This girl likes me a lot, like shes in love wit me, but i don't like her nowhere near as much. We're cool but there is nothing there in our relationship, i don't have the desire to be with her 24/7. I want to break up with her but i do not want to ruin our friendship because we have been best friends for like ever.How do you break up with a girl without ruining the friendship?
If you guys really are best friends- then she'll understand and she won't want to lose you. She'll just have to accept it, that she can either ignore you for dumping her- or she can remain in your life as a good friend afterwards. I think she'd rather have at least a part of you (friendship) than to have nothing at all with you :)
She'll definitely be hurt and heartbroken- so be prepared! But after a little time and healing- she'll be back on her feet and at your side as a bestie again :)
If she says anything mean to you or gets pissed or anything- when you dump her- don't take it to heart- just remember she's hurt but she'll be okay.
If you are her best friend- help her afterwords. Tell her you'll talk to her if she needs someone to lean on and you'll hang out with her to make her feel better. But just tell her that friendship is all you want from her- nothing more.
Hope this helps! :D -good luck! Don't stress it.How do you break up with a girl without ruining the friendship?
There is basically no way. It actually also depends on how much she really likes you, but you also do not want a psycho hanging around you and your new girlfriend (should you have one at a later stage). Things don't really work as friend if you were in a relationship except if you are like 10 or so?!?! Just break it off and tell her you would rather be friends and take it from there. Hope it helps.
Tell her you need a break up and think you love her more as just a friend and you dont feel you have the bf/gf connection.
Tell her that you want to stay friends because you dont want to lose her friendship
DO NOT BREAK UP OVER TEXT OR ONLINE.
DO NOT GET SMOEONE ELSE TO DO IT FOR YOU.
do it yourself in person. If shes upset, comfprt her. make sure she knows you still care about her, you just dont want to date her.
just be honest and say you love her as friend. it's better to be open and you may hurt her, but it will be better than trying to pursue a one sided relationship. good luck.
Aint gonna happen. You break up, there will be bad feelings~~NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS!~~best hope is after time she will get over the hurt, but things will NEVER EVER be the same
why did u even ask her to be with you in the first place?........now u tell her what it is...
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