How do you break up with a girl you want to marry?

First year of college...I want to explore meet and discover new things, but a girl that is more in love with me than i am with her is holding me back. I love her, I can see myself marrying her but in the future not now, and what's bothering me is that i feel married now...How do you break up with a girl you want to marry?
let her go....as you are obviously not in love with her enough and are wanting different things....she will make her way...you will make yours....she may be waiting for you at the end....but maybe not : )How do you break up with a girl you want to marry?
Well Andrew honesty is the best policy. Just sit her down and tell her, it will not be pretty but if you want to move on and explore then it has to be done or she'll find out the hard way and it'll be worse and you may never make it up again. Just explain that you're young, and although you may want to get married later on, right now you want to concentrate on being young. She'll probably go mad but get it over with.
If you're feeling that way, it's best to just let her know how you are feeling and break up for now rather than let these feelings brew until a perfectly nice relationship becomes irreparable for no real reason. Love and a strong bond can carry over into the future if you two have a truly special connection. Even if things don't work out later and you don't end up marrying her, at least you two can be friends before because you chose to be honest with her throughout your relationship.
Hi there, if you are feeling married now you're obviously being smothered.... If you love her, don't break up with her, you should just be honest with her and tell her exactly how you feel... if she truly loves you, she will give you space in your relationship... to go out, be with friends, or whatever.





Now if you want to see other girls, that鈥檚 a different story鈥? As you already know, cheating is wrong and you should break up with her at that point - and still be honest about how you feel. However, keep in mind by breaking up you may lose her forever.





Either way the truth shall set you free...





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You feel married now? I take it that does not feel good and your not ready to be married. Then get on with it set yourselves free. I heard real life stories where people found each other many years later and got back together and so it does happen seldom but does. Enough of that your young it will work out and after some more maturing you may find she is ';not thee only one';. ';How do you break up with a girl...';


Get real you do not want to be married now or in six months and just grab your balls and tell her. If you gonna be a player you got's to have balls.
the problem is, you can't. when you break up with someone cause you want to live life with many other girls. you can't be with those girls and come back to her cause she won't be waiting for you. you guys break up then your feelings change. so it's saying you ether stay with her or break up forever. it's no i'll get back with you in 3,5 years. things happens like that in movies but not life.
Well, it's obvious that u love her, but not enough to spend the rest of ur life with her right now...I would just sit her down and explain the situation with her, let her know how u truly feel and that u feel as if she is holding u back from discovering new things..


She will be hurt for a while, but if she loves u..like u say she does..then she will wait for u to decide what it is u really want in life, rather it be her or someone else!
You just have to decide whats more important... Let her go and always wonder, what it would have been. OR Go out experience life, you only live once. When you find the one for you you will know and you wont wonder of what its like to be with other people.





I think that you should break up with her. Let you both do your own thing. It will hurt but you both will move on.
Wow, thats messed up. If you love someone then you should stay with them. Thats what I think. You don't break their heart for your own personal pleasure. Thats ******* up.
Wow you are very selfish......... you break up with her what makes you think she will ';wait'; for you? And the answer is no she wont! Break up with her now so she can find someone better than you!
go out with me! I'll tell her... :)