Friday, August 20, 2010

How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?

Me and this girl having been going together for about 2 months and as time goes on i feel like we have nothing in common. i want to break up with her but i want to stay her friend and not look like a jerk. Any suggestions?How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
I had a guy tell me this. It doesn't hurt any less. If you're lucky, she'll break up with you first.How can i break up with a girl but still be her friend?
Do not be her friend just to save yourself from looking like a jerk or because it will sound good to her and you see it as an easy way of letting her down. Because if you end up saying that and not following through you will just lose more credibility.





Either way you will hurt her, no matter how you sugar coat it.





If she doesn't want to be you're friend right away, then allow her the space she needs. Just be honest with her and then take 5 steps backwards and see where she goes from there.
Say, 'I don't think things are going well between us, I think it would be best to stay as friends' or something similar to those lines.


Although, when you break up with her, give her some time to 'heal' and get over it, before you two start talking again. Until she shows signs that she's back on her feet, start a conversation like you normally would with a friend, although take in the factors, that it might not be the same like it was.
Tell her, that you don't think you're meant to be together, but you'd still love to keep her in your life as a friend. :) or tell her that you're better off as friends, and you would reallly like to remain being her friend. :) Good Luck!!! :D
tell her that friendship is important, if relationship doesn't work out out, you still want to be a good friend.


Here are the sites that has lots of information on relationship. you might find that helpful, check that out.





thebigromantic.com


singlewomen4dating.com


relationshiptip.com .
I'd just be honest with her. Tell her she means a lot to you but more like a friend then as a bf/gf and you feel you both should just go on and you hope she will still remain a friend to you cause it would mean a lot to you.
you need to give yourself time for that, tell him to give you time and make sure you don't do it in a manner that will create tension.keep distance but never fail to communicate with her . [no much because i hate divorce]
You're allowed to break up with someone and not be a jerk. being friends usually takes a period of ';getting over' time.





You sound like a gem, many guys wouldn't care about how they broke up.

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