what is the best excuse or some possible excuses that you guys have used to break up with your girlfriend or a girl you were ';seeing'; not officially dating...and how did she react?Boy's: what is the best excuse that you have used to break up with a girl?
My ex's excuse was his mom told him to do so, because he doesn't deserve me; which ended up being true..Boy's: what is the best excuse that you have used to break up with a girl?
well my man wasnt using an excuse instead he wrote a girl saying he would drop what he got for me. So just be honest because excuses are lame! just be up front and tell her how you feel.
it's not really an excuse, but I became deathly ill (bronchitis AND the flu) and I asked her to keep away for her own health...
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to get a girl to break up with her boyfreind for you?
is there a certain strategy u can use to get girl to break up with her boyfrend for uHow to get a girl to break up with her boyfreind for you?
best not to interferer
best not to interferer
Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
If you break up with someone and you tell them it's not it's me how is that bad when that could be the real reason. Maybe you don't trust your partner or feel feel insecure which is pretty much goes hand in hand. Maybe you don't feel connected to your partner anymore so that is technically still YOU. Do you actually think people 100 percent truthful? Should you say ';I don't think it's working anymore'; which is just as VAGUE as saying ';it's not it's me';.Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
Mayb you should say the reason instead of just, it's not you it's me.Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
It's cliche, but it's better than most cliches so if you can't be more specific, go ahead and use it.
nah just say
';***** its over.
now get the **** out of my house and on the street..';';
Mayb you should say the reason instead of just, it's not you it's me.Should I say ';it's not you it's me'; to break up with a girl? why not?
It's cliche, but it's better than most cliches so if you can't be more specific, go ahead and use it.
nah just say
';***** its over.
now get the **** out of my house and on the street..';';
Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Well I got got done with a rather terrible break up. My girl ended up cheating on me, insulting me and well making me look like a fool at my entire school
I'm in so much pain right now, all I can do is think about her, but the only thing I want to do is go for a rebound. Find someone else to fill that void in my heart. I feel it's the only way for me to get better.
Sadly because I'm so down and depressed picking up girl's won't be easy with my mindset, so all I can do is try.
Anyone got any tips on rebounds?Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Im really sorry about what she did to you... Don't go for the rebound. You'll end up with more pain and regrets than what you started with. Just give yourself time to deal with the pain. Although it is painful, it is only healthy to deal with the pain than to try to hide it... Once it builds up inside it can be extremely damaging.Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Rebounds only work for a very short time...you need to get over your old girlfriend so you're not using the new girl to complain to...that is known as ';carrying baggage';. Everyone that your ex-girlfriend mouths off to is going to think SHE'S the jerk, so relax, go on about your business, and some other girl will come along to heal your broken heart. Keep the faith!
Been there, done that.. Doesn't work just makes everything worst.. Just take sometime off dating.. Find yourself before you start finding for someone :)uninstall internet explorer c++
I'm in so much pain right now, all I can do is think about her, but the only thing I want to do is go for a rebound. Find someone else to fill that void in my heart. I feel it's the only way for me to get better.
Sadly because I'm so down and depressed picking up girl's won't be easy with my mindset, so all I can do is try.
Anyone got any tips on rebounds?Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Im really sorry about what she did to you... Don't go for the rebound. You'll end up with more pain and regrets than what you started with. Just give yourself time to deal with the pain. Although it is painful, it is only healthy to deal with the pain than to try to hide it... Once it builds up inside it can be extremely damaging.Just got out of a hard break up. Looking to rebound Should I? Shouldn't I? How?
Rebounds only work for a very short time...you need to get over your old girlfriend so you're not using the new girl to complain to...that is known as ';carrying baggage';. Everyone that your ex-girlfriend mouths off to is going to think SHE'S the jerk, so relax, go on about your business, and some other girl will come along to heal your broken heart. Keep the faith!
Been there, done that.. Doesn't work just makes everything worst.. Just take sometime off dating.. Find yourself before you start finding for someone :)
How Long after a girl breaks up?
How Long after a girl breaks up with a guy till they're ready to date again?How Long after a girl breaks up?
it really depends on a lot of factors man
how long the relationship was
how good or bad it was
how much love and commitment there was in the relationship
how much they have both let go of each other
etc...How Long after a girl breaks up?
It depends on how long she was out with the guy. If it was just a couple weeks, give her a week. However, console her in her week of grieving. If it is months with the same guy, give her a couple weeks. However, again console her the couple of weeks while she is grieving. Make your call.
until she actually likes him again. a durr.
but most girls break up for a reason soo...don't expect anything.
right away, whenever you feel up to it.
give them 1 day or two!
it really depends on a lot of factors man
how long the relationship was
how good or bad it was
how much love and commitment there was in the relationship
how much they have both let go of each other
etc...How Long after a girl breaks up?
It depends on how long she was out with the guy. If it was just a couple weeks, give her a week. However, console her in her week of grieving. If it is months with the same guy, give her a couple weeks. However, again console her the couple of weeks while she is grieving. Make your call.
until she actually likes him again. a durr.
but most girls break up for a reason soo...don't expect anything.
right away, whenever you feel up to it.
give them 1 day or two!
Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
if she dont see it coming then what is the problem?if your in a realtionship thats showing her NO signs of a break up you must be a shallow person to just want to end it without her sensing anything is wrong..
also if she dont see it coming it means you havent not tried to talk threw any issue your having with her.your just jumping to hurting her.typical male!
either that or she DOES see it coming..
guys are such idiots..leaving it up to yahoo answers to break a girls heart...
i hope she leaves your sorry *** first!Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
This might sound weird but why instead of you breaking up with her ... try her to break up with you... use your imagination. Then you wont be a hearth breaker. Haven't tried it myself but a friend told me that works.Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
so u wont be waisting time and she dont keep thinking something is still their. its always good to say it straight out .
also if she dont see it coming it means you havent not tried to talk threw any issue your having with her.your just jumping to hurting her.typical male!
either that or she DOES see it coming..
guys are such idiots..leaving it up to yahoo answers to break a girls heart...
i hope she leaves your sorry *** first!Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
This might sound weird but why instead of you breaking up with her ... try her to break up with you... use your imagination. Then you wont be a hearth breaker. Haven't tried it myself but a friend told me that works.Any tips on how to break up with a girl who probably doesnt see it coming?
so u wont be waisting time and she dont keep thinking something is still their. its always good to say it straight out .
I broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
she is older than me and she was playing mind games with me...........i never wanted to argue or fight with her..........just wanted to make her happy and believed that we should treat each other equally .........
any how she use to say sorry but then behave the same way after that.......
she came to my place and i thought it will be better to break up at that moment........before i could say anything she was kissing me and you know the rest........while we were laying naked in each others arms i told her that we should break up .........and it will be good to end it on a good note instead of fighting and then breaking up..........
she was obviously shocked but i still think it was a better way of breaking up (more civilised and mature) rather having a fight and breaking up......
what do you think people was i right or was i wrong and whyI broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
When I went to college I was 5 hours away from my boyfriend. We talked for hours a day, every day as I would think a couple that had been together for two years would do. But within a month our conversations got shorter. Sometimes he wouldn't call at all, when I called him he wouldn't answer, etc. I planned a trip to visit him. He had been kicked out of his parents house. He was living in a crap apartment, he had no food only beer and I began to feel bad. My intention was to see him, spend time with him and talk about our relationship. After getting awkward vibes from him I decided that night we would have sex and then I would be able to tell which way our relationship should go. I missed him so much and sex had always been fantastic before, but this night it was awful. We lied naked in each others arms for a while and I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. He was pissed because I knew he felt used. I gathered my things and left and afterward I felt as if a giant weight had been lifted from me.
In hindsight he was playing mind games and trying to make me feel as if I needed him. The method of breaking up was kind of shitty, but what's done is done and saying you're sorry, even if you aren't really, still doesn't clean salt from a wound. Let it go and move on.I broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
I think it is very immature for you to sleep with somone and then break up with them. It sounds like your a highschool boy, or like 19 years old. You should not have had sex with her and then broke up with her. I would have been so pissed at you. It makes it look like you used her to have sex, and then just said ohh heyy by the way I dont want to be with you..
You should really grow up.
i personally would be pretty pissed if my boyfriend broke up with me right after i got done screwing him but if she was okay with it then cool. Yes no 1 wants to fight but i wouldnt of done it that way.
to each is own
breaking up immediately after having sex with her? that's real mean and naughty! i'm sure santa's putting you on his naughty list this christmas.
what's done is done, i guess. i hope she survives this though.
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I think it was a little harsh...sometimes women are offended by the ';naked break-up';, but myself, I think that it is nicer than fighting. : ) That's just me though!
i think thats funny.
but if a guy did it to me i would probably grab his dick and yank it off.
:)
it was kinda mean.
Not good it would have been better to break up on the phone than this. You might have really hurt her.
You couldnt be more wrong. That was an awful thing to do. You should be ashamed of yourself.
thats...really interesting. ive never heard of something like that before. but its not so horrible of an idea honestly- at least there's good heart behind it...although she might take it as you thought of her as a whore.
Ive heard of one last Howrah but dang. I wouldn't have done it that way but then I have been with the same person for 8 years.
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no because you lead her on
lol
any how she use to say sorry but then behave the same way after that.......
she came to my place and i thought it will be better to break up at that moment........before i could say anything she was kissing me and you know the rest........while we were laying naked in each others arms i told her that we should break up .........and it will be good to end it on a good note instead of fighting and then breaking up..........
she was obviously shocked but i still think it was a better way of breaking up (more civilised and mature) rather having a fight and breaking up......
what do you think people was i right or was i wrong and whyI broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
When I went to college I was 5 hours away from my boyfriend. We talked for hours a day, every day as I would think a couple that had been together for two years would do. But within a month our conversations got shorter. Sometimes he wouldn't call at all, when I called him he wouldn't answer, etc. I planned a trip to visit him. He had been kicked out of his parents house. He was living in a crap apartment, he had no food only beer and I began to feel bad. My intention was to see him, spend time with him and talk about our relationship. After getting awkward vibes from him I decided that night we would have sex and then I would be able to tell which way our relationship should go. I missed him so much and sex had always been fantastic before, but this night it was awful. We lied naked in each others arms for a while and I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. He was pissed because I knew he felt used. I gathered my things and left and afterward I felt as if a giant weight had been lifted from me.
In hindsight he was playing mind games and trying to make me feel as if I needed him. The method of breaking up was kind of shitty, but what's done is done and saying you're sorry, even if you aren't really, still doesn't clean salt from a wound. Let it go and move on.I broke up while we were in bed............was it the right way to break up ....girls and guys?
I think it is very immature for you to sleep with somone and then break up with them. It sounds like your a highschool boy, or like 19 years old. You should not have had sex with her and then broke up with her. I would have been so pissed at you. It makes it look like you used her to have sex, and then just said ohh heyy by the way I dont want to be with you..
You should really grow up.
i personally would be pretty pissed if my boyfriend broke up with me right after i got done screwing him but if she was okay with it then cool. Yes no 1 wants to fight but i wouldnt of done it that way.
to each is own
breaking up immediately after having sex with her? that's real mean and naughty! i'm sure santa's putting you on his naughty list this christmas.
what's done is done, i guess. i hope she survives this though.
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I think it was a little harsh...sometimes women are offended by the ';naked break-up';, but myself, I think that it is nicer than fighting. : ) That's just me though!
i think thats funny.
but if a guy did it to me i would probably grab his dick and yank it off.
:)
it was kinda mean.
Not good it would have been better to break up on the phone than this. You might have really hurt her.
You couldnt be more wrong. That was an awful thing to do. You should be ashamed of yourself.
thats...really interesting. ive never heard of something like that before. but its not so horrible of an idea honestly- at least there's good heart behind it...although she might take it as you thought of her as a whore.
Ive heard of one last Howrah but dang. I wouldn't have done it that way but then I have been with the same person for 8 years.
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no because you lead her on
lol
How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
theres this girl and she is only going out with this guy just so she can say she is going out with him so dont think im a total jerk because she really doesnt like him. so how do i convince her to break up with him and get in a serious relationship with me?How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
To me I wouldn't think a person would want to. I mean if shes really that stupid to go with someone for that reason, why would you want to go with her?How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
She needs to make her own decisions and realize her own mistakes. You have to wait, no one likes a relationship wrecker whether it's a good relationship or not. When she wants you she'll come to her.
Your making a huge assumption that this girl thinks the other guy is a jerk. Very few girls go out with a guy they don't like. Unfortunately, she has chosen to be with this other guy and you need to respect that, or she WILL think you're a jerk. There are other fish in the sea. So go fish for some of them.
First of all - don't actually try to break them up.
Become friends with her.
Then confess feelings.
If she likes you more, she'll probably leave him.
To me I wouldn't think a person would want to. I mean if shes really that stupid to go with someone for that reason, why would you want to go with her?How do i convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with her?
She needs to make her own decisions and realize her own mistakes. You have to wait, no one likes a relationship wrecker whether it's a good relationship or not. When she wants you she'll come to her.
Your making a huge assumption that this girl thinks the other guy is a jerk. Very few girls go out with a guy they don't like. Unfortunately, she has chosen to be with this other guy and you need to respect that, or she WILL think you're a jerk. There are other fish in the sea. So go fish for some of them.
First of all - don't actually try to break them up.
Become friends with her.
Then confess feelings.
If she likes you more, she'll probably leave him.
How to break up with a girl?
i need to know how to break up with my girl friend with out hurting her. we been dating for a year now. and i need to break up with her. i was thinking telling her i was gay or something uncontrollable along those kind or lines.How to break up with a girl?
tell her it just isn't working out. just grow some balls and do it. that's the cleanest break you'll ever be able to get. don't make up stuff.
tell her it just isn't working out. just grow some balls and do it. that's the cleanest break you'll ever be able to get. don't make up stuff.
How to break up with a girl after a steady relationship?
I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now and i want out, but i have no idea what to say cause i really dont have a good reason why i want to... can anyone give me ideas on what to say?How to break up with a girl after a steady relationship?
just be honest..im guessing you want out because you dont love her like you used to? or maybe you dont want anything serious anymore and just want to have fun.. I cant really give you a reason without knowing the situation...just tell her the true reason because nothings worse then getting a bunch of excuses and lies when your being dumped hahuninstall internet explorer c++
just be honest..im guessing you want out because you dont love her like you used to? or maybe you dont want anything serious anymore and just want to have fun.. I cant really give you a reason without knowing the situation...just tell her the true reason because nothings worse then getting a bunch of excuses and lies when your being dumped hah
How to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
Ok this girl isnt really my girlfriend but we have been on and off for a while and we have been talking and stuff and this girl knows some very personal secrets of mine, she is very into me, but i dont feel the same way, but also there are two other girls i wanna go to, but she knows them and she might tell them my secrets, how do i break up with this girl without getting her angry and keeping her trustworthyHow to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
tell her that you think that you are better off as friends... you want to be close friends and keep each others secrets, but you just dont think being in a relationship with eachother is a good thing. tell her how you feel and tell her you are sorry and not to be mad at you. make sure not to tell her anything that will upset her...make it all happy and maybe even compliment her on something like her hair or clothesHow to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
Just talk to her and be calm.
There is no easy way to break up with her...girls usually tend to get sad, angry or both no matter how you ended it with her. Just tell her that you don't want to be with her, but tell her that you still want to keep her trust. Good luck.
tell her that you think that you are better off as friends... you want to be close friends and keep each others secrets, but you just dont think being in a relationship with eachother is a good thing. tell her how you feel and tell her you are sorry and not to be mad at you. make sure not to tell her anything that will upset her...make it all happy and maybe even compliment her on something like her hair or clothesHow to break up with this girl, who has you in a tight spot?
Just talk to her and be calm.
