How to break up with a girl?

theres a girl named liz that im going out with, but i think whatever spark we had is gone. this jerk friend of mine named kevin told her that i was thinking of breaking up with her and she was really hurt. i couldnt bear it so i told her that i was feeling really conflicted, and that i wasnt thinking, and that seemed to fix it. i didnt want to hurt her, but i have to do this. i love her, but its bland being with her. i need advice. how do i do it? How to break up with a girl?
Take on the Nike phrase and just do it.





There is no easy way to break up with somebody you love or care about - it's still going to hurt, and it's going to hurt for awhile. Let her know that a big part of the reason for doing this is because you do love and care for her and know that she deserves the truth and the chance to be with someone else who can give her 100% and love her as much as she loves him. It's not fair to either one of you to continue on with a relationship where you can't love her like you used to or give it your all. You both deserve the opportunity to find true happiness if you haven't found it with each other. I've been in a couple of relationships where my significant other 'knew' that we were supposed to be together, or that they had found the one, or haven't been happier with anyone else. I thought that maybe I just wasn't trying hard enough to make the relationship work, and drug it out a lot longer than I should have. I should have broken up with them long before I did, because the longer you wait, the harder it gets and the more heartache is involved. You owe to her (and yourself) to be honest and go your separate ways. Yeah, it's going to suck, and it's going to hurt - but that will pass over time, and you will eventually find yourself in love again.How to break up with a girl?
jerk
Lol your talkin to the lovemaker ha dawg just be like ';sorry but i just feel that im gay'; lmao naw im just kiddin seriosuly tho be like ';look i really care about you but weve grown apart we can still be friends but we need a break and well see where things go from there
Well the truth is there is no way that you can make it any easier. Just apologize to her, and then tell her that she deserves to have someone that likes her back, also that you are not the type of guy that would say 'I like you'; but not really think so. Good luck kiddo.





chao
just break it down to her easily tell her that i dont but i dont feel that connection so im breaking up with you i dont want to hurt you but we can still be friends
You love her, but it's bland being with her???





Tell her the truth. Tell her you looking for something else.





If she replies in French...


';Je vous aime,


Je vous adore,


qu'est-ce que voulez- vous encore?';...





just give in and stay with her. She will only make you happy.
so, i take it you ';love her'; but you're not IN LOVE with her anymore?....





tell her that.
through a text message..... haha jkjk





sit down with her an explain your feelings and tell her that you would still like to be friends because u love her but u just dont want to be with her anymore.
if you love her then you might not want to leave her yet...


why dont you try spicing things up between you to, do something special you don't often do...


and if you still have that feeling about breaking up, then make it direct and tell her..





don't keep leading her on in this relationship, especially if you think it is going to end soon, cause that will just make it harder for her to get over in the end.





hope everything works out





cheers
Tell her she stank, she'll get da message bruh!
firstly, are you sure you are not a freaky man ?


if not , pls remember , to her , it is better a finger off than always aching......
just calmly sit her down and say that u think that u need to see other people
Honestly - the best advise is to be gentle but honest. You can explain that you had a feeling / spark in the beginning that you are not feeling at this time. You are not sure if you can get this feeling back but you are not closing the door on the idea. Explain that you need space but would like friendly contact w/ her w/ no expectations -meaning you guys can still have a friend relationship w/o making her feel like you are leading her on. She will know up front that friends is what you are needing at the moment. You could be honest and explain your feelings that you have and who knows - maybe there is a compromise that can be made that will rekindle your relationship or maybe you two will just learn better communication to being great friends for long term.
TOUGHiE....





You can start by asking her out on coffee. Tell her then. After 10 min, of talking to her. Tell her that you can't bear to see her hurt, so you were PRESSURED to say that you were conflicted. and tell her you still wanna be friends %26amp; all that.. just that you don't love her anymore.





GOOD LUCK!!
I would want to hear the truth. It seems like you do care and don't want to hurt and since you have big mouth friends I'd steer clear of sugar coating it just in case the mention of her blandness came back to her. Honesty is the best policy. Plus if I knew deep down the reason for a break up wasn't the whole truth it'd drive me crazy trying to figure out what was.
be straight up honest don't lie about why and answer any question she has....if you don't she is going to have a even harder time getting over you
tell her straite up!


i mean she knows


so jst tell her


do you think she deserve 2


know???


Would you like 2 know????


Good luck


-Shawdy-
you need to be 100% honest (without being mean of course). Dont be too nice, dont leave her hope that there is anything she can do to fix it, Say exactly what you said in your first sentence on here. ';I think whatever spark we had is gone.';
Ahh tough situation. Well, you really should confront her straight up and tell her how you are feeling because she deserves to know the truth. The worst thing to do would to avoid the situation and lead her on more with false intentions.


Maybe just text/call her and say that you want to talk to her about something; this will allow her to get a heads up that something is coming so she wont be totally surprised. Then, just meet and explain your feelings...


she will get over it, i promise :)





good luck!
Go to a place in private but in the general public, hold her hands, look her straight in the eyes, and tell her what you feel.





VIVA LA RAZA!
I'm sick of seeing so many people who don't even know what love is throw the word around like it's nothing.





Dude, if you loved her you wouldn't be breaking up with her for such a stupid reason. If it were real love you'd do anything you could to find a way to fix what is wrong. Stop jerking her around, fool.
Just break it to her gently, make sure to tell her that its not her that its you, all you, and you didn't want to hurt her. You could always tell her that you're coming out of the closet and you're really gay. LOL!!
make a clean cut. don't keep hanging out, giving mixed signals like you just did! thats very very hurtful. to give hope and take it away then give it back and take away again. thats cruel really. just do it and go on. life does go on, she will not die, she'll go on with her life and she'll tell her friends what a jerk you are, and then she'll get over it.
you ';love her, but it's bland';, then dude you need to try spicing things up before that.