I had known this guy for a month, we fell fast for each other then started dating for a month. I went away for a weekend with family, I came back %26amp; he said he didn't want a relationship. But everything was perfect, we were like best friends %26amp; would talk about anything %26amp; everything. I was was his 1st gf %26amp; he was my 1st bf, but we've done things with others before. He was my 1st love %26amp; I believe he loved me %26amp; couldn't handle it so he pushed me away. He always said how the time flew by when we were 2gether %26amp; we would loose track of time everyday we were 2gether %26amp; just lay in bed %26amp; talk %26amp; kiss a ton. Every time I went to leave he could never stop kissing me. Tells me if he was in a relationship, it would b with me b/c I'm the perfect gf %26amp; he's never felt this way for a girl ever. Said how you never know people always break up %26amp; get back 2gether. Btw I was 20 %26amp; he was 18, going on 19. I was not pushy, never called more than once a day %26amp; didn't call everyday, never told him I loved him, was very laid back. What do you think...he did love me %26amp; is just scared of commitment %26amp; not ready, feels like he's too young, felt like I deserved better, that he might hurt me or hold me back or what? I think he made it clear %26amp; that I'm thinking too hard %26amp; I just don't want to face the reality of it. B/c I still think about him everyday b/c he never treated me wrong %26amp; we got along so well, never got in an argument %26amp; he really was the bestest friend I've ever had. It's been about 9 months since we broke up.Would a guy that loves a girl, break-up with her, push her away %26amp; have no contact with her?
to young, scared of commitment.Would a guy that loves a girl, break-up with her, push her away %26amp; have no contact with her?
Sorry if this sounds mean but I'm a guy and I just want to be honest with you because unfortunately honesty isn't always the answer you want to hear but the answer you need to hear:
You wrote the following and it answers your question:
I went away for a weekend with family, I came back %26amp; he said he didn't want a relationship.
I'm sure everything probably was great but he's apparently moved on. The good news is you definitely sound like a person who's capable of loving and you're going to find someone better than him.
Friday, August 20, 2010
ANSWER NINJA WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW A BOY NINJA SHOULD BREAK UP WITH GIRL NINJA.?
WELL ANSWER NINJA WAS THINKING ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH GIRL NINJA. ANSWER NINJA HAS A COUPLE OF OPTIONS. A) JUST VERBALLY BREAKING UP WITH GIRL NINJA, EXCEPT SHE MIGHT KILL ME.
B)ASSASSINATE HER
C)MOVE TO CANADA (BECAUSE THATS WHERE THEY LEAST EXPECT ME)ANSWER NINJA WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW A BOY NINJA SHOULD BREAK UP WITH GIRL NINJA.?
hmmm...just be honest with girl ninja. its not like shes got metal throwing stars...shes still in ninja academy. their probably plastic.
im sure she'll be hurt but she wont be able to kill uANSWER NINJA WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW A BOY NINJA SHOULD BREAK UP WITH GIRL NINJA.?
Do the NINJA glare...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xeje_pp_N…
Leave her and be sneaky like a ninja
mine??-http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
you can't go wrong with C
Why don't you tell her, have the police on speed dial, the move to Canada Ninja dude.
Ninja star to the back of her head or breast. Or nun chuck to the vagina or face.
Use your nun chucks. What ever you do , don't go to Canada. They don't allow any kind of weapons there. Not even your kendo stick.
Have a nice long fight and put it on a movie (Crouching Tiger, Hidden DragQueen) so that we can all see who wins
They need a NINJA in Guam.
Move there
B
OMG YOU HAVE ANOTHER NINJA GIRLFRIEND?? We're over!!!
throw a ninja star in her eye
idk
B)ASSASSINATE HER
C)MOVE TO CANADA (BECAUSE THATS WHERE THEY LEAST EXPECT ME)ANSWER NINJA WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW A BOY NINJA SHOULD BREAK UP WITH GIRL NINJA.?
hmmm...just be honest with girl ninja. its not like shes got metal throwing stars...shes still in ninja academy. their probably plastic.
im sure she'll be hurt but she wont be able to kill uANSWER NINJA WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW A BOY NINJA SHOULD BREAK UP WITH GIRL NINJA.?
