How do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?

ive already broken up with her once,but through someone else what do i say to make it quik and painless,without gossipy backfireHow do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?
WOW! You broke up with her the first time through someone else? I wonder why she gave you a second chance. Anyway coming to your question....the gentleman way is to see her, be cool, distant, and in short tell her that it has to end. It is not working for you.





The coward's way is to text her.





Your choice. See which way you can live with.How do you break up with a girl that youve already broken up with,what do you say,how do you summon the courag?
No breakup is going to be painless for the other person if they really like you. You have to tough it out and realize that any ';gossipy backfire'; will subside in a few days.





';Hey, I don't think this is working out anymore. You're a really great person, but I think I see you as more of a friend than a girlfriend.';





Be straightforward and honest. Hearing the news secondhand or simply given the cold shoulder often hurts worse than just having the facts given to you.





Quick and to the point - like ripping off a band-aid, I guess. :)
You don't break up with someone through someone else. Breaking up is not easy. You need to talk to her or at least write her a goodbye letter. so remember this uncomfortable feeling. next time you get in a relationship. Be careful what you tell your next gf. Don't tell her you love her untill you mean it. I think people, I know I have in the past, like the idea of being in a relationship. then they end up with someone they don't want to be with. Choose carefully. If you had enough courage to start a relationship then you have enough courage to end it.
lol that happened to me a couple times...what i did was when ur around her pretend like your mad and if she try to kiss you or somethign walk away ..or somethign then any little thing she does try to argue about it and then say your tired of arguing blah blah blah and say maybe we should be together or you know what f**k it i rather be single that way i dont have to worry bout arguing with you .....then for like the next coupel of days act mad or somethign around here that way if u regret it and want to get back with her all you have to say is sorry i was just really mad at somethign personal ......lol not only do you break up with her u also have her on check lol
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me twice. The first time he changed his profile status on facebook to single, the second time it was a voice mail.


That was a total assy thing to do. I know it seems hard, but you've got to brave up, and do it in person. It will hurt her, and she might cry a little, but you've got to make this the kindest possible. Say you are so sorry for putting her through this, and that you feel terrible, but things just aren't working out.


Hope I've helped.
I would say that the more painful way to do it and the way that causes the most gossip is to do it through someone else. Wow. How big a coward are you?





Man up and tell her in as direct a way as you can.
Well, if she really cares about you then she's going to be heart broken no matter what however, you can always says I think we're better off friends or something like that to let her off easy
Be a man and just tell her that you aren't feeling her that way and that you don't want to be with her anymore
tell u no need a gf yet let me friends only when i feel ready to date i will look again good luck
look ***** GTFO
idk this is a hard question
tell her your dying