How to break up with a girl? Please help me here?

It is a serious relationship that has been on dwindling for awhile, and the love isn't there anymore. I care deeply for feelings and safety, but I know it isn't going to work out. I feel horrible about just the thought of making her cry. How can I do this in the least painful way?How to break up with a girl? Please help me here?
Tell her you'd rather be with her sister. She won't feel pain, she'll probably kick your *ss. Anger is alot better than tears.How to break up with a girl? Please help me here?
You need to help her understand that she isn't right for you. Tell her that you really liked her, and that she'll always be someone special to you. That you care about her and that you will never forget the time you had with her and the time you spent together. That you hope you can ease the relationship into a best-friendship, and remember to ask her at the end if she's okay with it or understands you. It helps you not give off the impression that you're dumping her there and now and that she has no choice but to leave you. It kind of takes a load off for girls, to not be forced into something like a breakup.





Good luck!
Brother, there is no easy answer I wish I could give....and tears will flow. You will have feelings of remorse and guilt for dumping your girl which is natural, unless you hate her guts, then dumping her would as easy as 1-2-3. But let's say in your case, it's not the latter. Always break up with your mate in person. This way it shows that you have true character and self respect, not only as a person, but as a righteous man. When you speak to her, DO NOT be under the influence of alcohol or drugs! Have your say, and get it all out in the open without insulting her or making her feel worthless. Then let her make her peace and have her say. But remember this: If you are going to dump someone, think it thru and make SURE you are breaking up for legitimate reasons, not over something childish. Also, once you made the decision to dump someone....stick to it. It's your choice now bud. Best of luck!
Clean breaks are always best.


Don't drag it out or wait. Tell her next time you see her. Give her reasons why, but don't let her talk you out of it. Make sure she knows there's no chance of getting back together with you, or it will make it harder on her.


%26amp; Don't feel like she didn't see this coming. Girls pick up on everything, she's probably been sensing the ';dwindling'; too.
the longer you wait, the harder it will be. you need to be straight with her. one of two things may happen. she may agree with you and it will go easier than you think or she has no idea that anything is wrong, will be hurt, and hopefully get over it. i hope everything works out for you.
Oooh. I'm sorry. Just be honest and tell her how you feel. Give her reasons and explain yourself. Its going to hurt no matter what. Don't say ';I still love you'; or anything. That will just give her false hope. Let her know you care and its best.
Just tell her something like this '; I really do like you but I think it is best if we are just friends and nothing more than friends. I hope you understand that the reason is not because of you. ';
Just do it make a clean break while still being kind and gentle don't continue a relationship just because you feel bad she would'nt want that
However you say it your still saying it and its going to hurt...you just got to tell her however you think that you should.
your going to hurt her shes going to cry and your going to feel bad and if u cant handle it ur not ready to break up
Just don't do it!
exactly what you wrote just be upfront and honest.
email to her its over this isnt working