Do the NINJA glare...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xeje_pp_N…
Leave her and be sneaky like a ninja
mine??-http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
you can't go wrong with C
Why don't you tell her, have the police on speed dial, the move to Canada Ninja dude.
Ninja star to the back of her head or breast. Or nun chuck to the vagina or face.
Use your nun chucks. What ever you do , don't go to Canada. They don't allow any kind of weapons there. Not even your kendo stick.
Have a nice long fight and put it on a movie (Crouching Tiger, Hidden DragQueen) so that we can all see who wins
They need a NINJA in Guam.
Move there
B
OMG YOU HAVE ANOTHER NINJA GIRLFRIEND?? We're over!!!
throw a ninja star in her eye
idk
What are some good wats to break up with your girl friend?
I have been with this girl for a year and a couple months now, and I keep catching her doing thing that she knows I wouldent let her do. So now I am getting sick or it and I want to leave her. And on top of that I found another girl that is like a MILLION tymes better than her. But I just dont know how to break up with my existing girl, but I still have feelings for her.
PLEASE HELP ME%26lt; AND STAYING WITH HER IS NOT AN OPTION.What are some good wats to break up with your girl friend?
Things you wouldn't let her do? Like what? You sound like a control freak. I hope that your girlfriend and this other girl realize that you are a jerk and both never talk to you again.What are some good wats to break up with your girl friend?
i'm sorry baby...i love you...but just not in that way....how do i say this....i'm gay
then kiss your best friend
well if your not happy then leave and if she keeps doing things that make you upset then you have a right to leave and if theres someone better then her then so be it just tell hey u and i have been going out for a year and you do things that i wouldnt do to you and i dont like that we need to take are seperate ways ! thats all you have to say and trust me it will be hard but if your not happy then move on ! i hope this works! and your feelings will always be there for her so thats going to be alittle harder too!
just say it. no better wayskin cancer c++
PLEASE HELP ME%26lt; AND STAYING WITH HER IS NOT AN OPTION.What are some good wats to break up with your girl friend?
Things you wouldn't let her do? Like what? You sound like a control freak. I hope that your girlfriend and this other girl realize that you are a jerk and both never talk to you again.What are some good wats to break up with your girl friend?
i'm sorry baby...i love you...but just not in that way....how do i say this....i'm gay
then kiss your best friend
well if your not happy then leave and if she keeps doing things that make you upset then you have a right to leave and if theres someone better then her then so be it just tell hey u and i have been going out for a year and you do things that i wouldnt do to you and i dont like that we need to take are seperate ways ! thats all you have to say and trust me it will be hard but if your not happy then move on ! i hope this works! and your feelings will always be there for her so thats going to be alittle harder too!
just say it. no better way
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
How do you get over the loneliness after a break up?
im a guy and my girl broke up with me but im still feelin it a bit....what is the best ways to get past it? I know this is kinda gay but just wondering cause my summer is suffering from it!How do you get over the loneliness after a break up?
Keep busy. Burn her letters and pictures. Delete all her texts and e-mail.
Keep busy. Burn her letters and pictures. Delete all her texts and e-mail.
How do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?
ive already broken up with her once,but through someone else what do i say to make it quik and painless,without gossipy backfireHow do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?
WOW! You broke up with her the first time through someone else? I wonder why she gave you a second chance. Anyway coming to your question....the gentleman way is to see her, be cool, distant, and in short tell her that it has to end. It is not working for you.
The coward's way is to text her.
Your choice. See which way you can live with.How do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?
No breakup is going to be painless for the other person if they really like you. You have to tough it out and realize that any ';gossipy backfire'; will subside in a few days.