There is no easy way to break up with her...girls usually tend to get sad, angry or both no matter how you ended it with her. Just tell her that you don't want to be with her, but tell her that you still want to keep her trust. Good luck.
How do you break up with a girl?
How do break up with a girl that you have had a long but kind of a ****** up relationship and you know well atleast think that she likes u alot but u know it needs to end.How do you break up with a girl?
Tell her that you've reached a point in your life, where you've realized it's important to surround yourself with stable adult relationships. And as much as you two might have in common, or have history together, you don't think being in a relationship with her is healthy for either of you.
And on a side note, honest is good, but its not an excuse to be an absolute asshole. Also, when you guys do that long slow blow off, it tends to hurt us more. It's kind of like a bandaid, just rip it off quickly.How do you break up with a girl?
tell her its over. tell it to her face, not over the internet, it just shows your a pussy.
You don't do what I just did. Wait. No it would work for you. I just told my girlfriend to quit cutting into my friend time and she got pissed for more than just that, trust me she's not a *****. Just tell her shes naggy and hogs your homeboys time. Or if you want to be nice. Be like...My mom think's you a skank, and I she'll kick my *** out of the house if I date you or keep dating you.
Face to face. You look her in the eye and say, ';I'm sorry but I don't think we should see each other anymore. It's not working for me. I wish it could have worked out.';
Don't tell her you want to remain friends, and don't agree when she proposes that you remain friends. This just gives her false hope and will keep both of you from moving on. If she says she wants to stay friends, you can say, ';I don't know how I feel about staying friends. Right now, I think I'd like time apart to get my head together.';
Oddly enough, if you both make a clean break of it and move on, there is a chance you CAN become friends down the road. It's only when the feelings are unequal (one of you wants to get back with the other) that you really can't be friends.
Be direct. Be certain. Be respectful.
Sleeping with her best friend will usually do the trick.
Make sure to take pictures.
Don't play around. Tell her straight up it's over.
invite her over a cup of coffee n break it gently saying she can reach u always as a friend
here are some steps:
Have things turned around in your relationship?
Know for sure that you really do want to break up. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.
Before having ';the talk'; that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.
# Plan out how long you are willing to spend ';breaking up'; and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say ';I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now.';
# Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked ';why?'; or ';about what?';, simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.
# Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:
* Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
* Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.
* Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.
* Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.
* Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying ';You'll never find anyone as good as me'; or as scary as saying ';I'll make you regret this';, he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.
just pull her a side and tell her if you let it go it will only hurt her even more
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I think it pretty much sums it up for any girl.
nip it in the bud.
to the point.
why linger? GET OUT! BREAK CLEAN!
run.
to be very honest and tell her its over
have a friend tell her u killed urself, then go into hiding until she kills herself, hehe.
'Let's break up'
Delete her off all contacts.
Well I like the way Jerry Seinfeld handles it, u tell her that the problem is really not her but U. That's right, turn it around to convince her that's it's not her that's the problem but U. It's slick and it works, they usually don't get mad or cry or anything because they are left thinking, hey! It's not my fault, there's nothing wrong with me. Good luck.
Be quick, respectful, and honest
I dunno ive never had a girlfriend. Al i can sayu is let her down easy. Im sorry if i wasnt much help.
Oh your so mean, what a freaking jerk!
call her or walk up to her and say ITS OVER
yesa
don't break up with a girl ever! She'll spend the rest of her life trying to mess you up... but that's just my opinion.
It's easy to send an email. Be as professional as you can without saying you will break up with her. Use some big words and ****. Also, make it long so she'll get bored and eventually get the point.
Good luck.
you play, ';the end'; by the doors
you'll be back just take a break see what hapens.
well first be understanding to her feelings you will probably hurt after you do it just be honest not just with her but with yourself
i was stuck in this situation.
i think i just flat out told him. it's better to let the person know than just keep the relationship going on.
you say its over and walk away
Tell her that you've reached a point in your life, where you've realized it's important to surround yourself with stable adult relationships. And as much as you two might have in common, or have history together, you don't think being in a relationship with her is healthy for either of you.
And on a side note, honest is good, but its not an excuse to be an absolute asshole. Also, when you guys do that long slow blow off, it tends to hurt us more. It's kind of like a bandaid, just rip it off quickly.How do you break up with a girl?
tell her its over. tell it to her face, not over the internet, it just shows your a pussy.
You don't do what I just did. Wait. No it would work for you. I just told my girlfriend to quit cutting into my friend time and she got pissed for more than just that, trust me she's not a *****. Just tell her shes naggy and hogs your homeboys time. Or if you want to be nice. Be like...My mom think's you a skank, and I she'll kick my *** out of the house if I date you or keep dating you.
Face to face. You look her in the eye and say, ';I'm sorry but I don't think we should see each other anymore. It's not working for me. I wish it could have worked out.';
Don't tell her you want to remain friends, and don't agree when she proposes that you remain friends. This just gives her false hope and will keep both of you from moving on. If she says she wants to stay friends, you can say, ';I don't know how I feel about staying friends. Right now, I think I'd like time apart to get my head together.';
Oddly enough, if you both make a clean break of it and move on, there is a chance you CAN become friends down the road. It's only when the feelings are unequal (one of you wants to get back with the other) that you really can't be friends.
Be direct. Be certain. Be respectful.
Sleeping with her best friend will usually do the trick.
Make sure to take pictures.
Don't play around. Tell her straight up it's over.
invite her over a cup of coffee n break it gently saying she can reach u always as a friend
here are some steps:
Have things turned around in your relationship?
Know for sure that you really do want to break up. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.
Before having ';the talk'; that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.
# Plan out how long you are willing to spend ';breaking up'; and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say ';I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now.';
# Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked ';why?'; or ';about what?';, simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.
# Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:
* Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
* Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.
* Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.
* Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.
* Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying ';You'll never find anyone as good as me'; or as scary as saying ';I'll make you regret this';, he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.
just pull her a side and tell her if you let it go it will only hurt her even more
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I think it pretty much sums it up for any girl.
nip it in the bud.
to the point.
why linger? GET OUT! BREAK CLEAN!
run.
to be very honest and tell her its over
have a friend tell her u killed urself, then go into hiding until she kills herself, hehe.
'Let's break up'
Delete her off all contacts.
Well I like the way Jerry Seinfeld handles it, u tell her that the problem is really not her but U. That's right, turn it around to convince her that's it's not her that's the problem but U. It's slick and it works, they usually don't get mad or cry or anything because they are left thinking, hey! It's not my fault, there's nothing wrong with me. Good luck.
Be quick, respectful, and honest
I dunno ive never had a girlfriend. Al i can sayu is let her down easy. Im sorry if i wasnt much help.
Oh your so mean, what a freaking jerk!
call her or walk up to her and say ITS OVER
yesa
don't break up with a girl ever! She'll spend the rest of her life trying to mess you up... but that's just my opinion.
It's easy to send an email. Be as professional as you can without saying you will break up with her. Use some big words and ****. Also, make it long so she'll get bored and eventually get the point.
Good luck.
you play, ';the end'; by the doors
you'll be back just take a break see what hapens.
well first be understanding to her feelings you will probably hurt after you do it just be honest not just with her but with yourself
i was stuck in this situation.
i think i just flat out told him. it's better to let the person know than just keep the relationship going on.
you say its over and walk away
How to break up with a girl?
How do you break up with your girlfriend and not hurt her feelings? She already sad she loves me.How to break up with a girl?
The best way is to make her hate you( this way she wont cry much, nor she would be really sad that you ditched her). Tell her that you like some other girl. If you tell her that you are simply breaking up with her, she may go under depression. So a reason is a must.How to break up with a girl?
Just say the truth. I would say to the person that I feel it is time we were not together anymore, but I still want to be your friend. I have kept several good friends this way even though at first they go through a withdrawal phase in which they are stunned and depressed. I try to be there for them even then personally because I explain the reasons when they will ask for my thoughts. Oftentimes, they come to realize that the reasons are logical and that feeling get in the way of a bad mesh of personalities or a nagging issue.
Tell her that you want to do a 3-way with her and her mom... She will be so repulsed that she will dump you! And if she says yes, well then saddle up... Either way, it's a win, win for you.
just say you need time to yourself and then call her in two weeks and say you have moved on and you hope you can stay friends
just tell him nicely that you need time to re-evaluate your relationship and seeing other people is part of the evaluation
Wear some stinky socks and make her smell them.
Shes going to have hurt feelings no matter what if she said shes in love with you, u just have to be considerate of her feelings and let her down easy.
If she said she loves you...she will have her feelings hurt when you break up with her.
The only way it won't hurt her feelings is if she is already seeing someone else.
Or if she thinks you are a jerk for some reason.
Be honest with her, there is no reason to lead her on-
it'll only hurt her more in the long run.
Good Luck
Break it to her easy. Don't use myspace, or facebook (she might not check her messages and she would think you were still going out). If she is a very emotional girl don't break up with her in person, at least in public and when doing it tell her the exact truth.
Dont lie, and do it in person, that way you will show respect
tell her exactly why you are breaking up with her, otherwise she will try to fix the relationship based on the fake reason you gave her which will end up in her getting nore hurt that she would of otherwise
she may be more hurt in the short run but in the long term, the truth is better
and if you cannot bring yourself to tell her the real reason, then ask yourself why you are breaking up with her for a reason that seems so insignificant when you say it out loud that you dont feel that you can tell her. think about if it is really what you want to do
If you want to break up with a girl, DO NOT do it in front of her friends. Take her to a private place and tell her how you think she's great and tell her all the stuff you like about her. Then you tell her even though she's a awsome person you think maybe that you two weren't meant to be together and there's alot of great guys out there that your sure would love her and appreciate her way more then you ever could.
If you let this girl down hard after she said she loved you i'm going to personaly kill you!
Just tell her you think it is better if you guys break up. do it quick, don't lead her on, it will only make things worse.
Just be honest. IT will hurt her more if you dont tell her.
Just be honest and tell her that this isn't working for you. Tell her a reason why, but it has to do with you. Like if she's annoying, don't tell her! Say that you're not ready to be in a relationship right now. Be kind but clear that it's over. Breaking up is never ever easy, but you have to do it, if you don't feel that it's right. Otherwise it's unfair towards her.
show some exceptions and not interested un her
flip her the birdie
Thats pretty much not possible.
just try to be as considerate as you can!
BE NICE!
dont talk about it to your friends!
try to make her understand that you are not hurting her on purpose!!!
Good Luck Bro!
The best way is to make her hate you( this way she wont cry much, nor she would be really sad that you ditched her). Tell her that you like some other girl. If you tell her that you are simply breaking up with her, she may go under depression. So a reason is a must.How to break up with a girl?
Just say the truth. I would say to the person that I feel it is time we were not together anymore, but I still want to be your friend. I have kept several good friends this way even though at first they go through a withdrawal phase in which they are stunned and depressed. I try to be there for them even then personally because I explain the reasons when they will ask for my thoughts. Oftentimes, they come to realize that the reasons are logical and that feeling get in the way of a bad mesh of personalities or a nagging issue.
Tell her that you want to do a 3-way with her and her mom... She will be so repulsed that she will dump you! And if she says yes, well then saddle up... Either way, it's a win, win for you.
just say you need time to yourself and then call her in two weeks and say you have moved on and you hope you can stay friends
just tell him nicely that you need time to re-evaluate your relationship and seeing other people is part of the evaluation
Wear some stinky socks and make her smell them.
Shes going to have hurt feelings no matter what if she said shes in love with you, u just have to be considerate of her feelings and let her down easy.
If she said she loves you...she will have her feelings hurt when you break up with her.
The only way it won't hurt her feelings is if she is already seeing someone else.
Or if she thinks you are a jerk for some reason.
Be honest with her, there is no reason to lead her on-
it'll only hurt her more in the long run.
Good Luck
Break it to her easy. Don't use myspace, or facebook (she might not check her messages and she would think you were still going out). If she is a very emotional girl don't break up with her in person, at least in public and when doing it tell her the exact truth.
Dont lie, and do it in person, that way you will show respect
tell her exactly why you are breaking up with her, otherwise she will try to fix the relationship based on the fake reason you gave her which will end up in her getting nore hurt that she would of otherwise
she may be more hurt in the short run but in the long term, the truth is better
and if you cannot bring yourself to tell her the real reason, then ask yourself why you are breaking up with her for a reason that seems so insignificant when you say it out loud that you dont feel that you can tell her. think about if it is really what you want to do
If you want to break up with a girl, DO NOT do it in front of her friends. Take her to a private place and tell her how you think she's great and tell her all the stuff you like about her. Then you tell her even though she's a awsome person you think maybe that you two weren't meant to be together and there's alot of great guys out there that your sure would love her and appreciate her way more then you ever could.
If you let this girl down hard after she said she loved you i'm going to personaly kill you!
Just tell her you think it is better if you guys break up. do it quick, don't lead her on, it will only make things worse.
Just be honest. IT will hurt her more if you dont tell her.
Just be honest and tell her that this isn't working for you. Tell her a reason why, but it has to do with you. Like if she's annoying, don't tell her! Say that you're not ready to be in a relationship right now. Be kind but clear that it's over. Breaking up is never ever easy, but you have to do it, if you don't feel that it's right. Otherwise it's unfair towards her.
show some exceptions and not interested un her
flip her the birdie
Thats pretty much not possible.
just try to be as considerate as you can!
BE NICE!
dont talk about it to your friends!
try to make her understand that you are not hurting her on purpose!!!
Good Luck Bro!
How can i break up with a girl...?
u know ,i cant take it when i break a girl `s heart ! i love some one but we can`t get along well..she is a cold %26amp; senseless girl ,just against me..!she`s had nothing to tell me in these 2 years but looking in my eyes(terrible ,huh?!! )it`s difficult to break up with a girl after 2 years or more...tell me what can i do?!!thanks friendsHow can i break up with a girl...?
dump her and move on especially if she is that cold. she will always remain a stress and unfrindly to you kins/friendsHow can i break up with a girl...?
well, all you can do is be EXTREMELY nice about it. but i think it's extemely sweet that she looks in your eyes though. but maybe u can talk to her about how you are feeling. (us girls are very good at understanding feelings) but if u must break up with her. tell her the exact reason. don't forget to give her a big hug and tell her that u still care a bunch about her
dump her and move on especially if she is that cold. she will always remain a stress and unfrindly to you kins/friendsHow can i break up with a girl...?
well, all you can do is be EXTREMELY nice about it. but i think it's extemely sweet that she looks in your eyes though. but maybe u can talk to her about how you are feeling. (us girls are very good at understanding feelings) but if u must break up with her. tell her the exact reason. don't forget to give her a big hug and tell her that u still care a bunch about her
how to get a girl to break up ?
when I'm with her we have a deep connection but the only prpblem Is she's taken..what do you all think might help my cause? how to get a girl to break up ?
well... talkk to her about it maybee! (how else). but dont like make a move n have her cheat on her bf cuz thats shady. andd u might just like hook up with her n then she'll like never talk to u cuz shes too ashamed... well i would be hah. soo yeah, definalty talkt to her about ur connection or whatever n if she feels the same way or not and yeah! whoo knows what'll happen.
well... talkk to her about it maybee! (how else). but dont like make a move n have her cheat on her bf cuz thats shady. andd u might just like hook up with her n then she'll like never talk to u cuz shes too ashamed... well i would be hah. soo yeah, definalty talkt to her about ur connection or whatever n if she feels the same way or not and yeah! whoo knows what'll happen.
How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
This girl really likes me but she has been going through a rough time in her life her mom just died and she feels abandoned by her dad. I want to still be friends with her but I'm afraid she might hurt herself or something if I break up with her. How can I handle this? Oh we are both leaving college for winter break so I wont be near her for a good month or 2 the last time ill be able to see her is tomorrow also.How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
does she have other friends or family members that you could talk too? if not, then let her go to college, you said you won't be near her for a month or two, in that time she will have settled in and made friends and be feeling a little more confident about herself and situation. if you still feel that you want to break up with her, then do it.How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
Please tell me that you aren't breaking up with this girl because she's unstable. If so, you are a jacka**. If not then okay.
