So im with this girl. I tried to break up with her yesterday but was unsuccessful. So..plan b is to get her to break up with me. Any one have any suggestions on how I can get her to break up with me without being hurtful? HEEELP. I really want to get out of this realationship. Shes soooooo clingy!!!How do i get a clingy, sensitive girl to break up with me?
The thing is, if she's clingy, then she will not want to leave you. You will have to do the breaking and either way it will still be hurtful. More pain on her side than yours. I think you need to sit her down and explain to her in a calm and caring manner how much she means to you and all of the positive things she offers, but then slowly transition to her faults, but don't name them all and get irritated when you explain them to her. Just tell her how you feel and what you want from life and that it doesn't involve her. Try and stay calm and caring through all of this because she is going to be hurt badly by being so sensitive and clingy. I wish you the best of luck! My bf used to be so clingy and sensitive until I sat him down to explain all of this. Now he realized that being clingy is unhealthy and we are both happier now.How do i get a clingy, sensitive girl to break up with me?
I hate the excuse that a break up was ';unsuccessful';. Sit her down, tell her it isn't working, and break all ties if you don't want to continue a friendship after the romantic relationship ends. If she starts stalking, then you can get a court order against her for being psychotic.
Trying to 'spare' her feelings is only going to hurt them worse and you sending the mixed signals will just confuse her and make her cling harder.
Anyways, clingy, sensitive girls hardly ever break up with someone. They are called clingy for a reason.
just tell her its not working it will look better for you if you dont get dumped by a clingy girlfriend but if you really want her to break up with you then just be really flirty with other girls and ignore her etc but that is mean so i suggest just break it off quickly and quietly and your free! or alternatively take everyone else's advice and tell her your gay...maybe get a friend to help with this! good luck.
Tell her that you want to end the relationship. Then don't answer her phone calls, texts, emails, IMs, etc. If she goes all Fatal Attraction on you - get a restraining order.
Use common sense here. Why are you letting her control you?
If you have anymore questions, I started GuysCryToo.com - Relationship Advice for Dudes, and girls. There are a lot of others in similar predicaments as yourself and I feel you could get some good advice there as well. I typically don't give advice, but I like providing my own opinion at times.
Good luck!
just make up some reason that you cant be with her - base it on something that is real though, itll make it easier to lie. dont tell her the truth though, let her down easy you'll have to be determined though, my m8 went out ith a clingy girl once.... it took him like, 3 hours to do it lol !
you tried??
obviously not good enough.
man up.
tell her goodbye.
dont answer her phone calls or even tak to her. shell get the point.
and if you want her to break up with you. cheat on her.
or tell her youre gay.
Try acting like an adult male. Be a Man break it off, it might hurt her but Living a lie is worse, this kinda stuff makes my head want to explode this isn't rocket science.
Be honest or tell her you found someone else? Either way she's not gonna like it but if you want out then it's your final decision. Last resort would be to just stop seeing her, do not call or visit and ignore her calls.
meh, get into an arguement.
then say ';look. i'm done. i tried explaining to you yesterday but you wouldn't accept it. i'm sorry. it's over.';
stop hanging out with her, stop taking her calls.
and just tell her its not working, be a man.
she wont dump you, and she will get over it, she'll find another guy to leech on to don't worry.
Oh god. Be a man and break it off. Being a pansy about it just makes it worse for both of you.
Be firm tell her you are sorry and walk away. After that she becomes a stalker if she continues to cling to you
man up and just break up with her ur not being very truthful to her by leading her on.
Just tell her it's not working out,and need to be alone for awhile
Tell her you think you might be gay lol
Tell her that your gay!! thats what my best guy friend did when his girlfreind was to clingy
Just be yourself...an a*hole!
just be a man and lay down the rules!!!!
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