';Hey, I don't think this is working out anymore. You're a really great person, but I think I see you as more of a friend than a girlfriend.';
Be straightforward and honest. Hearing the news secondhand or simply given the cold shoulder often hurts worse than just having the facts given to you.
Quick and to the point - like ripping off a band-aid, I guess. :)
You don't break up with someone through someone else. Breaking up is not easy. You need to talk to her or at least write her a goodbye letter. so remember this uncomfortable feeling. next time you get in a relationship. Be careful what you tell your next gf. Don't tell her you love her untill you mean it. I think people, I know I have in the past, like the idea of being in a relationship. then they end up with someone they don't want to be with. Choose carefully. If you had enough courage to start a relationship then you have enough courage to end it.
lol that happened to me a couple times...what i did was when ur around her pretend like your mad and if she try to kiss you or somethign walk away ..or somethign then any little thing she does try to argue about it and then say your tired of arguing blah blah blah and say maybe we should be together or you know what f**k it i rather be single that way i dont have to worry bout arguing with you .....then for like the next coupel of days act mad or somethign around here that way if u regret it and want to get back with her all you have to say is sorry i was just really mad at somethign personal ......lol not only do you break up with her u also have her on check lol
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me twice. The first time he changed his profile status on facebook to single, the second time it was a voice mail.
That was a total assy thing to do. I know it seems hard, but you've got to brave up, and do it in person. It will hurt her, and she might cry a little, but you've got to make this the kindest possible. Say you are so sorry for putting her through this, and that you feel terrible, but things just aren't working out.
Hope I've helped.
I would say that the more painful way to do it and the way that causes the most gossip is to do it through someone else. Wow. How big a coward are you?
Man up and tell her in as direct a way as you can.
Well, if she really cares about you then she's going to be heart broken no matter what however, you can always says I think we're better off friends or something like that to let her off easy
Be a man and just tell her that you aren't feeling her that way and that you don't want to be with her anymore
tell u no need a gf yet let me friends only when i feel ready to date i will look again good luck
look ***** GTFO
idk this is a hard question
tell her your dying
WOW! You broke up with her the first time through someone else? I wonder why she gave you a second chance. Anyway coming to your question....the gentleman way is to see her, be cool, distant, and in short tell her that it has to end. It is not working for you.
The coward's way is to text her.
Your choice. See which way you can live with.How do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?
No breakup is going to be painless for the other person if they really like you. You have to tough it out and realize that any ';gossipy backfire'; will subside in a few days.
';Hey, I don't think this is working out anymore. You're a really great person, but I think I see you as more of a friend than a girlfriend.';
Be straightforward and honest. Hearing the news secondhand or simply given the cold shoulder often hurts worse than just having the facts given to you.
Quick and to the point - like ripping off a band-aid, I guess. :)
You don't break up with someone through someone else. Breaking up is not easy. You need to talk to her or at least write her a goodbye letter. so remember this uncomfortable feeling. next time you get in a relationship. Be careful what you tell your next gf. Don't tell her you love her untill you mean it. I think people, I know I have in the past, like the idea of being in a relationship. then they end up with someone they don't want to be with. Choose carefully. If you had enough courage to start a relationship then you have enough courage to end it.
lol that happened to me a couple times...what i did was when ur around her pretend like your mad and if she try to kiss you or somethign walk away ..or somethign then any little thing she does try to argue about it and then say your tired of arguing blah blah blah and say maybe we should be together or you know what f**k it i rather be single that way i dont have to worry bout arguing with you .....then for like the next coupel of days act mad or somethign around here that way if u regret it and want to get back with her all you have to say is sorry i was just really mad at somethign personal ......lol not only do you break up with her u also have her on check lol
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me twice. The first time he changed his profile status on facebook to single, the second time it was a voice mail.
That was a total assy thing to do. I know it seems hard, but you've got to brave up, and do it in person. It will hurt her, and she might cry a little, but you've got to make this the kindest possible. Say you are so sorry for putting her through this, and that you feel terrible, but things just aren't working out.
