How should I ask her to meet up with her?

I asked this earlier..thx to the people who helped me...and for you that called me a ';stalker';, you guys are immature Dumba$$'s...please don't answer if your gonna say something stupid.. :)





so here is my question again,





I added this girl on FB on the 18th..just cuz i thought she was cute/ and interesting person i should get to know.lol..neways..we started talking at around 9pm the first night..and b4 we knew it i was 1am!!!..the next day we talk from 5pm-11pm..then yesterday we talk from 3pm-12am.this not all done over the computer..so we don't sit there for 8 hours and type away..lol..we are on our phones...our convos are very random..it goes from music, movies, than deeper talk about families, and relationships. and we also ask eachother for advice...





We really hit it off as ';friends';..what is the best way to ask her to meet me in person?...or should we continue to talk online a little longer.? btw she has a bf (and i asked her if he is cool with her talking to guys, and she said yes) and that is why i say as friends lol. don't want to ruin the relationship, but her mom doesn't want her to date the guy anymore, cuz he is not the same race as her (traditions)..and she actually tried breaking up with the guy a few weeks ago..but couldn't...again i am no where near a home wrecker.believe me....plus i want to know who im talking to..lolHow should I ask her to meet up with her?
I think you shouldn't meet up with her I smell Bad news.How should I ask her to meet up with her?
Okay well i think you should just say something like '; hey i was wondering , you and me get along so well :) that maybe we should meet, it would be nice to see you face-to-face :) '; well somethin like that anyways , just come out and say it !! and you didnt give much info on the whole bf situation but if you do really like her and she doesnt really wana be with him or anythin then maybe you should try and see exactly how she feels about her bf and how she feels about you and just go from there !! hope i helped !! :) :)
Unless she lives close to you it's too much hassle to meet up. If she does, don't go alone. You never know, it could be someone dangerous no matter how friendly they may seem to you.





Just casually ask her what she's doing, then suggest you meet up and go somewhere with a few friends. Tell her to bring a few friends and say you'll be bringing a few friends - means if she is for real she doesn't get suspicious.





Might be a good idea to wait a few more days at least as well.
great you form a good friendship on the phone, but the real kicker is if you can carry it off in person, about the Boyfirend, i dont think its serious if she is able to talk to you that long on the phone, she obvisously is intrigued enough to forget the BF, by the way where is he at during these conversations?








I say she grew a spine and break up with the guy if not she is a fluzy. who wants the BF and the sidekick (you) under no circumstances should she keep the boyfriend if she is interested in you, that would be creepy and weird
Think of the things you guys have talked about on the phone.. find a common ground.. was there a movie or even a type of movie that you guys agreed that you both like? If so, bring it up in conversation and ask if she feels like going to see it.. ''one day next week'' / ''this weekend'' (or whenever you want).. you could even say right after you ask her: ''by the way, I realise you have a bf, I am just suggesting we meet as friends because I get on really well with you and we were talking about (this movie) the other day''... this might help so she doesn't feel awkward (considering she has a bf) and so it takes the pressure off for both of you. Often it's better to get to know someone as friends anyway, because then if it doesn't go anywhere other than friendship, then there's no hard feelings. If she's talking to you for hours on end over several days then she's interested, regardless of whether she has a bf. Remember one thing however, she mentioned she tried to break up with her bf a few weeks ago but couldn't (there's a reason she couldn't and this could be a problem for you if you do start to really like her). Good luck anyway.
I would not advice online dating because people can steal others people identity and when you check it out they are not who they said they really are. Secondly you should meet her