I really love this girl, but I am simply not ready for a relationship. I hinted the other day I needed some time to think, but she's still pushing for more (moving in, etc.). I think breaking up will devastate her, and need some suggestions on a soft way to do this. In public, at her place? etc. I don't want her to feel left out or second best....How do you break up with a girl you really respect?
Tell her when u two are alone, Don't humiliate the poor girl. Tell her ur simply not ready for a serious relationship, tell her u don't want to hurt her but by being with her ur giving her false pretences. Be honest with her, honesty is always the best way to go at anything. Tell her u love her a lot but as a friend. Just be honest and words will coem easily from ur mouth.How do you break up with a girl you really respect?
tell her u need some time 2 think cuz u dont think u r ready 4 a relationship and tell her that u still luv her alot but u just want 2 be friends 4 now and mabey u should buy her some ice cream 2 go along with the apology
you got it good so keep respecting and ...you really dont do it you'll regret it later if you do...
It's wonderful that you are thinking of her feelings. Tell her the truth. No matter what you do or say, it will be very hard for both of you, but in the end the truth will be the best. You never know when you are ready to commit, you may want it to be with her, so don't burn any bridges.
Tell her exactly how you feel, all of it. Tell her you care about her and don't want to hurt her, but you have to be honest about how you feel. I would do it at her place, where she can feel most comfortable. That way if it does upset her, she isn't out somewhere where she isn't comfortable.
Remember to tell her what you said on here too, that you really respect her and treat her like the special and wonderful person she is. It sounds like you are really trying to go about this the right way, just remember to be true to her and yourself.
Hope this helps. :)
tell her what u just said
You don't
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
I'm asking this for a colleague of mine...
He's French and has been with this Filipina for quite some time. I guess the flame just faded.
I told him (out of experience) that Filipinas, especially those from pampangga, can get quite sinister when someone would break their fragile hearts and this scenario scared the stankin feces out him.
Any suggestions?
(If it would help you come up with ideas... she has a black belt in taekwondo)How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
Tell your friend he owes it to the girl to tell her in the face.
If he is man enough to fall IN love, be a man enough to FALL OUT.
I am a Filipino, and I also know the Filipina heart. It is understanding, kind, and tough as bamboo. For all we know, she knows by now. Filipinas are notorious as mind readers, you know. It could be she is just waiting for your friend to talk seriously about it.
And aren't we downgrading the civility of the Filipina by implying she uses martial arts not to defend her life, her honor, or her loved ones? For all we know, a tear may fall, but a fist shall never be used in anger. A black belt should know better. It is instilled in the dicipline.How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
zzz... tell her when she's drunk... hmmm... beer... zzz...
The way I see it he only has two options.
He stands upto her and tells her the truth and takes the possible beating like a man, or
He does it the cowardly way, gets his things out while she is at work, and then texts her.
break it to her gently. i mean,any girl would get hurt regardless of what race/nationality. i suggest have a mature talk..over a cup of coffee or somewhere where only the two of them can talk and think...
well.. if she uses her taekwando skills.. good luck to her future xbf..hahahaha..consequence of breaking her heart.
tell him pretend to be bankrupt, lost jobs and such other things...nature will take its course.
Nah, Filipinas are more likely to chop his balls off after financially ruining him and taking him for everything he has got and they never forget
tell her '; I just dont think its going to work between us, but i still want to be friends'; it might sound harsh, but it works and hasnt failed me. they take it really nicely.
TELL HER personally, face-to-face
DON'T use email, letters, text messages, phone calls, post-its, etc.
sinister Pampanguena, hmmm.
not me, PT.
anyway, all he have to do is be honest.
and grab a ';palanggana'; to shield his face.
Read my lips, PT....';hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.';
But if he's still brave enough to do it, here's my personal ';how to';; i.e., not found in any advice book. Tell your friend to do the following:
1. have a big date with the girl...all the works...flowers, wine and dine, etc.
2. when he brings her home, slip a note to her as he leaves
(very important, tell him to walk fast - not run - to his car and don't look back)
3. the note should say something like ';forgive me for being a coward but I just have to let you know things are not working between us and it's best for you to dump me now than later. thanks for everything';
4. if the girl calls, he's not available...and he better not be available forever...run and hide, if he must.
