy. . Be sweet.. but firm.. and be genuinly sorry! and talk it through with her. If she has any questions; answer them. How to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Just do it. Sorry i know its pretty cold but it would be more wrong if she kept thinking you were interested. I would just end it in however subtle way i could. I promise you would be doing her a favor.
thats reallly hard. um idk
just hold her hand when its quiet, and tell her its better off we go our own way.
idk..good luckskin cancer c++
Ps. i dont want to hear say:we should see other people.
BE REASONABLE! :DHow to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Be genuine. . sincere. . and honest!!
Even if it hurts her; At least don't be a jerk! be like you always have been to her.
Be there for her; but hold to breaking up with her.. dont be like.. 'well maybe we can stay together'
cause then you will end up breaking up with her later on; and then you hurt her twice!
So just let her down easy. . Be sweet.. but firm.. and be genuinly sorry! and talk it through with her. If she has any questions; answer them. How to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Just do it. Sorry i know its pretty cold but it would be more wrong if she kept thinking you were interested. I would just end it in however subtle way i could. I promise you would be doing her a favor.
thats reallly hard. um idk
just hold her hand when its quiet, and tell her its better off we go our own way.
idk..good luck
How to Break up With a Girl?
Ive been dating her for a year and 5 months and Im not feeling it anymore I told her I wanted a break and she agreed Barely, How can I finish her offHow to Break up With a Girl?
meet someone else :(How to Break up With a Girl?
';I just don't think that we should be together anymore. I'm just not feeling the sparks anymore. I'm sorry, but I think we should break up.';
what do you mean finish her off??? lol
just break the hell up with her!! im sure you can do that...i mean it will suck and she will probably be upset but in the end your saving yourself and her a lot of wasted time....if you stay with her and your not interested in her youll end up falling for someone else or cheating and than that will hurt more than breaking up with her now
you just did it.. :P
';Your ugly, I want to break up.';
In person, but if you don't really care do it in text it's easer!
whatever you do, do it personally. and don't just say ';I wanna split';, explain why it is that you think the relationship shouldn't progress.
Do you want to be a man of integrity or a scum bag?
If you want to be a good guy, just tell her. Don't let her find out don't be rude just tell her you're moving on. After 1yr and a 1/2 you should be able to do that. It won't be pretty but at least you'll be acting like a man.
Be straight up with her even if she cries and does the big dramatic why??!!! just do it it's better to be honest and try to break it off in a good note than prettending to be ok with the relationship and being unhappy. SO CALL IT OFF %26gt; once and for all
';We've had an amazing time together and you're a beautiful person but you deserve someone who will return the same feelings you have. I'm sorry but I don't feel that way towards you anymore you deserve someone that does';
F*** her, then dump her because she can't suck s***
meet someone else :(How to Break up With a Girl?
';I just don't think that we should be together anymore. I'm just not feeling the sparks anymore. I'm sorry, but I think we should break up.';
what do you mean finish her off??? lol
just break the hell up with her!! im sure you can do that...i mean it will suck and she will probably be upset but in the end your saving yourself and her a lot of wasted time....if you stay with her and your not interested in her youll end up falling for someone else or cheating and than that will hurt more than breaking up with her now
you just did it.. :P
';Your ugly, I want to break up.';
In person, but if you don't really care do it in text it's easer!
whatever you do, do it personally. and don't just say ';I wanna split';, explain why it is that you think the relationship shouldn't progress.
Do you want to be a man of integrity or a scum bag?
If you want to be a good guy, just tell her. Don't let her find out don't be rude just tell her you're moving on. After 1yr and a 1/2 you should be able to do that. It won't be pretty but at least you'll be acting like a man.
Be straight up with her even if she cries and does the big dramatic why??!!! just do it it's better to be honest and try to break it off in a good note than prettending to be ok with the relationship and being unhappy. SO CALL IT OFF %26gt; once and for all
';We've had an amazing time together and you're a beautiful person but you deserve someone who will return the same feelings you have. I'm sorry but I don't feel that way towards you anymore you deserve someone that does';
F*** her, then dump her because she can't suck s***
How to get a girl to break up with you..?
we started dating a few weeks ago and i have realized that im too flirty to have a girlfriend, but i dont wanna hurt her; i dont want answeres like burping at the table because we hardly see each other. i dont wanna hurt her but i want her to dumpp me. :) ((i cant break up with her cuz of personal reasons))How to get a girl to break up with you..?
tell her you have genital herpes
or tell her that her brother is hot and if you weren't going out with her you would try and get with him
just a suggestionHow to get a girl to break up with you..?
.Best idea is to tell her youneed to take a break for a bit.Let her know your quite happy for her to have friends.While your having a break
tell her you have genital herpes
or tell her that her brother is hot and if you weren't going out with her you would try and get with him
just a suggestionHow to get a girl to break up with you..?
.Best idea is to tell her youneed to take a break for a bit.Let her know your quite happy for her to have friends.While your having a break
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