I wouldn't advise breaking up with her if she is suicidal. She needs someone. Do you know of anyone that could keep watch on her? If so then okay. You don't seem happy with her and it would be horrible if she thinks that you both are happy in the relationship. Don't lead her on. You said it. she really likes you. She's in too deep and you don't want her anymore.
I would find someone to keep watch on her, then break up. I would hate to break up with some after a few months of wanting to while they were oblivious to the fact. It's kind of wrong.
Good luck to you.
She is already in rough time. Please don't do that.
Analyze why you really need to break up with her. This is time she would require you the most.uninstall internet explorer c++
does she have other friends or family members that you could talk too? if not, then let her go to college, you said you won't be near her for a month or two, in that time she will have settled in and made friends and be feeling a little more confident about herself and situation. if you still feel that you want to break up with her, then do it.How to Break up with an emotionally unstable girl?
Please tell me that you aren't breaking up with this girl because she's unstable. If so, you are a jacka**. If not then okay.
I wouldn't advise breaking up with her if she is suicidal. She needs someone. Do you know of anyone that could keep watch on her? If so then okay. You don't seem happy with her and it would be horrible if she thinks that you both are happy in the relationship. Don't lead her on. You said it. she really likes you. She's in too deep and you don't want her anymore.
I would find someone to keep watch on her, then break up. I would hate to break up with some after a few months of wanting to while they were oblivious to the fact. It's kind of wrong.
Good luck to you.
She is already in rough time. Please don't do that.
Analyze why you really need to break up with her. This is time she would require you the most.
How do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
What are some signs that a girl doesn't want to be with you anymore?How do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
You don't hang out as much
She ditches you
She dosent call/txt you like she used to
Shes not as affectionate
She dosent smile at you a lot
You have more awkward moments
She is some times embarrassed of the things you doHow do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
If you've been with her a while then you'll know what she's usually like. She'll stop being like that. She'll stop texting/calling just to say ';Hi.'; She'll be hanging out with her friends more often and won't break as many plans to be with you. She won't kiss you the same and she won't do that cute thing she does when she really wants you to stay when you have to leave. She'll stop wearing your jacket just to have it around her, and more often then not, when you ask her if something is on her mind she'll try to avoid the question in some way so that she doesn't hurt your feelings. My advice is to talk to her as soon as possible and tell her what you're worried about before you end up watching tv with her like always and having her get a text from a friend asking is she's broken up with you yet. good luck!
You don't hang out as much
She ditches you
She dosent call/txt you like she used to
Shes not as affectionate
She dosent smile at you a lot
You have more awkward moments
She is some times embarrassed of the things you doHow do you know when a girl wants to break up with you?
If you've been with her a while then you'll know what she's usually like. She'll stop being like that. She'll stop texting/calling just to say ';Hi.'; She'll be hanging out with her friends more often and won't break as many plans to be with you. She won't kiss you the same and she won't do that cute thing she does when she really wants you to stay when you have to leave. She'll stop wearing your jacket just to have it around her, and more often then not, when you ask her if something is on her mind she'll try to avoid the question in some way so that she doesn't hurt your feelings. My advice is to talk to her as soon as possible and tell her what you're worried about before you end up watching tv with her like always and having her get a text from a friend asking is she's broken up with you yet. good luck!
Did any guys have a girl break up with and you still regret loosing them because you realize they were a good?
person..how long did it take you to get over the,?Did any guys have a girl break up with and you still regret loosing them because you realize they were a good?
Everybody has had that happen to them at one time or another and it makes you sad, but there is nothing you can do except move on. In a while, it won't hurt so bad!
Everybody has had that happen to them at one time or another and it makes you sad, but there is nothing you can do except move on. In a while, it won't hurt so bad!
How to break up with a girl?
theres a girl named liz that im going out with, but i think whatever spark we had is gone. this jerk friend of mine named kevin told her that i was thinking of breaking up with her and she was really hurt. i couldnt bear it so i told her that i was feeling really conflicted, and that i wasnt thinking, and that seemed to fix it. i didnt want to hurt her, but i have to do this. i love her, but its bland being with her. i need advice. how do i do it? How to break up with a girl?
Take on the Nike phrase and just do it.
There is no easy way to break up with somebody you love or care about - it's still going to hurt, and it's going to hurt for awhile. Let her know that a big part of the reason for doing this is because you do love and care for her and know that she deserves the truth and the chance to be with someone else who can give her 100% and love her as much as she loves him. It's not fair to either one of you to continue on with a relationship where you can't love her like you used to or give it your all. You both deserve the opportunity to find true happiness if you haven't found it with each other. I've been in a couple of relationships where my significant other 'knew' that we were supposed to be together, or that they had found the one, or haven't been happier with anyone else. I thought that maybe I just wasn't trying hard enough to make the relationship work, and drug it out a lot longer than I should have. I should have broken up with them long before I did, because the longer you wait, the harder it gets and the more heartache is involved. You owe to her (and yourself) to be honest and go your separate ways. Yeah, it's going to suck, and it's going to hurt - but that will pass over time, and you will eventually find yourself in love again.How to break up with a girl?
jerk
Lol your talkin to the lovemaker ha dawg just be like ';sorry but i just feel that im gay'; lmao naw im just kiddin seriosuly tho be like ';look i really care about you but weve grown apart we can still be friends but we need a break and well see where things go from there
Well the truth is there is no way that you can make it any easier. Just apologize to her, and then tell her that she deserves to have someone that likes her back, also that you are not the type of guy that would say 'I like you'; but not really think so. Good luck kiddo.
chao
just break it down to her easily tell her that i dont but i dont feel that connection so im breaking up with you i dont want to hurt you but we can still be friends
You love her, but it's bland being with her???
Tell her the truth. Tell her you looking for something else.
If she replies in French...
';Je vous aime,
Je vous adore,
qu'est-ce que voulez- vous encore?';...
just give in and stay with her. She will only make you happy.
so, i take it you ';love her'; but you're not IN LOVE with her anymore?....
tell her that.
through a text message..... haha jkjk
sit down with her an explain your feelings and tell her that you would still like to be friends because u love her but u just dont want to be with her anymore.
if you love her then you might not want to leave her yet...
why dont you try spicing things up between you to, do something special you don't often do...
and if you still have that feeling about breaking up, then make it direct and tell her..
don't keep leading her on in this relationship, especially if you think it is going to end soon, cause that will just make it harder for her to get over in the end.
hope everything works out
cheers
Tell her she stank, she'll get da message bruh!
firstly, are you sure you are not a freaky man ?
if not , pls remember , to her , it is better a finger off than always aching......
just calmly sit her down and say that u think that u need to see other people
Honestly - the best advise is to be gentle but honest. You can explain that you had a feeling / spark in the beginning that you are not feeling at this time. You are not sure if you can get this feeling back but you are not closing the door on the idea. Explain that you need space but would like friendly contact w/ her w/ no expectations -meaning you guys can still have a friend relationship w/o making her feel like you are leading her on. She will know up front that friends is what you are needing at the moment. You could be honest and explain your feelings that you have and who knows - maybe there is a compromise that can be made that will rekindle your relationship or maybe you two will just learn better communication to being great friends for long term.
TOUGHiE....
You can start by asking her out on coffee. Tell her then. After 10 min, of talking to her. Tell her that you can't bear to see her hurt, so you were PRESSURED to say that you were conflicted. and tell her you still wanna be friends %26amp; all that.. just that you don't love her anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!
I would want to hear the truth. It seems like you do care and don't want to hurt and since you have big mouth friends I'd steer clear of sugar coating it just in case the mention of her blandness came back to her. Honesty is the best policy. Plus if I knew deep down the reason for a break up wasn't the whole truth it'd drive me crazy trying to figure out what was.
be straight up honest don't lie about why and answer any question she has....if you don't she is going to have a even harder time getting over you
tell her straite up!
i mean she knows
so jst tell her
do you think she deserve 2
know???
Would you like 2 know????
Good luck
-Shawdy-
you need to be 100% honest (without being mean of course). Dont be too nice, dont leave her hope that there is anything she can do to fix it, Say exactly what you said in your first sentence on here. ';I think whatever spark we had is gone.';
Ahh tough situation. Well, you really should confront her straight up and tell her how you are feeling because she deserves to know the truth. The worst thing to do would to avoid the situation and lead her on more with false intentions.
Maybe just text/call her and say that you want to talk to her about something; this will allow her to get a heads up that something is coming so she wont be totally surprised. Then, just meet and explain your feelings...
she will get over it, i promise :)
good luck!
Go to a place in private but in the general public, hold her hands, look her straight in the eyes, and tell her what you feel.
VIVA LA RAZA!
I'm sick of seeing so many people who don't even know what love is throw the word around like it's nothing.
Dude, if you loved her you wouldn't be breaking up with her for such a stupid reason. If it were real love you'd do anything you could to find a way to fix what is wrong. Stop jerking her around, fool.
Just break it to her gently, make sure to tell her that its not her that its you, all you, and you didn't want to hurt her. You could always tell her that you're coming out of the closet and you're really gay. LOL!!
make a clean cut. don't keep hanging out, giving mixed signals like you just did! thats very very hurtful. to give hope and take it away then give it back and take away again. thats cruel really. just do it and go on. life does go on, she will not die, she'll go on with her life and she'll tell her friends what a jerk you are, and then she'll get over it.
you ';love her, but it's bland';, then dude you need to try spicing things up before that.
Take on the Nike phrase and just do it.
There is no easy way to break up with somebody you love or care about - it's still going to hurt, and it's going to hurt for awhile. Let her know that a big part of the reason for doing this is because you do love and care for her and know that she deserves the truth and the chance to be with someone else who can give her 100% and love her as much as she loves him. It's not fair to either one of you to continue on with a relationship where you can't love her like you used to or give it your all. You both deserve the opportunity to find true happiness if you haven't found it with each other. I've been in a couple of relationships where my significant other 'knew' that we were supposed to be together, or that they had found the one, or haven't been happier with anyone else. I thought that maybe I just wasn't trying hard enough to make the relationship work, and drug it out a lot longer than I should have. I should have broken up with them long before I did, because the longer you wait, the harder it gets and the more heartache is involved. You owe to her (and yourself) to be honest and go your separate ways. Yeah, it's going to suck, and it's going to hurt - but that will pass over time, and you will eventually find yourself in love again.How to break up with a girl?
jerk
Lol your talkin to the lovemaker ha dawg just be like ';sorry but i just feel that im gay'; lmao naw im just kiddin seriosuly tho be like ';look i really care about you but weve grown apart we can still be friends but we need a break and well see where things go from there
Well the truth is there is no way that you can make it any easier. Just apologize to her, and then tell her that she deserves to have someone that likes her back, also that you are not the type of guy that would say 'I like you'; but not really think so. Good luck kiddo.
chao
just break it down to her easily tell her that i dont but i dont feel that connection so im breaking up with you i dont want to hurt you but we can still be friends
You love her, but it's bland being with her???
Tell her the truth. Tell her you looking for something else.
If she replies in French...
';Je vous aime,
Je vous adore,
qu'est-ce que voulez- vous encore?';...
just give in and stay with her. She will only make you happy.
so, i take it you ';love her'; but you're not IN LOVE with her anymore?....
tell her that.
through a text message..... haha jkjk
sit down with her an explain your feelings and tell her that you would still like to be friends because u love her but u just dont want to be with her anymore.
if you love her then you might not want to leave her yet...
why dont you try spicing things up between you to, do something special you don't often do...
and if you still have that feeling about breaking up, then make it direct and tell her..
don't keep leading her on in this relationship, especially if you think it is going to end soon, cause that will just make it harder for her to get over in the end.
hope everything works out
cheers
Tell her she stank, she'll get da message bruh!
firstly, are you sure you are not a freaky man ?
if not , pls remember , to her , it is better a finger off than always aching......
just calmly sit her down and say that u think that u need to see other people
Honestly - the best advise is to be gentle but honest. You can explain that you had a feeling / spark in the beginning that you are not feeling at this time. You are not sure if you can get this feeling back but you are not closing the door on the idea. Explain that you need space but would like friendly contact w/ her w/ no expectations -meaning you guys can still have a friend relationship w/o making her feel like you are leading her on. She will know up front that friends is what you are needing at the moment. You could be honest and explain your feelings that you have and who knows - maybe there is a compromise that can be made that will rekindle your relationship or maybe you two will just learn better communication to being great friends for long term.
TOUGHiE....
You can start by asking her out on coffee. Tell her then. After 10 min, of talking to her. Tell her that you can't bear to see her hurt, so you were PRESSURED to say that you were conflicted. and tell her you still wanna be friends %26amp; all that.. just that you don't love her anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!
I would want to hear the truth. It seems like you do care and don't want to hurt and since you have big mouth friends I'd steer clear of sugar coating it just in case the mention of her blandness came back to her. Honesty is the best policy. Plus if I knew deep down the reason for a break up wasn't the whole truth it'd drive me crazy trying to figure out what was.
be straight up honest don't lie about why and answer any question she has....if you don't she is going to have a even harder time getting over you
tell her straite up!
i mean she knows
so jst tell her
do you think she deserve 2
know???
Would you like 2 know????
Good luck
-Shawdy-
you need to be 100% honest (without being mean of course). Dont be too nice, dont leave her hope that there is anything she can do to fix it, Say exactly what you said in your first sentence on here. ';I think whatever spark we had is gone.';
Ahh tough situation. Well, you really should confront her straight up and tell her how you are feeling because she deserves to know the truth. The worst thing to do would to avoid the situation and lead her on more with false intentions.
Maybe just text/call her and say that you want to talk to her about something; this will allow her to get a heads up that something is coming so she wont be totally surprised. Then, just meet and explain your feelings...
she will get over it, i promise :)
good luck!
Go to a place in private but in the general public, hold her hands, look her straight in the eyes, and tell her what you feel.
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I'm sick of seeing so many people who don't even know what love is throw the word around like it's nothing.
Dude, if you loved her you wouldn't be breaking up with her for such a stupid reason. If it were real love you'd do anything you could to find a way to fix what is wrong. Stop jerking her around, fool.
Just break it to her gently, make sure to tell her that its not her that its you, all you, and you didn't want to hurt her. You could always tell her that you're coming out of the closet and you're really gay. LOL!!
make a clean cut. don't keep hanging out, giving mixed signals like you just did! thats very very hurtful. to give hope and take it away then give it back and take away again. thats cruel really. just do it and go on. life does go on, she will not die, she'll go on with her life and she'll tell her friends what a jerk you are, and then she'll get over it.
you ';love her, but it's bland';, then dude you need to try spicing things up before that.
How to break up with a girl i still love with minimal emotional damage to myself and her?
theres really no way of not hurting someone when ur splitting up just be truthful and try not go back on ur decision that hurts more to be led on then have heart broken again
Dumb question, but is there any best way to break up with a girl?
I've been with this girl for a while, and she has some weird *** mannerisms that I don't think I can get past.
How do I end it?
Try to give me a step by step walk through, this is my first time doing this..
Thanks in advance
-TylerDumb question, but is there any best way to break up with a girl?
Tyler, the best breakups I ever was on the receiving end of were the honest ones something like this.
';There's something that's been bothering me a lot, and I'd have said something sooner, but I didn't want to hurt you.';
Me: What?
';Us going together isn't really working for me. I like you, you know that's true, but I find myself wanting something different. Someone else. Not a specific person, just someone I 'click' with more than we do.';
Me: Are you breaking up with me?
