Friday, August 20, 2010

How can you break up with a teenage girl?

I'm 12 and so is my girlfriend but i want to break up with her. we've only been dating for 6 days. How can i breakup with her without her or her friends getting mad. also her bff is my other exgirlfriend and i still liek her bffHow can you break up with a teenage girl?
be upfront, answer any questions why you did (shell need closer) dont give her any cheesy lines like its not you, its me (girls hate that). explain to her with detail why, and hug her at the end.How can you break up with a teenage girl?
You're 12?


Dude, your not even a teenager.


6 days isn't a long time.





Stop starting drama.





Just tell her you want to break up.


Tell her you still have feelings for your ex.
I dont know but me as a teen as well i just start not hanging around with her in lunch and other time you can then whate tell she brakes up with me .








Or just be traite out
Go to her and tell her that is not working out. Done
just break up with her. her friends are gonna get mad either way. by the way your 12 thats means your a preteen. haven't quite reached the teen years hun. Don't worry though a relationship as 12 year old will be nothing compared to when 16.
just tell her nicely but in person not in a text message or anything!


dont go out with her bff yet
this is a hard one! just say that i still like my old girlfrined but i also like you...even if you dont. then go ask her bff if she still likes you. if she says no then i dont know what you should do but if she says yes. nice one
Give her a good hug and then say we need to break up its not me its you im so sorry. trust me im a girl and if you say anything else she will kick you so hard you wont be able to have children if you know what i mean :p Been there DONE THAT.
i done it twice... all u have to say is we can be freinds but its a bit getting to serios so its over...you will probaly end up being with a girl crying ..
honestly you are too immature. you shouldn't even have a girlfriend.
you need to be honest. she is not going to hold this against you forever i promise! years from now in high school, the who dated who's in middle school are quite funny. just be honest with her and do it in person! dont do it over the phone or texting or instant messaging, thats cowardly like.
do the ';it's not you, its me'; bit, tell her you wanna just be friends for now, then bring her to Mcdonalds
Even if you try to make a clean break, she will still be hurt and I hope you understand that 12 is kinda young to be dating in the first place. (Personally I don't think you would have any chance with her BFF, but others may say otherwise. One of my BFF had a boy break up with her then hit on me and she was devastated. So you might have blown it already.) But you could make a clean break by trying to say you think it would be better if you just stay friends, (If you want to) .
This question doesn't concern you as you and your girlfriend aren't even teenagers.
Ouch what a mess!





Since you've been dating for a tiny bit, then you're probably not that serious or in too deep, so going serparate ways won't be that humungous, if i can say.





It's rather early for you to do stuff like that. Being 12 is about hanging out with friends, going out to the movies, theme parks...and running around, like skateboarding... you get the picture.





Good luck
tell her gently you don't feel right with her and all, but tell her you want to be friends. NOW trying to like her bff a week after can cause friend problems. Just tell her bff you still like her AT LEAST 4 months after (if u can wait that long...hahahaha) and tell her you want to go out with her if her best friend would be ok with it. be nice and polite and try to still be friends. AND PS- people on here WILL tell you that your to young to have a gf or call you names but listen to me- ignore them. im 12 to, and have asked love questions and those are the only answers i get. so dont listen to them. and im not in for ten points, im in to help you.....although ten points would be nice......hahahahaha. good luck!
don't lie to her. But your only twelve mate calm down. If you like her BF, if they're are truly BF then I doubt that you have a chance with her. but cool things down with you gf and then let her go. then when your just friends again and she does like you then you can ask her BF out again if you want but have the guts to do it in person. I know it awkward but (i'm a girl btw) I cant stand it when boys don't have the guts. kay. and boys wont know what to do so don't take there advice. kay good luck.
She'll be embarrassed so DO NOT do it around her friends. DO NOT ask her bff out for at least another week. Say you're sorry. Do not do it over the phone! or E-mail! When she's alone say ';i'm really sorry but i don't want to be with you anymore'; Don't make it a long discussion try to get it over with, avoid her for a couple days so she doesn't feel all weird around you. She might actually be ok with it but just pray she doesn't cry or you'll be back with her in 5 seconds!


good luck. x
Just break up with her, girls come and go, you have your whole life ahead of you
tell her its over you cant go on or do it anymore and kiss her tell her you loved her but ur srry
Oh go screw yourself. You're 12, just throw you mighty mouse lunchbox at her and tell her it's over.
';im breaking up with you... its not you, its me.';

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