Breaking up with anyone is hard. Especially if they haven't really done anything. Its only easy if your a jerk or they've wronged you. By breaking things off with her now you are actually doing the kinder thing. Stringing along someone who you no longer have feelings for only makes things harder in the long run.
Let her down gently. Tell her that although she is great, you think you guys are moving too fast. Tell her your not ready for a committed relationship right now and don't want a live in girlfriend. Follow that up with a request for some space and then distance yourself from her.
Then, later tell her that you care for her and want to be a part of her life but think you would be better suited a friends cause your just not ready for a girlfriend right now :PHow do I break up with a girl who is clingy and used to cut herself before I met her.?
I would loosen her up a little. I would start not calling her as much, going over to my friend right when i see them when i am with her, even if you are talking about something, etc. When she goes to you about it, then break up with her. I know it sounds like your playing her, but I am always careful about breaking up with emo girls.
Believe it or not but my and my bf went through this. We were together a month when I moved in with him. We lived together for 3 after that. He sat me down one night and told me that he wasn't feeling as strongly as he had when we first got together and he wanted to break up so he could sort out his life and find closure in somethings. We broke up for 3 weeks. I moved back home with mom and dad, he stayed where we were. He called me one day wanting to talk. We talked for ever then I went to see him. We talked about the ';little things'; we missed about each other. We have been back together and happy ever since. I never went back to cutting myself or trying to kill myself either. Good Luck!
man, that sucks. i've been in your same exact shoes. and the mistake i made was to drag it on for way longer than i should have and after a while i started cheating on her like crazy until finally i got caught. long story short, i hurt her the whole time along the way, dragged it on longer than i should have and in the end it was a more painful breakup for her. don't worry, she managed to get by without you and she'll find a way to do so after you. of course she's gonna cry and she's gonna be hurt, but she'll get over it.
very carefully
TELL HER YOU ARE GETTING FEELINGS FOR GUYS.
uh. shes gonna probably hate you. im really sorry. this is hard. you should probably talk to her friends about it. they'll gladly help you out. because if you don't talk to them first, they won't see your perspective and they'll also hate you (with burning firey passion) for hurting her. she'll get over it eventually. people heal. but its just... doing it thats hard. i think you should get advice from her friends instead of us since they'll probably understand the situation better.
simple cut her azz first pimp then throw her out
what if you (discretly) make her like another guy. A way better one than you (no offence). maybe tha'll help.
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