';Yes, but as gently as I can. I really don't want to hurt you. I just want to be free to find the right somebody, and you deserve the same thing, somebody who suits you better than me. Only neither of us will find that person if we're a couple.';
Me: But I thought you were happy.
';Sometimes I was. But not enough. I'm sorry. I'll still go to Joanie's wedding with you, if you want. Or set you up. You'd probably like Dan.';
And that was it. I did like Dan, for a while anyway.Dumb question, but is there any best way to break up with a girl?
jerry said it but go one ore. have her catch u an another girl doing sex in her house an have her catch u 2. 100% sure fire way she will leave u on her own
Sleep with her best friend
How do I end it?
Try to give me a step by step walk through, this is my first time doing this..
Thanks in advance
-TylerDumb question, but is there any best way to break up with a girl?
Tyler, the best breakups I ever was on the receiving end of were the honest ones something like this.
';There's something that's been bothering me a lot, and I'd have said something sooner, but I didn't want to hurt you.';
Me: What?
';Us going together isn't really working for me. I like you, you know that's true, but I find myself wanting something different. Someone else. Not a specific person, just someone I 'click' with more than we do.';
Me: Are you breaking up with me?
';Yes, but as gently as I can. I really don't want to hurt you. I just want to be free to find the right somebody, and you deserve the same thing, somebody who suits you better than me. Only neither of us will find that person if we're a couple.';
Me: But I thought you were happy.
';Sometimes I was. But not enough. I'm sorry. I'll still go to Joanie's wedding with you, if you want. Or set you up. You'd probably like Dan.';
And that was it. I did like Dan, for a while anyway.Dumb question, but is there any best way to break up with a girl?
jerry said it but go one ore. have her catch u an another girl doing sex in her house an have her catch u 2. 100% sure fire way she will leave u on her own
Sleep with her best friend
How does the nice girl break up with the nice guy?
So, heres the thing. My ex and I have always had unresolved feelings, and issues and it's so bad that it's coming between me and my boyfriend. I keep having very strong feelings for my ex and wanting to go back to him, but my boyfriend is having a rough week, he actually found out someone in the family is really sick, and all I've been doing is kicking myself for betraying him by hurting him because I know he won't deal with it well. But I honestly feel like a bad person staying with him, because I continue to dwell on my ex, and it's not going to go away. So I guess my question is, how can I break up with someone whose life is already bumpy?
I just, feel so horrible. I've never had to break someones heart and it just feels so wrong, like I'll never forgive myself. Any help would be appreciated. I'm 18 incase it could help.
How does the nice girl break up with the nice guy?
go back to your lieing cheating ex because you know what,your perfect, for each other.what the hell is wrong with you women?!How does the nice girl break up with the nice guy?
You're a very sweet person for considering his feelings. Alot of people just break up without knowing they will hurt someone. I would suggest that you guys come together at a comfortable place and start telling him your feelings and where you stand in this relationship. Be sweet and nice but also be firm so he knows you're not playing. After this conversation, call him a few times just so he can be aware that you guys are still friends.
How about telling the truth and being honest. Yes it may hurt but at least your being honest to him and yourself. Telling lies, cheating and being deceiptful always comes back at you 3 times full.
My opinion.
Well, that's two different issues.
If you don't love your current boyfriend, break up with him. Set him free to find someone who does love him because you're just wasting his time. He's better off alone than with someone living a lie with him.
About the ex...it's great to give someone a second chance to love you, but you should never give anyone a second chance to break your heart. If he wants you back, make him prove it over time.
You don't need to test him really...Life will do that. I'm just saying don't rush back into it with your heart hanging out in front of you for him to stab it.
In either case, don't become dependent on others to make you happy, and don't become the crutch for anyone else, and you can't go wrong. Love is something to share, not for one to take from the other. It's not even an exchange. It's a one-ness.uninstall internet explorer c++
I just, feel so horrible. I've never had to break someones heart and it just feels so wrong, like I'll never forgive myself. Any help would be appreciated. I'm 18 incase it could help.
How does the nice girl break up with the nice guy?
go back to your lieing cheating ex because you know what,your perfect, for each other.what the hell is wrong with you women?!How does the nice girl break up with the nice guy?
You're a very sweet person for considering his feelings. Alot of people just break up without knowing they will hurt someone. I would suggest that you guys come together at a comfortable place and start telling him your feelings and where you stand in this relationship. Be sweet and nice but also be firm so he knows you're not playing. After this conversation, call him a few times just so he can be aware that you guys are still friends.
How about telling the truth and being honest. Yes it may hurt but at least your being honest to him and yourself. Telling lies, cheating and being deceiptful always comes back at you 3 times full.
My opinion.
Well, that's two different issues.
If you don't love your current boyfriend, break up with him. Set him free to find someone who does love him because you're just wasting his time. He's better off alone than with someone living a lie with him.
About the ex...it's great to give someone a second chance to love you, but you should never give anyone a second chance to break your heart. If he wants you back, make him prove it over time.
You don't need to test him really...Life will do that. I'm just saying don't rush back into it with your heart hanging out in front of you for him to stab it.
In either case, don't become dependent on others to make you happy, and don't become the crutch for anyone else, and you can't go wrong. Love is something to share, not for one to take from the other. It's not even an exchange. It's a one-ness.
Why would a girl break up after 3 hours of dating, after a month and a half of all the signs she's ready?
Exactly 1 and a half months ago I asked a girl to homecoming, I am in the ninth grade and we had dated before every year since the 6th grade. Every time that it didn't work out between us dating it was because she had ';stresses'; surrounding her family, school, and sports and said that she simply couldn't handle another stress or pressure of a boyfriend. However when I asked her to this homecoming it began all about just going as old friends. But things began to look up other than the ways they had before. We had begun to talk about life and similarities we had like never before. It seemed as though we had the very same mindset and outlooks upon life itself, but I decided to wait to ask her to be my girl at homecoming and she certainly was aware of my implications. She had even been the one to begin saying ';I Love You'; every night before we went to bed. We talked what seemed like forever and about every possible topic that could be talked. And living in North Alabama, which is the closest I will reveal my location, she lived extremely close to a tornado that touched down a mere week ago, (the dance this past Saturday Jan. 25) and worried about her, I asked if everything was okay. I didn't receive a message from her until later that evening explaining how all the cable, Internet, (she had been texting from her iPod to my phone because her dad is quite strict) and phones had gone out and she tried for hours to get a hold of me. After letting her know that I had promised myself I wouldn't sleep until I heard some news of what happened she said, ';Wow! You really mean a ton to me. I'm so glad to have you here with me.'; In those exact words. It had really hit me that we may actually be able to develop a real relationship this time. So finally the night of the homecoming dance came. We ate out with 5 other couples and had a blast at dinner. We went to the dance and we stuck together dancing for 3 hours. The entire time she would grab my hands and I would grab hers, she would dance with the liveliest smile I had ever seen her smile. The only bad thing that happened was when a friend of mine's date had begun to feel a stomachache and she would leave for up to 15 minutes to comfort her. But she would always come back to be with me. And when dancing to a particularly romantic song I softly said in her ear, ';I want to make it official, how would you like for me to be your guy, and you can be my girl.'; She responded saying ';Of course!'; I said, ';That's perfectly fine with me.'; She laughed. We danced holding onto each other for the next half hour until her friend began feeling even worse. Once she returned she informed me to keep the new relationship quiet for now because ';she didn't want her parents to know.'; At the time I found this perfectly understandable, I knew she had daddy issues, but I also had met him many times and truly always trusted me around her and let me know how good a guy I was. After the dance we went to a breakfast at a classmates house. After all the excitement we went to be with our separate friends (also the fact that her mother was a chaperon there and she didn't want her mother to become aware). But in the last half-hour before I would leave I began to feel symptoms of feeling exhaustion sickness from the little amount of sleep I had been getting. She definitely showed signs of her concern and asked if I needed some water and that I should be sleeping more. Eventually my ride got to the house and we said goodnight to each other and she whispered in my ear, ';I had a lot of fun, Night Love you.'; And even before I went to the street I said bye to her mother and she thanked me for taking her daughter and that she knew she had a blast and that it meant a lot to her and her husband. Not 5 minutes after I left the house she sends a text message asking how I am feeling. I said pretty much the same but I'll probably feel better in the morning. Then she said that that's good. So I asked how she was doing, as a normal conversation typically goes. She said fine and that she had to ask me a question. This question was exactly, ';Do we have to start dating now, I just have so many stresses and I just don't think I can handle having a boyfriend now.'; 100% stunned I replied, ';Ugh, I was afraid that this would happen, but I mean if it's really what you want.'; (The next quotes on and off are the remaining conversation.) ';I'm sorry, I just can't do it now.'; ';Well, I always am here for you and I want to be that guy you escape to in order to not feel these stresses.'; ';I know but I just can't do it now.'; ';Okay than, can you help me to better understand what exactly is stressing you?'; ';It's all about school, family, friends and sports.'; (I believed this at the time, but now I believe it may have been a cover up for some bigger issue she may have been having). Everyone this is extremely important to me and I only wrote this much in order to fully explain the importance of this situation to me because I simply do not underWhy would a girl break up after 3 hours of dating, after a month and a half of all the signs she's ready?
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How to get over a break up if you love the person with all your heart and they break up with you?
my girl broke up with me but still says she loves me whats wrong i lover her with all my heart but she does this? why ?
she said she needs to think but she loves me more then anything is it a lie and why she break up with me?How to get over a break up if you love the person with all your heart and they break up with you?
man....dang i swear i know exactly how you feel and im still dealing with the pain yet its like 3 months after the fact for me and i still havent got over it yet. but when my ex gf fisrt broke it off with me she used to say the same bs that she still loved me and i was the love of her life. wtf i used to ask myself and everyone well if she loves me so much then why do this to me. why why why why....but then she finally moved on to a new bf and said she loved me but she has to stop loving me so she can move on...and yet....im still here 3 months later suffering missing her. My Frankie.....;(How to get over a break up if you love the person with all your heart and they break up with you?
well obviously it's a lie if she says she loves you more than anything... but yet she breaks up with you to think... you need to kick her to the curb...
she said she needs to think but she loves me more then anything is it a lie and why she break up with me?How to get over a break up if you love the person with all your heart and they break up with you?
man....dang i swear i know exactly how you feel and im still dealing with the pain yet its like 3 months after the fact for me and i still havent got over it yet. but when my ex gf fisrt broke it off with me she used to say the same bs that she still loved me and i was the love of her life. wtf i used to ask myself and everyone well if she loves me so much then why do this to me. why why why why....but then she finally moved on to a new bf and said she loved me but she has to stop loving me so she can move on...and yet....im still here 3 months later suffering missing her. My Frankie.....;(How to get over a break up if you love the person with all your heart and they break up with you?
well obviously it's a lie if she says she loves you more than anything... but yet she breaks up with you to think... you need to kick her to the curb...
Would a girl break up with a man if she found out he considered himself bi but had never been with a man?
If he just wanted a girl but sometimes found other guys attractive or didn't class himself as 100% straight, would a girl be turned off by it? Would she be scared he could be up to something? Would trust nosedive? Would she not consider him manly enough? Would she be disappointed? Fear that he couldn't commit? How far into the relationship should this be discussed? Does it make a difference if these are just thoughts/worries/concerns in the man's head that he is umcomfortable with? Is there a difference when it comes to bi's who don't pursue their same-sex side and one's that have? How come this is so the opposite to if the girl were bi, except for reasons like diseases (which any groups can get obviously)?
Why would girls feel turned?Would a girl break up with a man if she found out he considered himself bi but had never been with a man?
I think she would have to be pretty open minded to put up with a man swinging both ways, yes its quite possible she would not see him as such a man as before, if she found out you were bi for instance i would say you would get dumped pretty fast, from waht i have seen in chat bi guys seem to cheat on their women when they don't know, if i were her i could not handle that, anyway ask yourself why should she share ???
2, would you share if she wanted to spend the nite with a lady she met and fancied her rotten ??? [ I doubt it very much]Would a girl break up with a man if she found out he considered himself bi but had never been with a man?
She may feel turned off. If she thinks that you see another man more attractive then her she'll be turned off. You should wait until you clear your head an take some time to think. Is being bi really what you want? are you willing to risk the relationship? Mske sure you've got your mind set before you make any serious decisions.
But she may feel betrayed.
Because you made her think something else, kind of like lying in a big part of your realtionship.
Think is this really what you want?
if u find out your boyfriend is bi it would just kill everything! ABSOLUTLEY!! all of a sudden this guys would look 50% manly. no longr 100%. theres nothing attractive about a man that wants anoher man. it looks sooo sissy like. the biggest tur off. it's not masculine. i'm a lady. give me hard. i dont want hard that wants to pump the other hard man. eeeeel! gross!!!
they would if they were closed-minded and insecure, yes.
Why would girls feel turned?Would a girl break up with a man if she found out he considered himself bi but had never been with a man?
I think she would have to be pretty open minded to put up with a man swinging both ways, yes its quite possible she would not see him as such a man as before, if she found out you were bi for instance i would say you would get dumped pretty fast, from waht i have seen in chat bi guys seem to cheat on their women when they don't know, if i were her i could not handle that, anyway ask yourself why should she share ???
2, would you share if she wanted to spend the nite with a lady she met and fancied her rotten ??? [ I doubt it very much]Would a girl break up with a man if she found out he considered himself bi but had never been with a man?
She may feel turned off. If she thinks that you see another man more attractive then her she'll be turned off. You should wait until you clear your head an take some time to think. Is being bi really what you want? are you willing to risk the relationship? Mske sure you've got your mind set before you make any serious decisions.
But she may feel betrayed.
Because you made her think something else, kind of like lying in a big part of your realtionship.
Think is this really what you want?
if u find out your boyfriend is bi it would just kill everything! ABSOLUTLEY!! all of a sudden this guys would look 50% manly. no longr 100%. theres nothing attractive about a man that wants anoher man. it looks sooo sissy like. the biggest tur off. it's not masculine. i'm a lady. give me hard. i dont want hard that wants to pump the other hard man. eeeeel! gross!!!
they would if they were closed-minded and insecure, yes.
How to break up with girl friend =(?
k me and my girlfriend are 16 and we have been dating for a year and 1 month
i think it is time too breakup b/c i am not as attracted to her as used to be, we r arguing now, and truthfully i wasn't expecting to have a relationship go on for this long.
I really don't want to hurt her plus we hangout with the same general group of friends so i don't want to hurt my relationship with them
Can some1 give me advise on how when and where i should break with her
thanks youHow to break up with girl friend =(?
It's not hard, go up to her, and tell her that it's over and explain why. You're going to hurt her no matter what. No one likes getting broken up with.How to break up with girl friend =(?
do not break up with her over a facebook
By yourself where it's not a bunch of people around, whenever your both together, and just kindly explain that you'd rather be friends, because you don't feel the relationship is going as well as it used to.
Just explain to her how you think that you guys would be better of just being friends. Explain how you don't like how you argue all the time, and that you still want to be friends with her. Just gently let her know that you guys would be better off friends and it's not working as a relationship anymore.
i think it is time too breakup b/c i am not as attracted to her as used to be, we r arguing now, and truthfully i wasn't expecting to have a relationship go on for this long.
I really don't want to hurt her plus we hangout with the same general group of friends so i don't want to hurt my relationship with them
Can some1 give me advise on how when and where i should break with her
thanks youHow to break up with girl friend =(?
It's not hard, go up to her, and tell her that it's over and explain why. You're going to hurt her no matter what. No one likes getting broken up with.How to break up with girl friend =(?
do not break up with her over a facebook
By yourself where it's not a bunch of people around, whenever your both together, and just kindly explain that you'd rather be friends, because you don't feel the relationship is going as well as it used to.
Just explain to her how you think that you guys would be better of just being friends. Explain how you don't like how you argue all the time, and that you still want to be friends with her. Just gently let her know that you guys would be better off friends and it's not working as a relationship anymore.
