How do I break up with a girl that really loves me?

I've been dating a girl on and off for a while now, she loves me, a lot, the thing is, I don't really love her anymore. If I were to break up with her, I know that she would be completely crushed. So, is there a way that I could end it without hurting her, and without her hating me?How do I break up with a girl that really loves me?
there is really no way. shes going to be hurt. its really nice that your trying to find a nice way to do it tho.just tell her that you think you guys should break up and see other people. say your down to be friends if she is just what ever you do dont use the line we could still be friends...How do I break up with a girl that really loves me?
The only way to save her feelings is to be honest with her. Tell her what she needs to hear, that you care about her a lot but you can't go out with her anymore because you don't feel the same way you did. Try and stay away from cliches like its not you its me and don't say you want to be friends if you don't mean it. There is no way to break up with someone without hurting them, but you can be as nice about it as you can.
there is probably no way to do it without her getting hurt but the sooner the better is my advice because she is probably already gonna say you have been leading her on. tell her that you are sorry but you just don't feel the same way about her anymore. tell her that you do not want any hard feelings. you can suggest yall be friends if that is what you want but if you do that time spent together needs to be limited so there can be time to get over those feelings. best of luck
Naturally, it is going to hurt her because she won't have you in the end. Theres only a way to ease the pain and You could start by explaining why you want to break up with her and why you can't work it out. Help her see what you see and she should understand.





In the end, tell her you will always be her friend and be there for her when she needs you.
i just went through the same situation as you. after three years i did not feel the same. all you have to do is BE HONEST and tell her you do not love her and you need to go your separate ways. DO NOT leave any sort of loose ends like ';maybe in the future'; or that stuff cuz then she will hold on to that, and to be honest she deserves to have someone love her like she loves them. she will get over it, but don't expect to be friends right away. the sooner you do this, the better for both of you, believe me. time heals. good luck man, stay strong
ugh i did that...it was hard...but u have to SAY IT somehow..u have to tell her that its just not the same anymore...and i think i dunn feel da same way fo u


when i told that to my boyfriend he was crushed fcourse..he said '; Fair Enough'; and walked away..i couldnt forget his face..and actually by time..i fell for him again ..





may be sometime u just need a lil distance..talk about giving your relation a break fo sometime
In this kind of case, there's really no easy way to do it.


Its better to just tell her as soon as possible instead of every day shes still thinking that you have the same feelings for her. Do it when you think the time is right, and try not to lead her on or anything in the meantime.
unless you want raging eyes and a slap on your face i suggest you run because that's what she's going to doing to you. Run man and never look back
Well you can just go up to her and say I think it would be better if we would be just friends
i think you cant guarantee that she wont hate you but at least she will eventually come to respect you for being honest with her.
you said ';I've been dating a girl on and off for a while now';... maybe the next OFF, you then can take that opportunity to be her friend instead of her BF....
You really wasted her time. Don't do that again. Just tell her it's over.
simply just tell her your gay.
there's no way for her not to be atleast a little mad.
tell her the truth