How to break up with girl ?

What is best way (the place, the time, What do I say?) to break up with a girl. She is 30, I am 36 yrs old. We've been together only 3 weeks, she has said she wants to be with me forever and forever. I do not enjoy being with her.....I do not want to date her anymore.How to break up with girl ?
She's not a girl, she's a woman. You don't have to ';plan'; something special---just do it. Go to her home and tell her and then leave. She won't be mortified in public and there won't be a scene.How to break up with girl ?
The best way is to appear in front of her with another woman.That's it then.You dint even have to say anything.....Otherwise easiest way is to call her and say that you are sorry,she is a nice woman,anyone will feel lucky to be with her,but unfortunately she is not for you.
Tell her exactly how you feel and why. Explain to her that three weeks is insufficient time for you to reciprocate the same feelings and that she should analyze her own expectations. You could offer her suggestions to maintain a healthy relationship with someone other than yourself. Complement her good assets and defer from the bad. Y'all are old enough to understand this.
Go to her place or somewhere that makes it easy to leave. (call her if you'd like) Tell her that things just aren't going the way you would like and be honest. Tell her that you don't have enough in common.
well dont say it like that.





just take her out for coffee or something, and then let her know that you dont see the relationship going anywhere. and that you dont think she is right for you, and that you wouldnt feel right letting her get closer to you if its just going to end badly.
Tell her that.


The more you beat around the bush and lead her on, the harder it will get.
The absolutely wrong ways to break up:


Post-it Note


Email


Instant Message


Letter -- if you live within reasonable driving distance





The absolutely correct way to break up with a woman is to meet at her home. Look her in the eye. Explain why things are not working out for you. Do not name-call even if she goes nuts. And then leave with dignity. Any other way would make you as a worm.





Good luck!
face to face %26amp; honestly.


Not bluntly. Use tact but he honest. Tell her that she is moving too fast %26amp; you don't see a future. If she asks why tell her. It will hurt her but it will also see where she is going wrong for her future relationships.
tell her u just want to be friends with her, but not in public, that would be embarrassing, just simply tell her u want to be friends, and she will get mad or upset and then she will sleep on it then get over it, like i am doing. only he didn't dump me and say lets just be friends, but its nicer to say it like that.
Just be honest with her, tell her she just is not the one for you, but that she will make someone else very happy. Dont stay with her any longer because you might be giving her false hope that there is a chance of a relationship.
Let her find out you have been seeing other girls aswell, and you werent that serious, only 3 weeks. Or tell her you are gay. Or tell her you have a fetish that will turn her off, such as dressing in female clothing
It would be best to do it at one house or the other for privacy. No one likes to be embarrassed in front of other people. I would just explain to her that the relationship moved way too fast for you and you have realized that you are not ready for that in your life. You still want to relax and ';date around'; maybe. Just be nice about it and don't wait. The longer you let it go on, the more difficult it will be for both people.
no one can argue with i dont love you - and i dont think i ever will - i wish i did but i dont
Don't waste your time and more importantly her's. She appears to be believing in you.


Please tell her that you can not go against your family as you love them a lot %26amp; they have already committed to some one.


If you don't want to tell I lie tell the truth..... you are any way going to hurt her


Just take it in your stride..She too will may be a little later
Huh?


may i know what makes you feel that way?


well i guess if you really feel that way then i suggest u to tell her the truth.





just pick any place and any times (not in period times)that comforts her and do not offend her.





tell her that u dont feel happy about this relationship and it will make u lie if you continue this relationship.





just said that u dont want to hurt her feelings yet u do not want to lie to urself in this relationship.


good luck!
Tell her the truth and change your cell phone number.
Just tell her that you are really sorry for the way things are turning out, but you don't want to continue the relationship.





Re-iterate the fact that you're ';just being honest'; and she'll HAVE to accept it.





I mean, she can't force you to be with her! Right?
You can either take the easy way out and never call her again or take he to lunch and tell her it isn't working for you and you don't see yourself wih her in the long run and would like to see otherpeople.
3weeks?! and she wants to be with you forever, scary! just tell her youre not interested! dont sugar coat it because she will read into certain things and cling on to hope. just be honest and upfront, leaving no hope at all for anything in the future.
however you do it, do it quickly! dragging it out is the worst thing you can do. i'd say be honest and maybe do it over the phone..definitely do NOT do it by email or texting!
pretty harsh,but just say that you dont see yourself with her in the future,and its better if you see other people


about place and time,doesnt really matter,just make sure you let her down easy and to not be a jerk about it
Sounds like my situation too often. I used to prolong it and just stop being myself and kind of distant. She would pick up on it and then you have to explain. I tried something new, being honest. Just tell her you dont think you guys are on the same page right now. She is a great girl, blah blah and it isnt her, its you. That works for me atleast.
Tell her things are going to fast and that you are not in the same place in life as she is. You think she is a nice person, but not the right person for you.


Simple. It doesn't matter where, I suggest someplace private, where you both have transportation. Just make sure you do it in person and not over the phone.
Well if youve been dating for only 3 weeks and she wants to be you forever, honestly thats kind of scary, and be careful she might become a stalker!!! You should talk to her in person and just say the ';I want to keep my options open'; line or simply you just want to be single and dont want any strings attached. Its usually better that way!!! SiNgLe and ready to MiNgle
just tell her. she will thank you in the long run for not leading her on.
OK...have unbelievable sex with her before you break up. Tell her that its never gonna get ANY better than THAT. Also tell her you have AIDS and so does she and she should be dying any day now. Its not HER, its YOU.
it's your fault
forever after only three weeks? i say you are not even obliged to break up with someone that you've dated for less than a month.
Tell her just that, you don't enjoy being with her, and you don't wanna date her anymore.... just meet up somewhere and tell her you need to talk.