How do you break up with a girl that always breaks off plans??
We never ever hang out. We always make plans to hang out and the day before she always seems to break them offHow do you break up with a girl that always breaks off plans??
I am not an expert, but it appears she may have beat you to the punch. I would just making plans with her.skin cancer c++
I am not an expert, but it appears she may have beat you to the punch. I would just making plans with her.
How do you break up with a girl you really respect?
I really love this girl, but I am simply not ready for a relationship. I hinted the other day I needed some time to think, but she's still pushing for more (moving in, etc.). I think breaking up will devastate her, and need some suggestions on a soft way to do this. In public, at her place? etc. I don't want her to feel left out or second best....How do you break up with a girl you really respect?
Tell her when u two are alone, Don't humiliate the poor girl. Tell her ur simply not ready for a serious relationship, tell her u don't want to hurt her but by being with her ur giving her false pretences. Be honest with her, honesty is always the best way to go at anything. Tell her u love her a lot but as a friend. Just be honest and words will coem easily from ur mouth.How do you break up with a girl you really respect?
tell her u need some time 2 think cuz u dont think u r ready 4 a relationship and tell her that u still luv her alot but u just want 2 be friends 4 now and mabey u should buy her some ice cream 2 go along with the apology
you got it good so keep respecting and ...you really dont do it you'll regret it later if you do...
It's wonderful that you are thinking of her feelings. Tell her the truth. No matter what you do or say, it will be very hard for both of you, but in the end the truth will be the best. You never know when you are ready to commit, you may want it to be with her, so don't burn any bridges.
Tell her exactly how you feel, all of it. Tell her you care about her and don't want to hurt her, but you have to be honest about how you feel. I would do it at her place, where she can feel most comfortable. That way if it does upset her, she isn't out somewhere where she isn't comfortable.
Remember to tell her what you said on here too, that you really respect her and treat her like the special and wonderful person she is. It sounds like you are really trying to go about this the right way, just remember to be true to her and yourself.
Hope this helps. :)
tell her what u just said
You don't
Tell her when u two are alone, Don't humiliate the poor girl. Tell her ur simply not ready for a serious relationship, tell her u don't want to hurt her but by being with her ur giving her false pretences. Be honest with her, honesty is always the best way to go at anything. Tell her u love her a lot but as a friend. Just be honest and words will coem easily from ur mouth.How do you break up with a girl you really respect?
tell her u need some time 2 think cuz u dont think u r ready 4 a relationship and tell her that u still luv her alot but u just want 2 be friends 4 now and mabey u should buy her some ice cream 2 go along with the apology
you got it good so keep respecting and ...you really dont do it you'll regret it later if you do...
It's wonderful that you are thinking of her feelings. Tell her the truth. No matter what you do or say, it will be very hard for both of you, but in the end the truth will be the best. You never know when you are ready to commit, you may want it to be with her, so don't burn any bridges.
Tell her exactly how you feel, all of it. Tell her you care about her and don't want to hurt her, but you have to be honest about how you feel. I would do it at her place, where she can feel most comfortable. That way if it does upset her, she isn't out somewhere where she isn't comfortable.
Remember to tell her what you said on here too, that you really respect her and treat her like the special and wonderful person she is. It sounds like you are really trying to go about this the right way, just remember to be true to her and yourself.
Hope this helps. :)
tell her what u just said
You don't
How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
I'm asking this for a colleague of mine...
He's French and has been with this Filipina for quite some time. I guess the flame just faded.
I told him (out of experience) that Filipinas, especially those from pampangga, can get quite sinister when someone would break their fragile hearts and this scenario scared the stankin feces out him.
Any suggestions?
(If it would help you come up with ideas... she has a black belt in taekwondo)How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
Tell your friend he owes it to the girl to tell her in the face.
If he is man enough to fall IN love, be a man enough to FALL OUT.
I am a Filipino, and I also know the Filipina heart. It is understanding, kind, and tough as bamboo. For all we know, she knows by now. Filipinas are notorious as mind readers, you know. It could be she is just waiting for your friend to talk seriously about it.
And aren't we downgrading the civility of the Filipina by implying she uses martial arts not to defend her life, her honor, or her loved ones? For all we know, a tear may fall, but a fist shall never be used in anger. A black belt should know better. It is instilled in the dicipline.How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
zzz... tell her when she's drunk... hmmm... beer... zzz...
The way I see it he only has two options.
He stands upto her and tells her the truth and takes the possible beating like a man, or
He does it the cowardly way, gets his things out while she is at work, and then texts her.
break it to her gently. i mean,any girl would get hurt regardless of what race/nationality. i suggest have a mature talk..over a cup of coffee or somewhere where only the two of them can talk and think...
well.. if she uses her taekwando skills.. good luck to her future xbf..hahahaha..consequence of breaking her heart.
tell him pretend to be bankrupt, lost jobs and such other things...nature will take its course.
Nah, Filipinas are more likely to chop his balls off after financially ruining him and taking him for everything he has got and they never forget
tell her '; I just dont think its going to work between us, but i still want to be friends'; it might sound harsh, but it works and hasnt failed me. they take it really nicely.
TELL HER personally, face-to-face
DON'T use email, letters, text messages, phone calls, post-its, etc.
sinister Pampanguena, hmmm.
not me, PT.
anyway, all he have to do is be honest.
and grab a ';palanggana'; to shield his face.
Read my lips, PT....';hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.';
But if he's still brave enough to do it, here's my personal ';how to';; i.e., not found in any advice book. Tell your friend to do the following:
1. have a big date with the girl...all the works...flowers, wine and dine, etc.
2. when he brings her home, slip a note to her as he leaves
(very important, tell him to walk fast - not run - to his car and don't look back)
3. the note should say something like ';forgive me for being a coward but I just have to let you know things are not working between us and it's best for you to dump me now than later. thanks for everything';
4. if the girl calls, he's not available...and he better not be available forever...run and hide, if he must.
If done properly, this will work...and the girl saves her face because she is the dumper, instead of the dumpee. Everybody happy.
Hey, newluv, you're not thinking of dumping me, are you?
haha. well, im filipina. i dont know her, but filipinas have the same feelings as everyone else. of course it hurts to get broken up with. i think he should come up with a good *** excuse to leave her.. stop being so damn stereotypical! please and thank you! =)
Follow your heart and do what you feel to be right.
Stop listening to other people who are not on your path. You've heard the old saying to walk a mile in another's shoes before judging them. Well, the fact is that no one has walked in your shoes and they have no right to tell you what is right or wrong for you.
Stop repeating old patterns and stop punishing yourself for things that others perceive to be wrong. Follow your heart and your passions. Only then will you truly be happy.
It is not your responsibility to make anyone else happy, but it IS your responsibility to make yourself happy.
if it were me i would make sure i was out of the country and then send her a letter explaining all she needed to know. getting out of the philippines is for his own safety of course
the best is really just tell her truth...as the song goes, break it to her gently
you just can't brother! you are doomed for the rest of your life! good luck! lol
He should just be honest with her. If he hasn't done anything wrong, like started seeing other people or anything, there is no way (realistically) that she can be upset.
It may be helpful to make it sound like he's doing her a favor by allowing them both to get out now. It gives her the chance to find someone who will make her feel how she should feel in a relationship. If he feels the flame has faded, then it has, regardless of how she feels.
Let's just hope the flame has also faded for her. It seems like it must've because it's hard for the flame to fade on only one side. Good luck to your buddy, hahaha us ladies are COMPLICATED sometimes :)
haha, tell the frenchman nobody dumps a filipina! nobody!
It's simple, there is no easy way. Just remember, when you do the deed, Karma is going to strike you back 10 times over. It sucks breaking up with someone, just don't be gutless and tell them via email or text message. Look them straight in the eye and tell them why. This way if they do try to hurt you, you have proof !!!
no matter how he does it, it would still hurt her if she's really into him. but he should be honest with his feelings. tell her that even if they continue seeing each other, it won't develop into something ';permanent'; and that it would only hurt them both if they continue with the relationship. it would be nice to offer to be friends. what's important is to apologize and make her see that there is nothing wrong with her, it's he whose feelings have waned. then just make himself scarce until she gets over him. if he is really scared of her, the thing to do is to break up with her, not really in a public place, but he should have someone with him, just in case she gets physical on him. break up at her place but with a male friend waiting for him outside. at least someone can bring him to the hospital just in case......kidding!!!!
There is no getting around it. If they've been together for that long, he is sure to break her heart, no matter how tough she seems (with her black belt and all). Telling it to her straight is the most manly thing to do, he may even end up being friends with her. Of course, he should expect being asked 7,000 questions so he had better be ready with good answers. A simple ';I fell out of love'; won't cut it so the explanation has to be detailed, when exactly what happened, who possibly has caused the drift (third party?), etc. Sugarcoat if he has to, but be totally honest. Filipinas have a keen nose for liars.
If they have absolutely no chance of seeing each other again, the easiest (and the jerkiest) way is disappearing into thin air. He avoids confrontation this way, and a possibility of a slight (or severe) injury. Again, they must never meet again after, or else he might as well have moved to the netherworld if they ever cross paths in the future.
This is tougher than it sounds.
I think he has to face her like a man to break the news. The initial beating won't be that bad. But, maybe visit some family in another region for a few months after that night. Once she gets to talking to her friends and new points are made about his punishment things could get dangerous. He doesn't want to be around for that.
sir purple, lol. having a black belt in taekwondo doesn't give her the edge when it comes to reality that her bf will break up with her. it's your friend who knows the depth of this woman's character and he should have an idea of how she will react to this kind of revelation.
there is no way to avoid hurting her feelings but if i'm the girl, i prefer the honesty and the truth and i don't care how much it will hurt me.
If you are going to dump/break up with a girl you'll definitely break her heart.There is no way out but to tell her face to face.And be a man to face whatever the consequences,be it a punch or a slap in the face.Be a man,take it and bear it.But please tell your colleague to break it gently,soften the blow and emphasize the positive attributes of the girl.
Thats the way I see it.Though have'nt done it yet,hopefully never will.
He's French and has been with this Filipina for quite some time. I guess the flame just faded.
I told him (out of experience) that Filipinas, especially those from pampangga, can get quite sinister when someone would break their fragile hearts and this scenario scared the stankin feces out him.
Any suggestions?
(If it would help you come up with ideas... she has a black belt in taekwondo)How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
Tell your friend he owes it to the girl to tell her in the face.
If he is man enough to fall IN love, be a man enough to FALL OUT.
I am a Filipino, and I also know the Filipina heart. It is understanding, kind, and tough as bamboo. For all we know, she knows by now. Filipinas are notorious as mind readers, you know. It could be she is just waiting for your friend to talk seriously about it.
And aren't we downgrading the civility of the Filipina by implying she uses martial arts not to defend her life, her honor, or her loved ones? For all we know, a tear may fall, but a fist shall never be used in anger. A black belt should know better. It is instilled in the dicipline.How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
zzz... tell her when she's drunk... hmmm... beer... zzz...
The way I see it he only has two options.
He stands upto her and tells her the truth and takes the possible beating like a man, or
He does it the cowardly way, gets his things out while she is at work, and then texts her.
break it to her gently. i mean,any girl would get hurt regardless of what race/nationality. i suggest have a mature talk..over a cup of coffee or somewhere where only the two of them can talk and think...
well.. if she uses her taekwando skills.. good luck to her future xbf..hahahaha..consequence of breaking her heart.
tell him pretend to be bankrupt, lost jobs and such other things...nature will take its course.
Nah, Filipinas are more likely to chop his balls off after financially ruining him and taking him for everything he has got and they never forget
tell her '; I just dont think its going to work between us, but i still want to be friends'; it might sound harsh, but it works and hasnt failed me. they take it really nicely.
TELL HER personally, face-to-face
DON'T use email, letters, text messages, phone calls, post-its, etc.
sinister Pampanguena, hmmm.
not me, PT.
anyway, all he have to do is be honest.
and grab a ';palanggana'; to shield his face.
Read my lips, PT....';hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.';
But if he's still brave enough to do it, here's my personal ';how to';; i.e., not found in any advice book. Tell your friend to do the following:
1. have a big date with the girl...all the works...flowers, wine and dine, etc.
2. when he brings her home, slip a note to her as he leaves
(very important, tell him to walk fast - not run - to his car and don't look back)
3. the note should say something like ';forgive me for being a coward but I just have to let you know things are not working between us and it's best for you to dump me now than later. thanks for everything';
4. if the girl calls, he's not available...and he better not be available forever...run and hide, if he must.
If done properly, this will work...and the girl saves her face because she is the dumper, instead of the dumpee. Everybody happy.
Hey, newluv, you're not thinking of dumping me, are you?
haha. well, im filipina. i dont know her, but filipinas have the same feelings as everyone else. of course it hurts to get broken up with. i think he should come up with a good *** excuse to leave her.. stop being so damn stereotypical! please and thank you! =)
Follow your heart and do what you feel to be right.
Stop listening to other people who are not on your path. You've heard the old saying to walk a mile in another's shoes before judging them. Well, the fact is that no one has walked in your shoes and they have no right to tell you what is right or wrong for you.
Stop repeating old patterns and stop punishing yourself for things that others perceive to be wrong. Follow your heart and your passions. Only then will you truly be happy.
It is not your responsibility to make anyone else happy, but it IS your responsibility to make yourself happy.
if it were me i would make sure i was out of the country and then send her a letter explaining all she needed to know. getting out of the philippines is for his own safety of course
the best is really just tell her truth...as the song goes, break it to her gently
you just can't brother! you are doomed for the rest of your life! good luck! lol
He should just be honest with her. If he hasn't done anything wrong, like started seeing other people or anything, there is no way (realistically) that she can be upset.
It may be helpful to make it sound like he's doing her a favor by allowing them both to get out now. It gives her the chance to find someone who will make her feel how she should feel in a relationship. If he feels the flame has faded, then it has, regardless of how she feels.
Let's just hope the flame has also faded for her. It seems like it must've because it's hard for the flame to fade on only one side. Good luck to your buddy, hahaha us ladies are COMPLICATED sometimes :)
haha, tell the frenchman nobody dumps a filipina! nobody!
It's simple, there is no easy way. Just remember, when you do the deed, Karma is going to strike you back 10 times over. It sucks breaking up with someone, just don't be gutless and tell them via email or text message. Look them straight in the eye and tell them why. This way if they do try to hurt you, you have proof !!!
no matter how he does it, it would still hurt her if she's really into him. but he should be honest with his feelings. tell her that even if they continue seeing each other, it won't develop into something ';permanent'; and that it would only hurt them both if they continue with the relationship. it would be nice to offer to be friends. what's important is to apologize and make her see that there is nothing wrong with her, it's he whose feelings have waned. then just make himself scarce until she gets over him. if he is really scared of her, the thing to do is to break up with her, not really in a public place, but he should have someone with him, just in case she gets physical on him. break up at her place but with a male friend waiting for him outside. at least someone can bring him to the hospital just in case......kidding!!!!
There is no getting around it. If they've been together for that long, he is sure to break her heart, no matter how tough she seems (with her black belt and all). Telling it to her straight is the most manly thing to do, he may even end up being friends with her. Of course, he should expect being asked 7,000 questions so he had better be ready with good answers. A simple ';I fell out of love'; won't cut it so the explanation has to be detailed, when exactly what happened, who possibly has caused the drift (third party?), etc. Sugarcoat if he has to, but be totally honest. Filipinas have a keen nose for liars.
If they have absolutely no chance of seeing each other again, the easiest (and the jerkiest) way is disappearing into thin air. He avoids confrontation this way, and a possibility of a slight (or severe) injury. Again, they must never meet again after, or else he might as well have moved to the netherworld if they ever cross paths in the future.
