How do you break up with a girl?

How do break up with a girl that you have had a long but kind of a ****** up relationship and you know well atleast think that she likes u alot but u know it needs to end.How do you break up with a girl?
Tell her that you've reached a point in your life, where you've realized it's important to surround yourself with stable adult relationships. And as much as you two might have in common, or have history together, you don't think being in a relationship with her is healthy for either of you.





And on a side note, honest is good, but its not an excuse to be an absolute asshole. Also, when you guys do that long slow blow off, it tends to hurt us more. It's kind of like a bandaid, just rip it off quickly.How do you break up with a girl?
tell her its over. tell it to her face, not over the internet, it just shows your a pussy.
You don't do what I just did. Wait. No it would work for you. I just told my girlfriend to quit cutting into my friend time and she got pissed for more than just that, trust me she's not a *****. Just tell her shes naggy and hogs your homeboys time. Or if you want to be nice. Be like...My mom think's you a skank, and I she'll kick my *** out of the house if I date you or keep dating you.
Face to face. You look her in the eye and say, ';I'm sorry but I don't think we should see each other anymore. It's not working for me. I wish it could have worked out.';





Don't tell her you want to remain friends, and don't agree when she proposes that you remain friends. This just gives her false hope and will keep both of you from moving on. If she says she wants to stay friends, you can say, ';I don't know how I feel about staying friends. Right now, I think I'd like time apart to get my head together.';





Oddly enough, if you both make a clean break of it and move on, there is a chance you CAN become friends down the road. It's only when the feelings are unequal (one of you wants to get back with the other) that you really can't be friends.





Be direct. Be certain. Be respectful.
Sleeping with her best friend will usually do the trick.





Make sure to take pictures.
Don't play around. Tell her straight up it's over.
invite her over a cup of coffee n break it gently saying she can reach u always as a friend
here are some steps:





Have things turned around in your relationship?


Know for sure that you really do want to break up. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.


Before having ';the talk'; that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.


# Plan out how long you are willing to spend ';breaking up'; and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say ';I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now.';


# Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked ';why?'; or ';about what?';, simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.


# Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:





* Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.


* Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.


* Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.


* Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.


* Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying ';You'll never find anyone as good as me'; or as scary as saying ';I'll make you regret this';, he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.
just pull her a side and tell her if you let it go it will only hurt her even more
I'll refer you to a question I got best answer on...


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





I think it pretty much sums it up for any girl.
nip it in the bud.


to the point.


why linger? GET OUT! BREAK CLEAN!


run.
to be very honest and tell her its over
have a friend tell her u killed urself, then go into hiding until she kills herself, hehe.
'Let's break up'





Delete her off all contacts.
Well I like the way Jerry Seinfeld handles it, u tell her that the problem is really not her but U. That's right, turn it around to convince her that's it's not her that's the problem but U. It's slick and it works, they usually don't get mad or cry or anything because they are left thinking, hey! It's not my fault, there's nothing wrong with me. Good luck.
Be quick, respectful, and honest
I dunno ive never had a girlfriend. Al i can sayu is let her down easy. Im sorry if i wasnt much help.
Oh your so mean, what a freaking jerk!
call her or walk up to her and say ITS OVER
yesa
don't break up with a girl ever! She'll spend the rest of her life trying to mess you up... but that's just my opinion.





It's easy to send an email. Be as professional as you can without saying you will break up with her. Use some big words and ****. Also, make it long so she'll get bored and eventually get the point.





Good luck.
you play, ';the end'; by the doors
you'll be back just take a break see what hapens.
well first be understanding to her feelings you will probably hurt after you do it just be honest not just with her but with yourself
i was stuck in this situation.


i think i just flat out told him. it's better to let the person know than just keep the relationship going on.
you say its over and walk away