Monday, August 9, 2010

Why would a girl/woman break up with you because you have a thing for feet?

Why are so many girls so close minded? Look at this scenario, I get close to a girl, we are really happy together, we hook up... then I tell her I would like to massage her feet and that I am EXTREMELY good at it. Really, I work miracles with them. Regardless, they are weirded out and ask the question ';Do you have a foot fetish or something?';. I respond ';well, I like them, I like to touch them, much like most men like to touch breasts (which I also like of course) or slap a girl on the ***.'; They ask ';do you like to suck toes?'; and I respond ';yeah, every once and a while, but mainly I just like the soles of a girl's feet in my face or to touch them in my hands';. The BAM they want absolutely nothing to do with you. They think you are weird, or strange. But I am wondering, if I was born this way and cannot change it, why try to be somebody I am not? I know certain people with a foot fetish like them dirty or crazy or stepping on some stuff, like crushing and all that dumb stuff. I am NOT into any of that. People argue, feet are a very dirty part of the body. I, however, prefer them to be clean. How is it any different than being attracted to two lumps on a girl's chest or lower region? How? Its still just skin. People these days are so close minded, everyone has their thing they like. Plus I can think of many other dirty parts of the body (you know what I mean by that) that is completely acceptable to put your mouth/hands on... Plus, you see feet all the time in G/PG rated movies... it isnt even a part of the body that is considered perverted/needs to be hidden from society because it has been coined as ';wrong to be exposed';. Show a woman's chest, its instantly ';R'; rated. So why is there such an issue with this for so many girls and if there is an issue with it, why!? If you truly loved someone would you be able to adjust to their needs/sexual desires? Or would you be a stupid close minded jerk about it and instantaneously block them out of your life? Seriously there are much weirder things out there. This kind of stuff really makes me mad.Why would a girl/woman break up with you because you have a thing for feet?
Because she is close minded to anything new or different. I think a fetish (of any kind) can really open boundaries in relationships and not to mention in the bedroom. I myself have a foot fetish and I have been actively sharing it with my g/f of 2 years. She has embraced it and I hope you can find a girl that does too, because they do exist. It is a shame that people can be so quick to judge something that they see as taboo or different because they have not experienced it. I know I didn't ask for a foot fetish, but I am very glad I have one, it makes me different than some men, and different isn't always bad. It sounds like we like the same thing, soles. I am a sole man before anything else. There is nothing wrong with you. Keep it up and you will find yourself a chick that will embrace your fetish with you, and hell who knows, maybe she has a kink of her own that she can bring to the table, or should I say bed...Why would a girl/woman break up with you because you have a thing for feet?
Either she doesn't understand, doesn't like the idea or has never heard of coprophilia (sh*t fetish)
Cause she is uncomfortable about it and doesn't have or feel the motivation to get her head around it.
I used to get mad about this too and know how you feel, it can be awkward. Like you I love soles in my face. Only one girl I was with years ago would press them against my face and let me suck her toes. So recently I joined foot-worshipers.com. It will help you find like minded people.

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