How should I break up with girl who wont agree to oral sex?

I rather not cheat but I just cant be in a committed relationship with someone who doesn't want to give oral sex. And I don't want to try to force her to do it or convince her to do it against her will cause it will just cause problems in the future. Personally, I enjoy doing it a lot and I do it for her just for the fact that I like to. She loves it when I do it and I have thought about not doing it anymore but I enjoy it too much. But I enjoy getting it in return just as much. So its not gonna work. Even though sex isn't everything its very important in any healthy relationship. I don't think its a matter of who is right or wrong but just that 2 people have to agree on important things and we don't. So.... what's the best way to break up with her?How should I break up with girl who wont agree to oral sex?
You seem like you don't really like this woman. Break it off with her NOW so that you don't hurt her. Get back with the girl that pleased you the most and have a happy life with her.





I agree with Aimee B, as long as it matters to you, then do what you need to do.





I believe sex has to be important in a relationship, where both are willing to please the other. It's completely beautiful.How should I break up with girl who wont agree to oral sex?
Say exactly what you said in here, you don't want to make her do something she doesn't like but you are unsatisfied with the sexual relationship and don't think that it can work out. Have you asked her WHY she doesn't want to? It might make a difference if she has a good reason (scared of doing it wrong etc.) and if she says she just won't then say that you need someone who fulfills your needs like you do hers.
maybe you should keep your mouth shut like she did..* teehee


as kids we are taught not to put strange things in our mouth..if you did care about her..you would have the patience to teach her.perhaps...mmm?
Are you really placing that much importance on the fact that she won't have oral sex?





Do her the favor and dump her, your just being a dick.
someone's shallow.
Oh my... You should break up with her immediately and face to face





SteveC
Since you don't blow .......I gotta go. bye
Be honest. Tell her you aren't compatible sexually and you feel it would be a waste of time to continue the relationship with that knowledge. Don't be mean about it, you might even feel bad that it hasn't worked out, and tell her you wish her well and should both move on.





Not agreeing or disagreeing with you about how important the oral sex thing is, its a big issue to you and that makes it important in your relationship.





Find someone who enjoys giving as much as you do and have a good time!
You are a shallow poor excuse for a man. Women do too much just to please guys anyway. So you want to cheat on her just because of your own damn selfish needs.You want to cause all of these problems just for oral sex, you want to make her cry twice as hard. One for breaking up with her and second for cheating on her and bringing your dirty *** back to her with another womans germs on you and hurt her when she finds out and she will believe me. You shouldnt be in a relationship if you think women are objects. It's wrong to even think of cheating and hurting her. What would you think if she cheated on you. Maybe your not so damn good in bed. Guys like you are small in the pants.Haha.She probaby doesnt like how you dont do some things.How can she be satisfied with your ';shrinkage.'; I'm sure of it. A jerk such as yourself doesnt care about anyone elses feelings than your own. Her purpose and womens purpose in life is not to give guys oral sex or sex at all. Grow up and get some balls. If you dont have any I'll gladly lend you mine.
hmmm i dont understand her. if ur giving her oral loving she shud be returning the favour! its a bit selfish of her to not even try, fair enuff if she doesnt like it but if she enjoys recieving oral from you she should at least make an effort! i wouldnt dump her just yet, jus have a chat about your sex life and jus mention that everything should be equal in the bedroom, (especially recieving pleasure!) if she still doesnt attempt to do it, jus break it to her gently, but at the minute dont be to hasty! she cud not be used to giving oral sex, so talk her through it and tell her when shes doin a good job, she might jus need her confidence boostin a bit :)