This is tougher than it sounds.
I think he has to face her like a man to break the news. The initial beating won't be that bad. But, maybe visit some family in another region for a few months after that night. Once she gets to talking to her friends and new points are made about his punishment things could get dangerous. He doesn't want to be around for that.
sir purple, lol. having a black belt in taekwondo doesn't give her the edge when it comes to reality that her bf will break up with her. it's your friend who knows the depth of this woman's character and he should have an idea of how she will react to this kind of revelation.
there is no way to avoid hurting her feelings but if i'm the girl, i prefer the honesty and the truth and i don't care how much it will hurt me.
If you are going to dump/break up with a girl you'll definitely break her heart.There is no way out but to tell her face to face.And be a man to face whatever the consequences,be it a punch or a slap in the face.Be a man,take it and bear it.But please tell your colleague to break it gently,soften the blow and emphasize the positive attributes of the girl.
Thats the way I see it.Though have'nt done it yet,hopefully never will.
Should I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
my girlfriend has a weird problem with a freaky pee and poop fetish and i don't know how to tell her I'm not into that stuff. and now she wants to try animal stuff....should i break up with her or what?Should I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
um if you are ok with her doing that
to you then don't break up with her
but if she does or wants to do that to you
often then i think you shouldShould I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
I'd find a girl that isn't into feet, and pee pee and ****. But it's up to you. That is a dirty girl. Find a good girl that likes it rough and won't get a raccoon to piss on you.
Its really your desicion. give the relationship more time
tell her she need her and you are going to send to consluer
um if you are ok with her doing that
to you then don't break up with her
but if she does or wants to do that to you
often then i think you shouldShould I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
I'd find a girl that isn't into feet, and pee pee and ****. But it's up to you. That is a dirty girl. Find a good girl that likes it rough and won't get a raccoon to piss on you.
Its really your desicion. give the relationship more time
tell her she need her and you are going to send to consluer
How to make a girl break up with you?
i want her to break up with me :[ cause this relationship has top many problems so how do i make her wanna break up with me through textHow to make a girl break up with you?
Write a text about how good a time you had ect...and can't wait to get together real soon again %26amp; put a fake name in the spot ...where her's should be then send it to her ...That should do it ! Sucks but it's effective !How to make a girl break up with you?
Why don't you just man up and break up w/ her. and why would you want her to do it through a text anyways? Grow some balls and just end it yourself, you got yourself into this relationship, if you want out then get yourself out.
just break up with her.
It gets the relationship ended, which is what you want.
Write a text about how good a time you had ect...and can't wait to get together real soon again %26amp; put a fake name in the spot ...where her's should be then send it to her ...That should do it ! Sucks but it's effective !How to make a girl break up with you?
Why don't you just man up and break up w/ her. and why would you want her to do it through a text anyways? Grow some balls and just end it yourself, you got yourself into this relationship, if you want out then get yourself out.
just break up with her.
It gets the relationship ended, which is what you want.
What is the best way to break up with a girl?
I have been dating this girl for about 8 months. How do I tell her and still remain friends?What is the best way to break up with a girl?
just stay away from her and have only normal conversation. she will get your message.What is the best way to break up with a girl?
You don't want to be tied down anymore, but you still really like her.
***** bein her friend just invite her over for dinner and be real sweet and when she comes over ***** that ****** up or throw off a balcony if u live high enough :)...or get two hookers to be there ******** u when she walks in the door....that'll get her to go away.
Tell her you want to be just her friend and still do things together, but you don't feel that you don't think you are in love now that you have really gotten to know her.
Don't be surprised if she is hurt and wants nothing more to do with you, so be really sure you don't love her before you tell her that you are not in love.
first of all
always do it in person
be a man
but ok
be really nice about it
really honest
eye contact
';I really want to stay friends';
don't say ';we can still be friends'; - that pisses me off
don't make her feel like a victim even tho she is
sometimes when you think they are going to get really upset or mad, they actually respect your decision and seem decently okay
it'll be awkward after
even if you don't think it will
The same way you told us. Be sure to tell her it's over or she could become obsessive. It's better to be honest even if it hurts because she could keep coming around.
Just tell her in the face. You don't have to give her a reason. Really.
Well I agree that face to face is best, I disagree with not giving her a reason, I know I'd be pissed if there wasn't a reason for it. If the feeling's gone, tell her that, if it's another reason, give it to her. BUT, if it's because you like someone else... DONT mention that. Just say you're feelings have changed. If you say you have feelings for someone else she'll assume you cheated on her, or it will atleast cross her mind. Bottom line, just be honest and kind, expect her to get mad at you, she'll get over it.
You dont do it any good way really.
She will cry and you will say we can still be friends, and it will be akward between you two for as long as you see eachother.
But just do it and get it over with so you can move on.
Get one last ride in before you go though, 8 months i think you've earned that much.
I dont think there really is a good way. I mean no matter how you break up with her your gonna hurt her. To her face would be a better way then anything else..just come out as nice as possible so you can still remain friends. Hopefully it wont be awkward if you remain friends
idk but i hate it when i guy says i dont want a gf right now
be honest with her. dont leave her confused. my bf of over 2 years broke up with me on sunday.. it will be up to her to be friends with you or not. by ex wants to be friends with me but im not sure... well see what happens.
jut be honest with her. answer al of the questiosn she has for you. tell her the truth.. hopefully you arent leaving her for someone else... or some other messed up reason.. just be honest wiht her though.
Just tell her that your feelings are more like those for a friend than for a girlfriend and that you want to be honest about it.
tell her straight up how you feel
if she cares about you then she will understand
just stay away from her and have only normal conversation. she will get your message.What is the best way to break up with a girl?
You don't want to be tied down anymore, but you still really like her.
***** bein her friend just invite her over for dinner and be real sweet and when she comes over ***** that ****** up or throw off a balcony if u live high enough :)...or get two hookers to be there ******** u when she walks in the door....that'll get her to go away.
Tell her you want to be just her friend and still do things together, but you don't feel that you don't think you are in love now that you have really gotten to know her.
Don't be surprised if she is hurt and wants nothing more to do with you, so be really sure you don't love her before you tell her that you are not in love.
first of all
always do it in person
be a man
but ok
be really nice about it
really honest
eye contact
';I really want to stay friends';
don't say ';we can still be friends'; - that pisses me off
don't make her feel like a victim even tho she is
sometimes when you think they are going to get really upset or mad, they actually respect your decision and seem decently okay
it'll be awkward after
even if you don't think it will
The same way you told us. Be sure to tell her it's over or she could become obsessive. It's better to be honest even if it hurts because she could keep coming around.
Just tell her in the face. You don't have to give her a reason. Really.
Well I agree that face to face is best, I disagree with not giving her a reason, I know I'd be pissed if there wasn't a reason for it. If the feeling's gone, tell her that, if it's another reason, give it to her. BUT, if it's because you like someone else... DONT mention that. Just say you're feelings have changed. If you say you have feelings for someone else she'll assume you cheated on her, or it will atleast cross her mind. Bottom line, just be honest and kind, expect her to get mad at you, she'll get over it.
You dont do it any good way really.
She will cry and you will say we can still be friends, and it will be akward between you two for as long as you see eachother.
But just do it and get it over with so you can move on.
Get one last ride in before you go though, 8 months i think you've earned that much.
I dont think there really is a good way. I mean no matter how you break up with her your gonna hurt her. To her face would be a better way then anything else..just come out as nice as possible so you can still remain friends. Hopefully it wont be awkward if you remain friends
idk but i hate it when i guy says i dont want a gf right now
be honest with her. dont leave her confused. my bf of over 2 years broke up with me on sunday.. it will be up to her to be friends with you or not. by ex wants to be friends with me but im not sure... well see what happens.
jut be honest with her. answer al of the questiosn she has for you. tell her the truth.. hopefully you arent leaving her for someone else... or some other messed up reason.. just be honest wiht her though.
Just tell her that your feelings are more like those for a friend than for a girlfriend and that you want to be honest about it.
tell her straight up how you feel
if she cares about you then she will understand
How do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
i want a boy that i like to break up with another girl so i can go out with him but the problem is that i got them together in the first place and now i realize that i really like him a lot and i want to go out with him!!!how do i get them to break up without them getting mad at me???How do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
Well, no that I reccomend it, but to do so your going to have to show how much better you are than the other girl... but serioulsly, guys have emotions too... be carefulHow do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
...YOU DONT..cause then that means that he would easily do it to you to.
You don't. You act mature, wish them the best and move on.
well; the girl might get mad at you, but i think you should just tell the guy how you really feel, and if he feels the same.. you guys can go on from there. but if he doesn't, that's just something you are going to have to live with, because you got them together, and you really have no right to break them up.
i think breakind them up is not that good of idea cuase it always brings trouble no matter what! besides if he wants to go out with you he would of broken up with her. but u can try talking to him not pushing him and hanging out with him and over time hell like uskin cancer c++
Well, no that I reccomend it, but to do so your going to have to show how much better you are than the other girl... but serioulsly, guys have emotions too... be carefulHow do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
...YOU DONT..cause then that means that he would easily do it to you to.
You don't. You act mature, wish them the best and move on.
well; the girl might get mad at you, but i think you should just tell the guy how you really feel, and if he feels the same.. you guys can go on from there. but if he doesn't, that's just something you are going to have to live with, because you got them together, and you really have no right to break them up.
i think breakind them up is not that good of idea cuase it always brings trouble no matter what! besides if he wants to go out with you he would of broken up with her. but u can try talking to him not pushing him and hanging out with him and over time hell like u
How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
Ive tried a few times but i dont have the strength to do it. It is alot harder than i thought it would be. But i Want to be able to be a Man about it and do it and person. On the Phone or TXT is just plain Cowardly, Ive tried in person but i cant close the deal, How should i do it?How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
I'm going throught the same thing... I've tried to break up with my boyfriend a few times but the words just...wont come out. it's so frustrating...
I plan to do it tomorrow though... I just have to remember that if I were in his possition, I wouldn't want to be led on to believe I still have feelings for him when I actualyl dont...
I just need to find the strength to say it!
And you do too... I don;t know how we're gonna do it but it's not fair to the others to lead them on anymore...
good luck to you!How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
just keep in mind it's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship like this. after so many months, i think you should be strong and just do it in person. tell her you think she is awesome and you hope to stay friends, but you don't think the relationship is going to work out anymore (or if there is a particular reason for wanting to break up maybe add that). If you really really can't do it in person then at least do it on the phone. just don't do it over text or email.
well sorry babe but ur ****** be a man and be like its over but WHY DO U WANNA!!! what did she do.... just be nice about it tho
I'm going throught the same thing... I've tried to break up with my boyfriend a few times but the words just...wont come out. it's so frustrating...
I plan to do it tomorrow though... I just have to remember that if I were in his possition, I wouldn't want to be led on to believe I still have feelings for him when I actualyl dont...
I just need to find the strength to say it!
And you do too... I don;t know how we're gonna do it but it's not fair to the others to lead them on anymore...
good luck to you!How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
just keep in mind it's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship like this. after so many months, i think you should be strong and just do it in person. tell her you think she is awesome and you hope to stay friends, but you don't think the relationship is going to work out anymore (or if there is a particular reason for wanting to break up maybe add that). If you really really can't do it in person then at least do it on the phone. just don't do it over text or email.
well sorry babe but ur ****** be a man and be like its over but WHY DO U WANNA!!! what did she do.... just be nice about it tho
How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
Me and this girl having been going together for about 2 months and as time goes on i feel like we have nothing in common. i want to break up with her but i want to stay her friend and not look like a jerk. Any suggestions?How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
I had a guy tell me this. It doesn't hurt any less. If you're lucky, she'll break up with you first.How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
Do not be her friend just to save yourself from looking like a jerk or because it will sound good to her and you see it as an easy way of letting her down. Because if you end up saying that and not following through you will just lose more credibility.
Either way you will hurt her, no matter how you sugar coat it.
If she doesn't want to be you're friend right away, then allow her the space she needs. Just be honest with her and then take 5 steps backwards and see where she goes from there.
Say, 'I don't think things are going well between us, I think it would be best to stay as friends' or something similar to those lines.
Although, when you break up with her, give her some time to 'heal' and get over it, before you two start talking again. Until she shows signs that she's back on her feet, start a conversation like you normally would with a friend, although take in the factors, that it might not be the same like it was.
Tell her, that you don't think you're meant to be together, but you'd still love to keep her in your life as a friend. :) or tell her that you're better off as friends, and you would reallly like to remain being her friend. :) Good Luck!!! :D
tell her that friendship is important, if relationship doesn't work out out, you still want to be a good friend.
Here are the sites that has lots of information on relationship. you might find that helpful, check that out.
thebigromantic.com
singlewomen4dating.com
relationshiptip.com .
I'd just be honest with her. Tell her she means a lot to you but more like a friend then as a bf/gf and you feel you both should just go on and you hope she will still remain a friend to you cause it would mean a lot to you.
you need to give yourself time for that, tell him to give you time and make sure you don't do it in a manner that will create tension.keep distance but never fail to communicate with her . [no much because i hate divorce]
You're allowed to break up with someone and not be a jerk. being friends usually takes a period of ';getting over' time.
You sound like a gem, many guys wouldn't care about how they broke up.
I had a guy tell me this. It doesn't hurt any less. If you're lucky, she'll break up with you first.How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
Do not be her friend just to save yourself from looking like a jerk or because it will sound good to her and you see it as an easy way of letting her down. Because if you end up saying that and not following through you will just lose more credibility.
Either way you will hurt her, no matter how you sugar coat it.
If she doesn't want to be you're friend right away, then allow her the space she needs. Just be honest with her and then take 5 steps backwards and see where she goes from there.
Say, 'I don't think things are going well between us, I think it would be best to stay as friends' or something similar to those lines.
Although, when you break up with her, give her some time to 'heal' and get over it, before you two start talking again. Until she shows signs that she's back on her feet, start a conversation like you normally would with a friend, although take in the factors, that it might not be the same like it was.
Tell her, that you don't think you're meant to be together, but you'd still love to keep her in your life as a friend. :) or tell her that you're better off as friends, and you would reallly like to remain being her friend. :) Good Luck!!! :D
tell her that friendship is important, if relationship doesn't work out out, you still want to be a good friend.
Here are the sites that has lots of information on relationship. you might find that helpful, check that out.
thebigromantic.com
singlewomen4dating.com
relationshiptip.com .
I'd just be honest with her. Tell her she means a lot to you but more like a friend then as a bf/gf and you feel you both should just go on and you hope she will still remain a friend to you cause it would mean a lot to you.
you need to give yourself time for that, tell him to give you time and make sure you don't do it in a manner that will create tension.keep distance but never fail to communicate with her . [no much because i hate divorce]
You're allowed to break up with someone and not be a jerk. being friends usually takes a period of ';getting over' time.
You sound like a gem, many guys wouldn't care about how they broke up.
How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
well we've been dating for 6 months now and it really isn't working, iv lost that feeling and iv try'ed to get it back but yeah epic fail. only problem is that formal is just around the corner and i would feel terrible to break up with her now. should i stay or run like no tomorrow How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
Lol, just break up with her like you would if formal wasn't around the corner. She won't take it well no matter what. just be nice about it!How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
If the relationship is really not what your looking for, then i would say to break up with her because theres no point in dating a person that you lost that special touch with. You could still go to formal with her though as friends so she doesnt feel as if you broke up with her because you didnt want to take her there.
How about telling her now that you've come to the decision that your relationship isn't working. Ask her if she'd still want to go with you to the formal upon knowing this. Give her the option to back out. It's more honest , you'll feel better about it latter and she should feel respected. Good Luck
Is it your Year 12 formal? Neither of you probably need the added stress if you are sitting your exams right now. Leave it til exams are over.
