I've been dating this girl and after assessing the relationship, I don't think we have enough in common. I don't see her anything more than a friend, a good person. I want to tell her I don't think we're a good match.
I don't know where to do this. I heard doing it over the phone is bad. Is that true? Should I just go over to her place and tell her? That seems weird. If I invite her to a restaurant, that would seem even worse. How do I go about this?How to break up with a girl I've been dating for three weeks?
To answer your first question: Yes. It's true. Don't end something over the telephone or by e-mail. You owe it yourself and to the person involved to do it in person. It shows that you respect them and their feelings- that you're being considerate. It's a little cold to end something on the phone, especially when emotions are involved.
You don't have to invite her to a restaurant or anything. Make it somewhere really casual- maybe coffee? When you ring her, tell her you really need to talk (that usually preps people for what's about to come) and you'd like to meet up. When you do, tell her that you have really enjoyed getting to know her but you don't see this working in the long run and that you're not sure that it's the direction you want to go in. Emphasise on how much fun you've had getting to know her, how you think she's a wonderful person and that you'd hate to lose her as a friend.
Good luck!How to break up with a girl I've been dating for three weeks?
If she really likes you, she may try to win you back after you break up with her, so it may be wise to tell her sentimental thoughts. Such as, you don't share as many interests together. Let her know that she was a wonderful girl, so you won't leave her feeling like she wasn't good enough. Make her feel good and make sure she is assured when you do break up with her. Once you do that, she won't have hard feelings when you leave.
you should definitely be honest with her. DO NOT do it over the phone or over text messaging or anything like that. that will just hurt her more than necessary. do it in person and just tell her that you think of her as more of a friend rather than a girlfriend..and i'd do it soon because the longer you wait the harder it is going to be on her.
go to the park or something
don't go to her house
don't do it at a restaurant
don't do it over phone or computer
do it to her face
be calm , and don't be mean
just tell her you don't think you should see each other any more.
and try to remain friends, and keep things at good terms.
hope it works out
good luck =]
Just meet up with her to go to the movies. After the movies, explain to her that you like her but think it's best if you each date others and stay friends. Then be prepared for her to cry. So just be strong and don't back down. Do it soon. The longer you wait on this, the worse it is going to be. Make sure you tell her when you two are alone so she isn't embarrassed if friends overhear.
Don't do over a phone. Most girls like to be told in person. Otherwise they could think the guy could be up to something with another girl. So although it's going to be weird or awkward the best way is to tell her in person.
Every way will hurt her. Go to her house and do it in person. My last bf dumped me on the internet and its just gutless. She will hurt but at least do it in person
Lalala.. do it at school or when you see her.
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