How do you break up with a girl who lives with you and has done nothing but love and care for you...?

But she's too clingy, and just not right for me. And i feel really guilty to break up with her. She lives with me as well, and she says she has no where else to go. But she has family, and the other day i said to her that i'd like to see my friends more alone (since she's ALWAYS there) and she threw a fit and said im all she has..!!?? It made me feel like im dating a total loner..How do you break up with a girl who lives with you and has done nothing but love and care for you...?
Aw, she seems like she has some problems. I wouldn't kick her out to live on the streets though. Let her know it's not working, and tell her why. But maybe help her try and find somewhere to go if she can't find it herself.How do you break up with a girl who lives with you and has done nothing but love and care for you...?
Try working on the clingy problems before you break up.





If it doesn't work just tell her you don't love her anymore. She will get mad/cry but over time it will get better. Don't lead her on more though.
I'm not going to lie, there's no 'nice way' of breaking up with someone, it's just something you have to do.


Just consider that she has someone to depend on afterward, a family - a friend. You say she has family, how close are they to her? Does she have friends? Who were her loved ones BEFORE you came. Remind her if she has forgotten and let others know to look after her after it happens so she won't be alone. She sounds like she's not going to take it well, but assure her that she's NOT doing anything wrong, the feelings just aren't as neutral anymore. Just try to be calm, because I don't think there's a nice way of doing this.





Also, Re-consider why else she might not be right for you. Because if you live together, you must be close and what was the reason you love or lovED her? Clingy kind of a dodge reason to break-up with someone that you felt you liked enough to live with because you would of noticed clingyness beforehand - so maybe there's something else behind it and you should consider that first, and if YOU would actually regret not having her anymore?





Hope that helps :) Sorry if it didn't.
sounds like she has low self esteem and needs you more than you need her. man up and break up with her. if you really don't want to be with her long term then you are just prolonging the pain. it will be better for both of you. she will come to realise she can not rely on anyone else for her happiness, and you will have the chance to move forward.