How do you break up with A girl that you love,only to go with another girl your in love with?

I don't know how to do it.It's so hard,I wasn't even expecting to fall in love with this other girl;it just happened.Now i'm trying break up with my gf who i've been with for 5 months only to get with a girl i've known for a month,but i feel real strong about her.I just want to know the kindest way i could end the relationship.Please give me insiteful advice.Thank you.How do you break up with A girl that you love,only to go with another girl your in love with?
My boyfriend did something along the lines of that when we broke up. When I asked him about it, he said he wasn't ';in love'; with me, but that he would always love me. But we had been together for two years and then we got back together about a month and a half later.


What you may feel for this other girl could be lust. You may like the idea of a new girlfriend who is attractive and friendly and has a great personality, but if you truly love your girlfriend then you shouldn't leave her for someone you barely know. you may end up regretting it in the future and then it could be too late.


but go with what you want to do, but please remember to bear with the consequences.


and there really is no nice way to break up with someone you have said ';I love you'; to. you can do it harshly or you can do it as kindly as you think you can, but it will hurt her no matter how you deliver the news.How do you break up with A girl that you love,only to go with another girl your in love with?
ur a jacked up lil creep. how can u fall in love while u have a g/f? as if u didn't **** ur g/f over as u were falling in love, now u want a nice way to break up with her??? sorry dude, there is no nice way around a big mess like this one. U can try n cover ur *** but, there is no kindness. what u did is far from kind.
i think you should tell her that you love her


but you just dont see her that way


then you should wait a little


so it doesnt hurt her as bad


when she finds out you started dating another girl
This is never an easy situation, but five months is not a long time either. Then again breaking up with someone you care about deeply is never fun, easy, or unforgettable. You obviously care about both girls, and lets face it your young.I doubt you'll be with either one in 25 years. So dont look at this situation as a loss, but as a gain. A life experience that you can look back on. Next time, if there ever is a next time, you'll know better and break things off with you current girlfriend before starting a new relationship. She'll understand. And if i were you i would be completely honest, it may not be a pretty situation or picture perfect ending, but it is the only way that you can walk away feeling better. Explain that you love her but that you are going in a different direction, explain that you've met someone else and before you hurt her more you think it's best to break things off. If the relationshipis strong a friendship may be in store months down the line, but be sure to give her space and dont be surprised when she is shocked or hurt. Be as gentle as possible but do not ';butter up'; the situation. Honesty is always the best key. Your both young and you'll both be just fine. Good Luck!
ive been this exact situation, i was going out with this guy for almost 3 yrs and then i met this other guy and within like a month i fell in love with him. i tried to work things out with the 1st guy but i felt like my heart didn't belong with him. so i told him that i need space and that we should take a break from each other because i need to sort things out with me. it was really hard because i didn't want to break his heart but i also wanted to be happy. don't lie to her and don't keep your gf on a string,don't give her hope that you could get back together if you know you not,it will kill her then if / when she finds out about this other girl. i think you should honest to a certain extent,tell her that you feel that things are not really working out bet you two and stress that its not her fault. then give it a lttle time before you start a relationship with the other girl. follow your heart and you will know what to do. thats what i did.