Hope I've helped.
I would say that the more painful way to do it and the way that causes the most gossip is to do it through someone else. Wow. How big a coward are you?
Man up and tell her in as direct a way as you can.
Well, if she really cares about you then she's going to be heart broken no matter what however, you can always says I think we're better off friends or something like that to let her off easy
Be a man and just tell her that you aren't feeling her that way and that you don't want to be with her anymore
tell u no need a gf yet let me friends only when i feel ready to date i will look again good luck
look ***** GTFO
idk this is a hard question
tell her your dying
How do you tell your girl of almost a year that you have feelings for someone else and what to break up?
I have been with my girl for almost a year now. She went off to school in august. And since she has been gone I have been hanging out with some old friends of mine. Well one of them likes me and I am starting to really like her. Its to the point now where I want to either break up with my girl or tell her that I need time apart and go be with this other girl. But I don't know how to do it. She is flying back tomorrow night. She hasn't been home in almost three months and is very excited. I don't want to hurt her or ruin her weekend, but I need to say something this weekend. Should I say something as soon as she gets here and I see her? Should I wait until friday night and tell her then? Should I wait until she is leaving to go back to tell her? I don't know what to do.How do you tell your girl of almost a year that you have feelings for someone else and what to break up?
Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!How do you tell your girl of almost a year that you have feelings for someone else and what to break up?
say to her i have feelings for some one else and i no longer want to be with you I'm sorry
I am a firm believer in not saying something isn't always lying... Tell her you can't do the distance thing, and you feel you need to move on... but leave the part of the other girl out. Eventually she'll find out anyway, but let's not throw too much her way all at once.
Sms her thats the go these days. On a seriuos note you sound like your only young don't you think it would be better to enjoy yourself instead of being with one girl. Also the long distance romance doesn't work. I had this problem once travelling long distances for just the weekend, you get sick of it. If you were meant to be together in the end it will happen. I truly believe this.
Oh BOO YOU!!! You're gonna break this poor girl's heart. That's harsh. Anyhoo, the best time to tell her this sh*t prolly woulda been BEFORE she left to come home. But since it's too late for that, you should prolly come clean with her right off the get go so she has the whole weekend to try and settle sh*t before she leaves. If you lead her on and don't fess up until right before she goes back, it's gonna be WAY harder on her to be out of punching range. You're gonna look like an *sshole either way.
Truth is, you should have told her long before she flew back to see you. But since you didn't, I';d suggest waiting until the end of the weekend. Spend time with her like normal, but the day that she leaves, tell her you want to break up or take a break. Just be honest.
The sooner you tell her the better. Its not going to be easy for either one of you.
hang out with your girl while she is home and if you feel the same way tell her that a long distance relationship wont work,that you need her near to you.
I know you're not going to like my answer, but here goes...
Tell her! Don't lead her on, just sit her down and tell her the
truth. I know it's not gonna be fun, especially if she's still into
you, but it's the best thing to do.
Put yourself in her shoes...would you want somebody to be
with you while they're busy thinking about someone else?
I know I wouldn't.
Man, it sure is hard for both of you but you have no choice but to be honest enough to her that would be fair to her but i don't think this is the right time. But mind you make sure you don't love her anymore before you do anything. You might be feeling that way because she had been away while the other girl is around. I would suggest that you take time, be with her and try to fiqure out your feelings after this meeting if after a week or so you realized its really the new girl be the one to visit her and talk it out with her. but please, have a heart for her, not now she is too excited to take the shock, i am not saying you should pretend but it would also give you time to assess things.
just tell her...
tell earlier because if too long maybe u will hurt her more..
are u sure first???
make sure no regret! tell her as soon as possible as it is the fate... say it fast as it wont bother u anymore and she might has the sane thought as u did not meet each other for some time
ever heard of ...';there's no easy way to break somebody's heart';... it will hurt her, but she'll soon recover...go tell her now!
Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!How do you tell your girl of almost a year that you have feelings for someone else and what to break up?
say to her i have feelings for some one else and i no longer want to be with you I'm sorry
I am a firm believer in not saying something isn't always lying... Tell her you can't do the distance thing, and you feel you need to move on... but leave the part of the other girl out. Eventually she'll find out anyway, but let's not throw too much her way all at once.
Sms her thats the go these days. On a seriuos note you sound like your only young don't you think it would be better to enjoy yourself instead of being with one girl. Also the long distance romance doesn't work. I had this problem once travelling long distances for just the weekend, you get sick of it. If you were meant to be together in the end it will happen. I truly believe this.
Oh BOO YOU!!! You're gonna break this poor girl's heart. That's harsh. Anyhoo, the best time to tell her this sh*t prolly woulda been BEFORE she left to come home. But since it's too late for that, you should prolly come clean with her right off the get go so she has the whole weekend to try and settle sh*t before she leaves. If you lead her on and don't fess up until right before she goes back, it's gonna be WAY harder on her to be out of punching range. You're gonna look like an *sshole either way.
Truth is, you should have told her long before she flew back to see you. But since you didn't, I';d suggest waiting until the end of the weekend. Spend time with her like normal, but the day that she leaves, tell her you want to break up or take a break. Just be honest.
The sooner you tell her the better. Its not going to be easy for either one of you.
hang out with your girl while she is home and if you feel the same way tell her that a long distance relationship wont work,that you need her near to you.
I know you're not going to like my answer, but here goes...
Tell her! Don't lead her on, just sit her down and tell her the
truth. I know it's not gonna be fun, especially if she's still into
you, but it's the best thing to do.
Put yourself in her shoes...would you want somebody to be
with you while they're busy thinking about someone else?
I know I wouldn't.
Man, it sure is hard for both of you but you have no choice but to be honest enough to her that would be fair to her but i don't think this is the right time. But mind you make sure you don't love her anymore before you do anything. You might be feeling that way because she had been away while the other girl is around. I would suggest that you take time, be with her and try to fiqure out your feelings after this meeting if after a week or so you realized its really the new girl be the one to visit her and talk it out with her. but please, have a heart for her, not now she is too excited to take the shock, i am not saying you should pretend but it would also give you time to assess things.
just tell her...
tell earlier because if too long maybe u will hurt her more..
are u sure first???
make sure no regret! tell her as soon as possible as it is the fate... say it fast as it wont bother u anymore and she might has the sane thought as u did not meet each other for some time
ever heard of ...';there's no easy way to break somebody's heart';... it will hurt her, but she'll soon recover...go tell her now!
How to ask out and break up with a girl...
Almost in High School so Id better know this... THANKS!How to ask out and break up with a girl...
don't ever break up by email, never break up w/ someone when she has a big problem, don't break up w/ her when she is in a cast or is sick, don't flirt w/ other girls when you haven't broken up w/ her yet. never lie to a girl when asking her out....How to ask out and break up with a girl...
to ask a girl out u have to become her friend first, then youll figure it out from there.
to break up, you have to have a good reason too, and what ever the reason might be, would likely be your break up line.
tell her you got a huge dick, then she'll want you.
BAM girlfriend
then she sees your pathetic excuse for one
BAM no girlfriend
don't ever break up by email, never break up w/ someone when she has a big problem, don't break up w/ her when she is in a cast or is sick, don't flirt w/ other girls when you haven't broken up w/ her yet. never lie to a girl when asking her out....How to ask out and break up with a girl...
to ask a girl out u have to become her friend first, then youll figure it out from there.
to break up, you have to have a good reason too, and what ever the reason might be, would likely be your break up line.
tell her you got a huge dick, then she'll want you.
BAM girlfriend
then she sees your pathetic excuse for one
BAM no girlfriend
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