If done properly, this will work...and the girl saves her face because she is the dumper, instead of the dumpee. Everybody happy.
Hey, newluv, you're not thinking of dumping me, are you?
haha. well, im filipina. i dont know her, but filipinas have the same feelings as everyone else. of course it hurts to get broken up with. i think he should come up with a good *** excuse to leave her.. stop being so damn stereotypical! please and thank you! =)
Follow your heart and do what you feel to be right.
Stop listening to other people who are not on your path. You've heard the old saying to walk a mile in another's shoes before judging them. Well, the fact is that no one has walked in your shoes and they have no right to tell you what is right or wrong for you.
Stop repeating old patterns and stop punishing yourself for things that others perceive to be wrong. Follow your heart and your passions. Only then will you truly be happy.
It is not your responsibility to make anyone else happy, but it IS your responsibility to make yourself happy.
if it were me i would make sure i was out of the country and then send her a letter explaining all she needed to know. getting out of the philippines is for his own safety of course
the best is really just tell her truth...as the song goes, break it to her gently
you just can't brother! you are doomed for the rest of your life! good luck! lol
He should just be honest with her. If he hasn't done anything wrong, like started seeing other people or anything, there is no way (realistically) that she can be upset.
It may be helpful to make it sound like he's doing her a favor by allowing them both to get out now. It gives her the chance to find someone who will make her feel how she should feel in a relationship. If he feels the flame has faded, then it has, regardless of how she feels.
Let's just hope the flame has also faded for her. It seems like it must've because it's hard for the flame to fade on only one side. Good luck to your buddy, hahaha us ladies are COMPLICATED sometimes :)
haha, tell the frenchman nobody dumps a filipina! nobody!
It's simple, there is no easy way. Just remember, when you do the deed, Karma is going to strike you back 10 times over. It sucks breaking up with someone, just don't be gutless and tell them via email or text message. Look them straight in the eye and tell them why. This way if they do try to hurt you, you have proof !!!
no matter how he does it, it would still hurt her if she's really into him. but he should be honest with his feelings. tell her that even if they continue seeing each other, it won't develop into something ';permanent'; and that it would only hurt them both if they continue with the relationship. it would be nice to offer to be friends. what's important is to apologize and make her see that there is nothing wrong with her, it's he whose feelings have waned. then just make himself scarce until she gets over him. if he is really scared of her, the thing to do is to break up with her, not really in a public place, but he should have someone with him, just in case she gets physical on him. break up at her place but with a male friend waiting for him outside. at least someone can bring him to the hospital just in case......kidding!!!!
There is no getting around it. If they've been together for that long, he is sure to break her heart, no matter how tough she seems (with her black belt and all). Telling it to her straight is the most manly thing to do, he may even end up being friends with her. Of course, he should expect being asked 7,000 questions so he had better be ready with good answers. A simple ';I fell out of love'; won't cut it so the explanation has to be detailed, when exactly what happened, who possibly has caused the drift (third party?), etc. Sugarcoat if he has to, but be totally honest. Filipinas have a keen nose for liars.
If they have absolutely no chance of seeing each other again, the easiest (and the jerkiest) way is disappearing into thin air. He avoids confrontation this way, and a possibility of a slight (or severe) injury. Again, they must never meet again after, or else he might as well have moved to the netherworld if they ever cross paths in the future.
This is tougher than it sounds.
I think he has to face her like a man to break the news. The initial beating won't be that bad. But, maybe visit some family in another region for a few months after that night. Once she gets to talking to her friends and new points are made about his punishment things could get dangerous. He doesn't want to be around for that.
sir purple, lol. having a black belt in taekwondo doesn't give her the edge when it comes to reality that her bf will break up with her. it's your friend who knows the depth of this woman's character and he should have an idea of how she will react to this kind of revelation.
there is no way to avoid hurting her feelings but if i'm the girl, i prefer the honesty and the truth and i don't care how much it will hurt me.
If you are going to dump/break up with a girl you'll definitely break her heart.There is no way out but to tell her face to face.And be a man to face whatever the consequences,be it a punch or a slap in the face.Be a man,take it and bear it.But please tell your colleague to break it gently,soften the blow and emphasize the positive attributes of the girl.
Thats the way I see it.Though have'nt done it yet,hopefully never will.
