What is the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her?

what is the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her? i am the first boyfriend she has ever had. we are both seniors in high school, she is very religous and all. i want to break up with her but its so hard to without hurting her. we have only been together about a month i would like to put her down the best way possible were she would be more understanding and maybe act so she will see it comming. how do i do this?What is the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her?
Just do it in person and explain that the feelings aren't there anymore and if she does get hurt stay and comfort herWhat is the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her?
Well, a month is not too long so she shouldnt be that devasted but doesnt matter how you break up w/ her if she really likes you, she will get hurt. Teh good thing is that u are honest w/ ur feelings and she should respect you for not dragging her along. Just use kind words, dont use cliches like, ';Is nto you, its me';. Be direct, dont giver her false hope and tell her that u understad shes hurt and that when ever she feels ready, maybe u can be friends.
There is no way to break up nicely...unless she doesn't really like you..then she won't care....





You could tell her that you want to focus on your studies....





Good Luck...
well their isn't really anyway that you can do it without hurting her feelings, if you really dont want to be with this girl then its not fair to lead her on anymore because her feelings will just get stronger with time!


you just have to tell her the truth.