No, break up with her now. It's better for both of you guys to be able to find a new date now instead of right before the formal.
thats a tricky situation. cos im guessing u have already asked her to go with u
i think if u have someone else u really like then ask her to the formal, otherwise maybe u should just wait it out.
dont break up wth her. u dont just break up cuz there is no vibe, only she does that. u break up if u get in a fight. at least date her until a week or two after formal.
Pull a George Castanza, tell her ';It's not you, it's me.';
Lol, just break up with her like you would if formal wasn't around the corner. She won't take it well no matter what. just be nice about it!How do i break up with a girl 4 weeks before formal?
If the relationship is really not what your looking for, then i would say to break up with her because theres no point in dating a person that you lost that special touch with. You could still go to formal with her though as friends so she doesnt feel as if you broke up with her because you didnt want to take her there.
How about telling her now that you've come to the decision that your relationship isn't working. Ask her if she'd still want to go with you to the formal upon knowing this. Give her the option to back out. It's more honest , you'll feel better about it latter and she should feel respected. Good Luck
Is it your Year 12 formal? Neither of you probably need the added stress if you are sitting your exams right now. Leave it til exams are over.
No, break up with her now. It's better for both of you guys to be able to find a new date now instead of right before the formal.
thats a tricky situation. cos im guessing u have already asked her to go with u
i think if u have someone else u really like then ask her to the formal, otherwise maybe u should just wait it out.
dont break up wth her. u dont just break up cuz there is no vibe, only she does that. u break up if u get in a fight. at least date her until a week or two after formal.
Pull a George Castanza, tell her ';It's not you, it's me.';
How should I ask her to meet up with her?
I asked this earlier..thx to the people who helped me...and for you that called me a ';stalker';, you guys are immature Dumba$$'s...please don't answer if your gonna say something stupid.. :)
so here is my question again,
I added this girl on FB on the 18th..just cuz i thought she was cute/ and interesting person i should get to know.lol..neways..we started talking at around 9pm the first night..and b4 we knew it i was 1am!!!..the next day we talk from 5pm-11pm..then yesterday we talk from 3pm-12am.this not all done over the computer..so we don't sit there for 8 hours and type away..lol..we are on our phones...our convos are very random..it goes from music, movies, than deeper talk about families, and relationships. and we also ask eachother for advice...
We really hit it off as ';friends';..what is the best way to ask her to meet me in person?...or should we continue to talk online a little longer.? btw she has a bf (and i asked her if he is cool with her talking to guys, and she said yes) and that is why i say as friends lol. don't want to ruin the relationship, but her mom doesn't want her to date the guy anymore, cuz he is not the same race as her (traditions)..and she actually tried breaking up with the guy a few weeks ago..but couldn't...again i am no where near a home wrecker.believe me....plus i want to know who im talking to..lolHow should I ask her to meet up with her?
I think you shouldn't meet up with her I smell Bad news.How should I ask her to meet up with her?
Okay well i think you should just say something like '; hey i was wondering , you and me get along so well :) that maybe we should meet, it would be nice to see you face-to-face :) '; well somethin like that anyways , just come out and say it !! and you didnt give much info on the whole bf situation but if you do really like her and she doesnt really wana be with him or anythin then maybe you should try and see exactly how she feels about her bf and how she feels about you and just go from there !! hope i helped !! :) :)
Unless she lives close to you it's too much hassle to meet up. If she does, don't go alone. You never know, it could be someone dangerous no matter how friendly they may seem to you.
Just casually ask her what she's doing, then suggest you meet up and go somewhere with a few friends. Tell her to bring a few friends and say you'll be bringing a few friends - means if she is for real she doesn't get suspicious.
Might be a good idea to wait a few more days at least as well.
great you form a good friendship on the phone, but the real kicker is if you can carry it off in person, about the Boyfirend, i dont think its serious if she is able to talk to you that long on the phone, she obvisously is intrigued enough to forget the BF, by the way where is he at during these conversations?
I say she grew a spine and break up with the guy if not she is a fluzy. who wants the BF and the sidekick (you) under no circumstances should she keep the boyfriend if she is interested in you, that would be creepy and weird
Think of the things you guys have talked about on the phone.. find a common ground.. was there a movie or even a type of movie that you guys agreed that you both like? If so, bring it up in conversation and ask if she feels like going to see it.. ''one day next week'' / ''this weekend'' (or whenever you want).. you could even say right after you ask her: ''by the way, I realise you have a bf, I am just suggesting we meet as friends because I get on really well with you and we were talking about (this movie) the other day''... this might help so she doesn't feel awkward (considering she has a bf) and so it takes the pressure off for both of you. Often it's better to get to know someone as friends anyway, because then if it doesn't go anywhere other than friendship, then there's no hard feelings. If she's talking to you for hours on end over several days then she's interested, regardless of whether she has a bf. Remember one thing however, she mentioned she tried to break up with her bf a few weeks ago but couldn't (there's a reason she couldn't and this could be a problem for you if you do start to really like her). Good luck anyway.
I would not advice online dating because people can steal others people identity and when you check it out they are not who they said they really are. Secondly you should meet her
so here is my question again,
I added this girl on FB on the 18th..just cuz i thought she was cute/ and interesting person i should get to know.lol..neways..we started talking at around 9pm the first night..and b4 we knew it i was 1am!!!..the next day we talk from 5pm-11pm..then yesterday we talk from 3pm-12am.this not all done over the computer..so we don't sit there for 8 hours and type away..lol..we are on our phones...our convos are very random..it goes from music, movies, than deeper talk about families, and relationships. and we also ask eachother for advice...
We really hit it off as ';friends';..what is the best way to ask her to meet me in person?...or should we continue to talk online a little longer.? btw she has a bf (and i asked her if he is cool with her talking to guys, and she said yes) and that is why i say as friends lol. don't want to ruin the relationship, but her mom doesn't want her to date the guy anymore, cuz he is not the same race as her (traditions)..and she actually tried breaking up with the guy a few weeks ago..but couldn't...again i am no where near a home wrecker.believe me....plus i want to know who im talking to..lolHow should I ask her to meet up with her?
I think you shouldn't meet up with her I smell Bad news.How should I ask her to meet up with her?
Okay well i think you should just say something like '; hey i was wondering , you and me get along so well :) that maybe we should meet, it would be nice to see you face-to-face :) '; well somethin like that anyways , just come out and say it !! and you didnt give much info on the whole bf situation but if you do really like her and she doesnt really wana be with him or anythin then maybe you should try and see exactly how she feels about her bf and how she feels about you and just go from there !! hope i helped !! :) :)
Unless she lives close to you it's too much hassle to meet up. If she does, don't go alone. You never know, it could be someone dangerous no matter how friendly they may seem to you.
Just casually ask her what she's doing, then suggest you meet up and go somewhere with a few friends. Tell her to bring a few friends and say you'll be bringing a few friends - means if she is for real she doesn't get suspicious.
Might be a good idea to wait a few more days at least as well.
great you form a good friendship on the phone, but the real kicker is if you can carry it off in person, about the Boyfirend, i dont think its serious if she is able to talk to you that long on the phone, she obvisously is intrigued enough to forget the BF, by the way where is he at during these conversations?
I say she grew a spine and break up with the guy if not she is a fluzy. who wants the BF and the sidekick (you) under no circumstances should she keep the boyfriend if she is interested in you, that would be creepy and weird
Think of the things you guys have talked about on the phone.. find a common ground.. was there a movie or even a type of movie that you guys agreed that you both like? If so, bring it up in conversation and ask if she feels like going to see it.. ''one day next week'' / ''this weekend'' (or whenever you want).. you could even say right after you ask her: ''by the way, I realise you have a bf, I am just suggesting we meet as friends because I get on really well with you and we were talking about (this movie) the other day''... this might help so she doesn't feel awkward (considering she has a bf) and so it takes the pressure off for both of you. Often it's better to get to know someone as friends anyway, because then if it doesn't go anywhere other than friendship, then there's no hard feelings. If she's talking to you for hours on end over several days then she's interested, regardless of whether she has a bf. Remember one thing however, she mentioned she tried to break up with her bf a few weeks ago but couldn't (there's a reason she couldn't and this could be a problem for you if you do start to really like her). Good luck anyway.
I would not advice online dating because people can steal others people identity and when you check it out they are not who they said they really are. Secondly you should meet her
How can you break up with a teenage girl?
I'm 12 and so is my girlfriend but i want to break up with her. we've only been dating for 6 days. How can i breakup with her without her or her friends getting mad. also her bff is my other exgirlfriend and i still liek her bffHow can you break up with a teenage girl?
be upfront, answer any questions why you did (shell need closer) dont give her any cheesy lines like its not you, its me (girls hate that). explain to her with detail why, and hug her at the end.How can you break up with a teenage girl?
You're 12?
Dude, your not even a teenager.
6 days isn't a long time.
Stop starting drama.
Just tell her you want to break up.
Tell her you still have feelings for your ex.
I dont know but me as a teen as well i just start not hanging around with her in lunch and other time you can then whate tell she brakes up with me .
Or just be traite out
Go to her and tell her that is not working out. Done
just break up with her. her friends are gonna get mad either way. by the way your 12 thats means your a preteen. haven't quite reached the teen years hun. Don't worry though a relationship as 12 year old will be nothing compared to when 16.
just tell her nicely but in person not in a text message or anything!
dont go out with her bff yet
this is a hard one! just say that i still like my old girlfrined but i also like you...even if you dont. then go ask her bff if she still likes you. if she says no then i dont know what you should do but if she says yes. nice one
Give her a good hug and then say we need to break up its not me its you im so sorry. trust me im a girl and if you say anything else she will kick you so hard you wont be able to have children if you know what i mean :p Been there DONE THAT.
i done it twice... all u have to say is we can be freinds but its a bit getting to serios so its over...you will probaly end up being with a girl crying ..
honestly you are too immature. you shouldn't even have a girlfriend.
you need to be honest. she is not going to hold this against you forever i promise! years from now in high school, the who dated who's in middle school are quite funny. just be honest with her and do it in person! dont do it over the phone or texting or instant messaging, thats cowardly like.
do the ';it's not you, its me'; bit, tell her you wanna just be friends for now, then bring her to Mcdonalds
Even if you try to make a clean break, she will still be hurt and I hope you understand that 12 is kinda young to be dating in the first place. (Personally I don't think you would have any chance with her BFF, but others may say otherwise. One of my BFF had a boy break up with her then hit on me and she was devastated. So you might have blown it already.) But you could make a clean break by trying to say you think it would be better if you just stay friends, (If you want to) .
This question doesn't concern you as you and your girlfriend aren't even teenagers.
Ouch what a mess!
Since you've been dating for a tiny bit, then you're probably not that serious or in too deep, so going serparate ways won't be that humungous, if i can say.
It's rather early for you to do stuff like that. Being 12 is about hanging out with friends, going out to the movies, theme parks...and running around, like skateboarding... you get the picture.
Good luck
tell her gently you don't feel right with her and all, but tell her you want to be friends. NOW trying to like her bff a week after can cause friend problems. Just tell her bff you still like her AT LEAST 4 months after (if u can wait that long...hahahaha) and tell her you want to go out with her if her best friend would be ok with it. be nice and polite and try to still be friends. AND PS- people on here WILL tell you that your to young to have a gf or call you names but listen to me- ignore them. im 12 to, and have asked love questions and those are the only answers i get. so dont listen to them. and im not in for ten points, im in to help you.....although ten points would be nice......hahahahaha. good luck!
don't lie to her. But your only twelve mate calm down. If you like her BF, if they're are truly BF then I doubt that you have a chance with her. but cool things down with you gf and then let her go. then when your just friends again and she does like you then you can ask her BF out again if you want but have the guts to do it in person. I know it awkward but (i'm a girl btw) I cant stand it when boys don't have the guts. kay. and boys wont know what to do so don't take there advice. kay good luck.
She'll be embarrassed so DO NOT do it around her friends. DO NOT ask her bff out for at least another week. Say you're sorry. Do not do it over the phone! or E-mail! When she's alone say ';i'm really sorry but i don't want to be with you anymore'; Don't make it a long discussion try to get it over with, avoid her for a couple days so she doesn't feel all weird around you. She might actually be ok with it but just pray she doesn't cry or you'll be back with her in 5 seconds!
good luck. x
Just break up with her, girls come and go, you have your whole life ahead of you
tell her its over you cant go on or do it anymore and kiss her tell her you loved her but ur srry
Oh go screw yourself. You're 12, just throw you mighty mouse lunchbox at her and tell her it's over.
';im breaking up with you... its not you, its me.';
be upfront, answer any questions why you did (shell need closer) dont give her any cheesy lines like its not you, its me (girls hate that). explain to her with detail why, and hug her at the end.How can you break up with a teenage girl?
You're 12?
Dude, your not even a teenager.
6 days isn't a long time.
Stop starting drama.
Just tell her you want to break up.
Tell her you still have feelings for your ex.
I dont know but me as a teen as well i just start not hanging around with her in lunch and other time you can then whate tell she brakes up with me .
Or just be traite out
Go to her and tell her that is not working out. Done
just break up with her. her friends are gonna get mad either way. by the way your 12 thats means your a preteen. haven't quite reached the teen years hun. Don't worry though a relationship as 12 year old will be nothing compared to when 16.
just tell her nicely but in person not in a text message or anything!
dont go out with her bff yet
this is a hard one! just say that i still like my old girlfrined but i also like you...even if you dont. then go ask her bff if she still likes you. if she says no then i dont know what you should do but if she says yes. nice one
Give her a good hug and then say we need to break up its not me its you im so sorry. trust me im a girl and if you say anything else she will kick you so hard you wont be able to have children if you know what i mean :p Been there DONE THAT.
i done it twice... all u have to say is we can be freinds but its a bit getting to serios so its over...you will probaly end up being with a girl crying ..
honestly you are too immature. you shouldn't even have a girlfriend.
you need to be honest. she is not going to hold this against you forever i promise! years from now in high school, the who dated who's in middle school are quite funny. just be honest with her and do it in person! dont do it over the phone or texting or instant messaging, thats cowardly like.
do the ';it's not you, its me'; bit, tell her you wanna just be friends for now, then bring her to Mcdonalds
Even if you try to make a clean break, she will still be hurt and I hope you understand that 12 is kinda young to be dating in the first place. (Personally I don't think you would have any chance with her BFF, but others may say otherwise. One of my BFF had a boy break up with her then hit on me and she was devastated. So you might have blown it already.) But you could make a clean break by trying to say you think it would be better if you just stay friends, (If you want to) .
This question doesn't concern you as you and your girlfriend aren't even teenagers.
Ouch what a mess!
Since you've been dating for a tiny bit, then you're probably not that serious or in too deep, so going serparate ways won't be that humungous, if i can say.
It's rather early for you to do stuff like that. Being 12 is about hanging out with friends, going out to the movies, theme parks...and running around, like skateboarding... you get the picture.
Good luck
tell her gently you don't feel right with her and all, but tell her you want to be friends. NOW trying to like her bff a week after can cause friend problems. Just tell her bff you still like her AT LEAST 4 months after (if u can wait that long...hahahaha) and tell her you want to go out with her if her best friend would be ok with it. be nice and polite and try to still be friends. AND PS- people on here WILL tell you that your to young to have a gf or call you names but listen to me- ignore them. im 12 to, and have asked love questions and those are the only answers i get. so dont listen to them. and im not in for ten points, im in to help you.....although ten points would be nice......hahahahaha. good luck!
don't lie to her. But your only twelve mate calm down. If you like her BF, if they're are truly BF then I doubt that you have a chance with her. but cool things down with you gf and then let her go. then when your just friends again and she does like you then you can ask her BF out again if you want but have the guts to do it in person. I know it awkward but (i'm a girl btw) I cant stand it when boys don't have the guts. kay. and boys wont know what to do so don't take there advice. kay good luck.
