lol you tell that ***** she a crazy freak! and she gots to go! lol awh i'm justkidding don't tell her that.
Just tell her that you don't think this is going to work out anymore. :(How do you break up with a girl?
I think they wrote a song about this back in the 60's or 70's. The best thing to do is talk to her face to face. She will cry and you will feel bad but it's the best way to do it. I've also done it over the phone and in a text. Not really the nicest way to end things but at least with the text I didn't have so see or hear her cry. Good luck dude.
Found the lyrics to the song. Here you go.
50 ways to leave your lover.
Words %26amp; music by paul simon
The problem is all inside your head, she said to me
The answer is easy if you take it logically
Id like to help you in your struggle to be free
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
She said its really not my habit to intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning wont be lost or misconstrued
But Ill repeat myself at the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
Just slip out the back, jack
Make a new plan, stan
You dont need to be coy, roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, lee
And get yourself free
Just slip out the back, jack
Make a new plan, stan
You dont need to be coy, roy
Just listen to me %26lt;-----------
Hop on the bus, gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, lee
And get yourself free
She said it grieves me so to see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do to make you smile again
I said I appreciate that and would you please explain
About the fifty ways
She said why dont we both just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning youll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me and I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
Just slip out the back, jack
Make a new plan, stan
You dont need to be coy, roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, lee
And get yourself free
You just slip out the back, jack
Make a new plan, stan
You dont need to be coy, roy
Just listen to me %26lt;------------
Hop on the bus, gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, lee
And get yourself free
Be honest and tell her that you need some space and that you would like your phone back. That you want to break up for a while and just see how you feel without her around all the time. Just tell her that you want some time to go out with your friends and want to have time realize what it would be like to actually ';miss'; her...especially if you 2 are ALWAYS together. Everyone has bouts of confusion and so just let her know that you still care about her, that she will always be special to you, but that you need to do this. Give her the permission to see other people if she wants to and that way if she sees you with other girls then she can't really be all that jealous. When talking to her about this, use a calm and soothing voice. Don't be apologetic as you are just being honest with her about your feelings. She will probably get angry and that is a natural response. But later she might just decide that it was a good idea too. Especially if you remain cordial towards her and never treat her like an ';Evil Ex';. Just remember to be respectful and mindful of her feelings and everything will work out.
WOW!!! I just read your additional info...dude if she wrecked your car and laughed about then dump her. Just tell her you want to break up. You don't have to explain anything - if she asks why just point to your car and say ';that's why!';
tell her ';i really like you and we have had a wonderful time together but i think it would be nice if we could take a break and just be friends, i think that will be best';
say it in a public place but like dont have it where ppl can hear u guys.
tell her that their is no other girl invoved and that kind of stuff.
U need to be careful of what u say, i mean their is no easy way of breaking up with people. a girl takes it harder and she will hold on to the words u said 4 along time and tell people. be ready 4 her friends to hate u and yell at you.
best luck
Honestly, if she's a nice girl, do it in person and try and be polite and honest. If she's not so nice and you think she'll react violently, perhaps you should meet her in a slightly more public place. But still try and do it in person. A person appreciates that. It's a polite note to end a relationship on.
Break ups are awful! It is very rare that they go smoothly.
The best thing you can do is prepare her heart for it. Put out the signs that you are less interested. She will get the clue and bring it up to you. That way you don't have to bring it up out of the blue and shock her.
The other thing is that you have to let her be angry. Don't try to defend yourself. Let her respond the way she needs to respond.
That's about it. Just be clear when you are communicating, be direct. 'I don't see myself having a future with you' or 'I am done with this' are better than 'I don't know about this' or 'I haven't been feeling that great about this'.
and...don't break up with her before she has to go to work. maybe do it when she has a couple days off ahead of her ;)
i know this sounds sort of crazy and overly-specific, but trust me on this one.
make sure you know why, exactly, you're breaking up with her. girls need closure more than you could ever understand. saying things like, ';it's not you, it's me'; will just make it worse. avoid words like ';things'; and ';stuff';.
be honest. even if it's a strait up, ';i just don't feel attracted to you anymore.'; at least it's honest. making up reasons that seem less brutal simply to spare her feelings are a waste. she's already gonna be upset. you're breaking up with her.
also, stay strong. if you really care about her you don't want to see her get upset, but she probably will. don't let her talk you out of it because if you change your mind half-way through she'll hang this over your head until you really break up a few weeks later.
and, finally, DO NOT do it over the phone, via text message, or through facebook and/or myspace. you have to do this face-to-face or it's just gonna make you look like a huge jerk with no feelings.
this sounds cynical, but it's how i'd like to see things done. i hate it when people tip-toe around things. in the words of Seinfeld, ';it's like a Band-Aid: rip it right off!!';
Hi !
I would suggest that you write down what you want to say to her, then re-write it.
Pick a place where it is just the two of you and PLEASE , do not say any thing like, '; it's not you, it's me.....let's just be friends...';
Be honest and don't pussyfoot around.
Give her a straight answers.
just play it cool as a girl i'll tell you exactly what will happen
you: i really can't take this anymore. i don't see my old friends and i'm losing them (bs a little). My phone bill is ridiculous and i like you but your changing.
her: i promise i'll change, don't do this
you: i'm sorry but I just don't think it's gonna work
(never say but that doesn't mean i don't LOVE YOU!!!!)
then you'll break her heart for real....if you don't
hope this helps!!!
good luck...
You have to just do it, tell her that you don't want to be with her anymore. Try not to lie too much because you will likely get busted and she might come back at you because of it. You could always just start drifting away so she can kind of emotionally detach.
take her to dinner give her flowers
then when u and ur gf done eating
tell her that its not workin out between the two off you
when she yells just be quiet and say im really sry
and tell her the reason why u want to break up with her
grow some balls and just do it! to her face not over the phone or something stupid like that. she will get over it and its really disrespectful that your dragging this on.
(not trying to be mean sorry if it came off that way)
jUST tEll hER STRAiGHT UP hOW yOU fEEl
yEA iTS gOiNG tO hURT hER BUT NO MATTER hOW yOU DO iT iTS GOiNG tO hURT,
jUST bE liKE
HEy i THiNk WE SHOUlD bE FRiENDS, i MEAN i jUST SEE US MORE AS FRiENDS.
iDk?! lOl
HOPE i HElPED!
introduce her to some hot guys and tempt her to cheat on you, then you will have a good reason to break up.
Do not break maintain some distance. Start telling her the truth of breaking.
Tell her you don't want to be in a relationship anymore there is really no way to sugar coat it.
Be honest with her. You're going to break her heart, but she'll soon forget you. She might even feel the same about you.....wants to dump you but doesn't know how to.
You first realize that it's a lot less painful than divorce, and I'm sure you'll think of some way to do it.
just tell her (in person) that your relationship has run its course and its time to move on.
Punch her in the ovaries.
You just tell her, nicely, nice tone, in a public place, so she cant freak out, and you walk away
be honest,it's the best way for you and her.
suck it up
say her name in that 'this has to be done'
voice so she knows what's coming ahead of time
and then tell her that things aren't working out.
EDIT;
She hit a tree with your car and didn't offer to pay?
Well then screw being nice, just break up with her
already.
Or maybe you shouldn't go out with people who you don't really like?
Listen just don't do it...let her break up with you dudes
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