Now i want to break up with this girl but she told me earlier in the relationship that if she couldn't be with me she would kill herself. normally i wouldn't take that seriously because id think she was bluffing. But this girl has cut herself just because we were arguing so i know shes serious. What do i doHow do you break up with a suicidal girl?
Wow... no clue. Maybe you could tell her that you want to be just friends. Keep the relationship exactly the same, except just stop having sex with her. Then veeery slowly just start spending less and less time with her, but make her feel secure that you will always be there if she has a serious problem. I don't really know if this will work, but it's the best I could come up with. Tough situation. How do you break up with a suicidal girl?
break up with her and when she tells you she's going to kill herself hang up and call the cops so they can interviene. Her parents might not take you seriously, and even if they did she could still do it and then they'd wrongfully blame you. Seriously just call the cops, that will drive the point of how serious it is to her parents, plus if they stop her in the act she'll be forced to go to counseling. You get to break up with her and she gets the help she needs, it's a win-win situation.
cutting and suicide are two different issues. if you want out of the relationship, you are not responsible for what she does to herself, but you can help her through this. counselors often are able to assess if the person is a threat to themselves and will get a contract and can safely leave them alone once they promise not to commit suicide. since you are so close to this situation, that will probably not work for you. have you heard of lifeline? it is a National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. You can call them if you are worried about someone you care about and they can give you advice. They are an invaluable resource and I hope you are willing to call them. http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org鈥?/a>
1-800-273-TALK
If she threatens suicide and you are scared she will really do this and you don't feel there is time to call lifeline or that she can be talked out of it, call 911. They can help people who are a threat to themselves.
Good luck.
There is really only so much you can do. I'd suggest you be completely honest with her but offer to help her cope. The longer you pretend to want to be with her, the harder it's going to be on her when you DO break up. I'd also suggest that before saying anything to her you talk to a counselor or therapist and tell them the situation. It's best to have professional advice in a situation like this.
Oh for the love of anything, don't break up with her.
If she's serious, you breaking up with her is going to drive her to do it.
Get her some medical attention ASAP.
She may not like it at first, but it'll help her.
Calm her down.
But whatever you do, don't leave her side.
Support her through everything.
Most likely she is bluffing. But I know the type. I had a girl cut herself 1000x, really badly every time I tried. Finally we split ways, just because we we're both tired of each other.
But looking back, I'd say tell the parents. You no longer want to be with her, but she is threatening suicide if you leave. They'll deal with her, and no matter what, dont talk to her anymore.
Ohhhhh fukkiedy **** de **** your in trouble. Thats a toughy. If you really want to break it off do it. But there is really nothing you can do without upsetting her. Maybe you can txt her or no wait no written or email. Verbal is the best. It all depends would you want that on your conscious. But hey she might not do it. It all depends DO you really WANT to break up with her ? Sorry man. Thats tough
break up with her and call her parents or the school psychologist. It is an abusive relationship for YOU, and you shouldn't be stuck in it. If she is serious she NEEDS help, and if not she deserves to feel the reprocautions of her actions.
Dude~
Break Up as soon as possible !
Do it Gently~ NO Drama!
Be a MAN!
Leave town for awhile. It's NOT your fault.
She is using this as an unfair
WEAPON of CONTROL against you!
Get OUT TODAY!
This is INSANE!
This chick is~
';Dumber-Then-A-5th-Grader'; !
There is really NOTHING you can do
to ';save'; her. She's gotta save herself!
Hm.
Thats tricky,REALLY tricky.
you dont wanna test her,because of the cutting herself thing..
But umm maybe get her to break up with you,
or even involove parents or your school
or something..
you wouldnt want to live with that..
and just because they cut
doesnt mean they would kill themselfs.
she just likes attention
wah boo hoo tell her to grow up and stop bullshiting around. if she's sooo suicidal why is she still alive? dumb *****. I had a girlfriend that did the same thing bro, its tough to do but if you really want to let her go you gotta do it eventually. cutting yourself doesnt even hurt pussy. lol try rolling your car going 60mph into some tree's then again I got lucky and lived. doesnt always happen. anyways yeah tell her to grow up if she threatens you with that ****. its just a cage for the weak men. are you a weak man? lol **** this is a long answer. lol
oh ps hang out with some dudes afterwards to get your mind off of it when its all done lol yeah baby yeah!
I was in a situation similar to you. If you are serious about breaking up with her it is worth talking to your parents/ a professional on the subject. It's not worth feeling guilty for the rest of your life if you dont take the precautions.
get rid of her, shes childish and immature, you dont need her, tell her to grow up and move on already, the way she is acting is really dumb, you dont need that dude. shes not serious and she wont do it, shes only cutting herself for attention
if i were seriously wanting to dump her. Call the police and explain it. They go to her house and restrain her and put her on sucicide watch to make sure she cant hurt herself. At they same time they will be getting her physciatric help.
Sounds like a crazy situation you got there. Okay first you need to go to her parents. Feel weird about that? What about a school counselor? Or Teacher? Someone that can help her. Also its not a good thing for you either. So I hope you the best. Good luck.
You to get her to become uninterested in you... Start farting, doing what you want, make it so that she doesn't want you as a bf and she breaks up with you.. It sounds dumb and immature but it's the best/safest way
Don't break up with her... just ';grow apart'; as they say. Gradually stop calling her as often... don't go over... be busier.... get annoyed more often.... sooner or later... it will get OLD with her too. She might threaten, but usually, people who threaten suicide are looking for attention. Let her mom or the school counceler know.
tell her parents. tell her friends. then just go away for a while. as in far away where she knows you won't learn stories about her. so she wont kill herself just to make you guilty.
She definitely needs help. Seek a professional opinion.
You'll get use to it when you get older. I had one chick cut her wrist over me and another eat a bottle of sleeping pills. I can't be the only guy with good hair so they need to get over it
Run far far away. Or just break up with her and let her off her self. One less ****** up *****.
break up with her, if she does kill herself its her fault. you cand say that it would hurt you if she went through with it
Carefully
Get her some help before you give up on her. Care about her enough to help save her life.
get her to break up with you start spending less time with her until she gets bored with it
Try making her hate u so that she breaks up with u. Or talk to her patiently and explain that it would not work between u both. hope i helped you.
give her a razor blade. well on a serious note, talk to her mother. she needs to know.
I'd talk to her parents, and probably have a group discussion with them and her. Get some help for sure.
get someone else involved. she needs help.
Uhhh tell her parents.
get her to wanna break up with you
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