She'll be embarrassed so DO NOT do it around her friends. DO NOT ask her bff out for at least another week. Say you're sorry. Do not do it over the phone! or E-mail! When she's alone say ';i'm really sorry but i don't want to be with you anymore'; Don't make it a long discussion try to get it over with, avoid her for a couple days so she doesn't feel all weird around you. She might actually be ok with it but just pray she doesn't cry or you'll be back with her in 5 seconds!
good luck. x
Just break up with her, girls come and go, you have your whole life ahead of you
tell her its over you cant go on or do it anymore and kiss her tell her you loved her but ur srry
Oh go screw yourself. You're 12, just throw you mighty mouse lunchbox at her and tell her it's over.
';im breaking up with you... its not you, its me.';
How to break up with a girl that really likes you?
I dont know how she really likes me and weve been dating for a while and like uh um i dont wanna hurt her feelings but i kinda lost feelings for her .
Ps. i dont want to hear say:we should see other people.
BE REASONABLE! :DHow to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Be genuine. . sincere. . and honest!!
Even if it hurts her; At least don't be a jerk! be like you always have been to her.
Be there for her; but hold to breaking up with her.. dont be like.. 'well maybe we can stay together'
cause then you will end up breaking up with her later on; and then you hurt her twice!
So just let her down easy. . Be sweet.. but firm.. and be genuinly sorry! and talk it through with her. If she has any questions; answer them. How to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Just do it. Sorry i know its pretty cold but it would be more wrong if she kept thinking you were interested. I would just end it in however subtle way i could. I promise you would be doing her a favor.
thats reallly hard. um idk
just hold her hand when its quiet, and tell her its better off we go our own way.
idk..good luckskin cancer c++
Ps. i dont want to hear say:we should see other people.
BE REASONABLE! :DHow to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Be genuine. . sincere. . and honest!!
Even if it hurts her; At least don't be a jerk! be like you always have been to her.
Be there for her; but hold to breaking up with her.. dont be like.. 'well maybe we can stay together'
cause then you will end up breaking up with her later on; and then you hurt her twice!
So just let her down easy. . Be sweet.. but firm.. and be genuinly sorry! and talk it through with her. If she has any questions; answer them. How to break up with a girl that really likes you?
Just do it. Sorry i know its pretty cold but it would be more wrong if she kept thinking you were interested. I would just end it in however subtle way i could. I promise you would be doing her a favor.
thats reallly hard. um idk
just hold her hand when its quiet, and tell her its better off we go our own way.
idk..good luck
How to Break up With a Girl?
Ive been dating her for a year and 5 months and Im not feeling it anymore I told her I wanted a break and she agreed Barely, How can I finish her offHow to Break up With a Girl?
meet someone else :(How to Break up With a Girl?
';I just don't think that we should be together anymore. I'm just not feeling the sparks anymore. I'm sorry, but I think we should break up.';
what do you mean finish her off??? lol
just break the hell up with her!! im sure you can do that...i mean it will suck and she will probably be upset but in the end your saving yourself and her a lot of wasted time....if you stay with her and your not interested in her youll end up falling for someone else or cheating and than that will hurt more than breaking up with her now
you just did it.. :P
';Your ugly, I want to break up.';
In person, but if you don't really care do it in text it's easer!
whatever you do, do it personally. and don't just say ';I wanna split';, explain why it is that you think the relationship shouldn't progress.
Do you want to be a man of integrity or a scum bag?
If you want to be a good guy, just tell her. Don't let her find out don't be rude just tell her you're moving on. After 1yr and a 1/2 you should be able to do that. It won't be pretty but at least you'll be acting like a man.
Be straight up with her even if she cries and does the big dramatic why??!!! just do it it's better to be honest and try to break it off in a good note than prettending to be ok with the relationship and being unhappy. SO CALL IT OFF %26gt; once and for all
';We've had an amazing time together and you're a beautiful person but you deserve someone who will return the same feelings you have. I'm sorry but I don't feel that way towards you anymore you deserve someone that does';
F*** her, then dump her because she can't suck s***
meet someone else :(How to Break up With a Girl?
';I just don't think that we should be together anymore. I'm just not feeling the sparks anymore. I'm sorry, but I think we should break up.';
what do you mean finish her off??? lol
just break the hell up with her!! im sure you can do that...i mean it will suck and she will probably be upset but in the end your saving yourself and her a lot of wasted time....if you stay with her and your not interested in her youll end up falling for someone else or cheating and than that will hurt more than breaking up with her now
you just did it.. :P
';Your ugly, I want to break up.';
In person, but if you don't really care do it in text it's easer!
whatever you do, do it personally. and don't just say ';I wanna split';, explain why it is that you think the relationship shouldn't progress.
Do you want to be a man of integrity or a scum bag?
If you want to be a good guy, just tell her. Don't let her find out don't be rude just tell her you're moving on. After 1yr and a 1/2 you should be able to do that. It won't be pretty but at least you'll be acting like a man.
Be straight up with her even if she cries and does the big dramatic why??!!! just do it it's better to be honest and try to break it off in a good note than prettending to be ok with the relationship and being unhappy. SO CALL IT OFF %26gt; once and for all
';We've had an amazing time together and you're a beautiful person but you deserve someone who will return the same feelings you have. I'm sorry but I don't feel that way towards you anymore you deserve someone that does';
F*** her, then dump her because she can't suck s***
How to get a girl to break up with you..?
we started dating a few weeks ago and i have realized that im too flirty to have a girlfriend, but i dont wanna hurt her; i dont want answeres like burping at the table because we hardly see each other. i dont wanna hurt her but i want her to dumpp me. :) ((i cant break up with her cuz of personal reasons))How to get a girl to break up with you..?
tell her you have genital herpes
or tell her that her brother is hot and if you weren't going out with her you would try and get with him
just a suggestionHow to get a girl to break up with you..?
.Best idea is to tell her youneed to take a break for a bit.Let her know your quite happy for her to have friends.While your having a break
tell her you have genital herpes
or tell her that her brother is hot and if you weren't going out with her you would try and get with him
just a suggestionHow to get a girl to break up with you..?
.Best idea is to tell her youneed to take a break for a bit.Let her know your quite happy for her to have friends.While your having a break
What's the best WAY to break up with a girl?
For those of you who read my last question, I just need the other half of how I'm going to do this....
Oh, we're 15 and I don't want to hurt her in any way. What's the best WAY to break up with a girl?
Be honest. Don't play with her emotions. Tell her in private and tell her the true reason. I didn't read your other question but whatever the reason is it is important that you let her know. I am sure that you are not trying to hurt her but a break up is painful and you should be as mature as possible. Good Luck!What's the best WAY to break up with a girl?
Well to be honest I have never been a part of a relationship, and I am around your age, but if i was and the guy wanted to break up with me, I thought that the kindest way in my opinion would be to tell me that he likes me but is unsure that I'm the one he wants to marry and be with forever. I'm terrible sorry if that helped in no way at all, hopefully someone with experience can give you better advice.
How sweet that you don't want to hurt her feelings.
Sadly there is no way to NOT hurt her if she cares for you. Rejection is never easy.
To me, the best way to break up with someone is to do it honestly and with as much compassion as possible.
I would draft up a nice letter to be able to hand to her after you tell her how you feel. The reason for the letter is to clear up any confusion she might have AND to let her have something to explain why.
I would be honest with her.
Jane,
Thank you for spending so much time with me. I have really enjoyed getting to know you. You are a sweet, cute, fun girl. But, I do not want to continue on as a couple.
I hope we can find a way to still be friends.
Pedro
You know...something short and sweet like that.
I would be sure to break up with her while it is just the two of you. I would show as much kindness as possible.
Just out of curiosity...why do you want to break up?
~Carol Ann
ok well tell her that you love her *ONLY if you really do* and say that for now you just need some space im sure she'll undaerstand but don't blow her off and like never talk to her agian your better off kinda like being friends with her just for the time being because if you do blow her off that will really make her feel bad BUT don't flirt with her while your friends because she might get the wrong idea.
Best Of luck to you,
Diana : ]
you will have do this carefully and with integrity ..... and with a soft voice ........ it aint gonna be easy, especially if she is majorly hot on you (obviously)
at least you have enough heart ... and class .... to care about her feelings ..... kind of amazing these days.
Anyways ....... in the most kind way possible ... you will have to tell her some thing like:
- my heart has changed towards our relationship ....
- you are a good person ....
- I am not really the right person for you .... (that puts the negative on you, not her) ....
- I wish I did not have to tell you this stuff, cuz I know you will hate it
- it is better if we go separate ways ......
- I DO NOT WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS EVER ... but I do not know WHAT the heck else to do in this situation .....
- may you please excuse me in this awkward situation so as to cut me loose????????
- I do not want to be fake with you .....
random ideas on this lousy situation ....
hope it helps, man ....
definitely not over the phone or over text message or through a friend! trust me on this one! thats the worst thing to do! bcuz my recent ex broke up wit me thru a sappy text message n it was so pathetic! honestly this mite be hard but u hafta do it in person alone and private! dont make it to lame lik yea its not u its me i feel its best to be friends cuz ya that was totally from the movies!lol jus say how u feel. she mite be pissed but in time it will get better n we girls should sooner or later get over it...... if not.... thats fine cuz u got over wit it but plz mak sure u r for sure want to break up wit her cuz my ex broke up wit me n now he wants me back n i said no, u dont wanna mak the wrong choice! k!well i hope i helped u n goodluck wit this!
ok theres no good way to break up with someone but you should be gentle tell her you really like her but its just not working out and tell her you dont mean to hurt her and that you do care for her be sweet and gentle she will respect you for that
If you want to be friends after it just tell her how your really feel gently. Tell her you feel for her as a friend so i just wont work out. As long as your nice about it, and if she ends up yelling dont yell back, be clam about it and sincere. She'll understand. Good luck hun.
tell her calmly that u just want to be friends but do it nicely, like be alone at ur house or something and tell her like try to tell her that u want to be FRIENDS that way she wont hate u in any way, u can still can her and still be FRIENDS
ok dont break up with her over a text message ! thats really mean and rude ! call her and break up with her gently
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Just tell her that you don't want to go out with her anymore. Tell her you still want to be friends with her but you just don't want to date her anymore.
i would just tell up straight believe me i'm a girl just tell her you are sorry but you dont think the dating thing is working out for you guys.
to her face, sit her down and let her kno whats going on with the relationship. thats the best u can really do text messages and phone calls are the punks way out of a relationship...
just tell her you wanna take a break and you think that you should both seee other people... but tell her you'll always be her friend and give her a little peck on the cheek! =]
Break up with her gently say something about how you really care but it just isn't working for you
Be Completely honest.
Get caught making out with her best friend. That's what i did once and i never got those phonecalls trying to get me back etc. The best break up i've ever had. Good luck with it pal
if you don't tell her sooner you'll just hurt her more.
just let it out
break up with her in the middle of sex
ask a 8 years old what to do
i agree with megan rae!
kick her in the shin, charlie horse her, then tell her she's ugly.
txt mssge brk up
Oh, we're 15 and I don't want to hurt her in any way. What's the best WAY to break up with a girl?
Be honest. Don't play with her emotions. Tell her in private and tell her the true reason. I didn't read your other question but whatever the reason is it is important that you let her know. I am sure that you are not trying to hurt her but a break up is painful and you should be as mature as possible. Good Luck!What's the best WAY to break up with a girl?
Well to be honest I have never been a part of a relationship, and I am around your age, but if i was and the guy wanted to break up with me, I thought that the kindest way in my opinion would be to tell me that he likes me but is unsure that I'm the one he wants to marry and be with forever. I'm terrible sorry if that helped in no way at all, hopefully someone with experience can give you better advice.
How sweet that you don't want to hurt her feelings.
Sadly there is no way to NOT hurt her if she cares for you. Rejection is never easy.
To me, the best way to break up with someone is to do it honestly and with as much compassion as possible.
I would draft up a nice letter to be able to hand to her after you tell her how you feel. The reason for the letter is to clear up any confusion she might have AND to let her have something to explain why.
I would be honest with her.
Jane,
Thank you for spending so much time with me. I have really enjoyed getting to know you. You are a sweet, cute, fun girl. But, I do not want to continue on as a couple.
I hope we can find a way to still be friends.
Pedro
You know...something short and sweet like that.
I would be sure to break up with her while it is just the two of you. I would show as much kindness as possible.
Just out of curiosity...why do you want to break up?
~Carol Ann
ok well tell her that you love her *ONLY if you really do* and say that for now you just need some space im sure she'll undaerstand but don't blow her off and like never talk to her agian your better off kinda like being friends with her just for the time being because if you do blow her off that will really make her feel bad BUT don't flirt with her while your friends because she might get the wrong idea.
Best Of luck to you,
Diana : ]
you will have do this carefully and with integrity ..... and with a soft voice ........ it aint gonna be easy, especially if she is majorly hot on you (obviously)
at least you have enough heart ... and class .... to care about her feelings ..... kind of amazing these days.
Anyways ....... in the most kind way possible ... you will have to tell her some thing like:
- my heart has changed towards our relationship ....
- you are a good person ....
- I am not really the right person for you .... (that puts the negative on you, not her) ....
- I wish I did not have to tell you this stuff, cuz I know you will hate it
- it is better if we go separate ways ......
- I DO NOT WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS EVER ... but I do not know WHAT the heck else to do in this situation .....
- may you please excuse me in this awkward situation so as to cut me loose????????
- I do not want to be fake with you .....
random ideas on this lousy situation ....
hope it helps, man ....
definitely not over the phone or over text message or through a friend! trust me on this one! thats the worst thing to do! bcuz my recent ex broke up wit me thru a sappy text message n it was so pathetic! honestly this mite be hard but u hafta do it in person alone and private! dont make it to lame lik yea its not u its me i feel its best to be friends cuz ya that was totally from the movies!lol jus say how u feel. she mite be pissed but in time it will get better n we girls should sooner or later get over it...... if not.... thats fine cuz u got over wit it but plz mak sure u r for sure want to break up wit her cuz my ex broke up wit me n now he wants me back n i said no, u dont wanna mak the wrong choice! k!well i hope i helped u n goodluck wit this!
ok theres no good way to break up with someone but you should be gentle tell her you really like her but its just not working out and tell her you dont mean to hurt her and that you do care for her be sweet and gentle she will respect you for that
If you want to be friends after it just tell her how your really feel gently. Tell her you feel for her as a friend so i just wont work out. As long as your nice about it, and if she ends up yelling dont yell back, be clam about it and sincere. She'll understand. Good luck hun.
tell her calmly that u just want to be friends but do it nicely, like be alone at ur house or something and tell her like try to tell her that u want to be FRIENDS that way she wont hate u in any way, u can still can her and still be FRIENDS
ok dont break up with her over a text message ! thats really mean and rude ! call her and break up with her gently
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Just tell her that you don't want to go out with her anymore. Tell her you still want to be friends with her but you just don't want to date her anymore.
i would just tell up straight believe me i'm a girl just tell her you are sorry but you dont think the dating thing is working out for you guys.
to her face, sit her down and let her kno whats going on with the relationship. thats the best u can really do text messages and phone calls are the punks way out of a relationship...
just tell her you wanna take a break and you think that you should both seee other people... but tell her you'll always be her friend and give her a little peck on the cheek! =]
Break up with her gently say something about how you really care but it just isn't working for you
Be Completely honest.
Get caught making out with her best friend. That's what i did once and i never got those phonecalls trying to get me back etc. The best break up i've ever had. Good luck with it pal
if you don't tell her sooner you'll just hurt her more.
just let it out
break up with her in the middle of sex
ask a 8 years old what to do
i agree with megan rae!
kick her in the shin, charlie horse her, then tell her she's ugly.
txt mssge brk up
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