He's French and has been with this Filipina for quite some time. I guess the flame just faded.
I told him (out of experience) that Filipinas, especially those from pampangga, can get quite sinister when someone would break their fragile hearts and this scenario scared the stankin feces out him.
Any suggestions?
(If it would help you come up with ideas... she has a black belt in taekwondo)How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
Tell your friend he owes it to the girl to tell her in the face.
If he is man enough to fall IN love, be a man enough to FALL OUT.
I am a Filipino, and I also know the Filipina heart. It is understanding, kind, and tough as bamboo. For all we know, she knows by now. Filipinas are notorious as mind readers, you know. It could be she is just waiting for your friend to talk seriously about it.
And aren't we downgrading the civility of the Filipina by implying she uses martial arts not to defend her life, her honor, or her loved ones? For all we know, a tear may fall, but a fist shall never be used in anger. A black belt should know better. It is instilled in the dicipline.How to dump / break up with a Filipino girl without hurting her feelings (too much)?
zzz... tell her when she's drunk... hmmm... beer... zzz...
The way I see it he only has two options.
He stands upto her and tells her the truth and takes the possible beating like a man, or
He does it the cowardly way, gets his things out while she is at work, and then texts her.
break it to her gently. i mean,any girl would get hurt regardless of what race/nationality. i suggest have a mature talk..over a cup of coffee or somewhere where only the two of them can talk and think...
well.. if she uses her taekwando skills.. good luck to her future xbf..hahahaha..consequence of breaking her heart.
tell him pretend to be bankrupt, lost jobs and such other things...nature will take its course.
Nah, Filipinas are more likely to chop his balls off after financially ruining him and taking him for everything he has got and they never forget
tell her '; I just dont think its going to work between us, but i still want to be friends'; it might sound harsh, but it works and hasnt failed me. they take it really nicely.
TELL HER personally, face-to-face
DON'T use email, letters, text messages, phone calls, post-its, etc.
sinister Pampanguena, hmmm.
not me, PT.
anyway, all he have to do is be honest.
and grab a ';palanggana'; to shield his face.
Read my lips, PT....';hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.';
But if he's still brave enough to do it, here's my personal ';how to';; i.e., not found in any advice book. Tell your friend to do the following:
1. have a big date with the girl...all the works...flowers, wine and dine, etc.
2. when he brings her home, slip a note to her as he leaves
(very important, tell him to walk fast - not run - to his car and don't look back)
3. the note should say something like ';forgive me for being a coward but I just have to let you know things are not working between us and it's best for you to dump me now than later. thanks for everything';
4. if the girl calls, he's not available...and he better not be available forever...run and hide, if he must.
If done properly, this will work...and the girl saves her face because she is the dumper, instead of the dumpee. Everybody happy.
Hey, newluv, you're not thinking of dumping me, are you?
haha. well, im filipina. i dont know her, but filipinas have the same feelings as everyone else. of course it hurts to get broken up with. i think he should come up with a good *** excuse to leave her.. stop being so damn stereotypical! please and thank you! =)
Follow your heart and do what you feel to be right.
Stop listening to other people who are not on your path. You've heard the old saying to walk a mile in another's shoes before judging them. Well, the fact is that no one has walked in your shoes and they have no right to tell you what is right or wrong for you.
Stop repeating old patterns and stop punishing yourself for things that others perceive to be wrong. Follow your heart and your passions. Only then will you truly be happy.
It is not your responsibility to make anyone else happy, but it IS your responsibility to make yourself happy.
if it were me i would make sure i was out of the country and then send her a letter explaining all she needed to know. getting out of the philippines is for his own safety of course
the best is really just tell her truth...as the song goes, break it to her gently
you just can't brother! you are doomed for the rest of your life! good luck! lol
He should just be honest with her. If he hasn't done anything wrong, like started seeing other people or anything, there is no way (realistically) that she can be upset.
It may be helpful to make it sound like he's doing her a favor by allowing them both to get out now. It gives her the chance to find someone who will make her feel how she should feel in a relationship. If he feels the flame has faded, then it has, regardless of how she feels.
Let's just hope the flame has also faded for her. It seems like it must've because it's hard for the flame to fade on only one side. Good luck to your buddy, hahaha us ladies are COMPLICATED sometimes :)
haha, tell the frenchman nobody dumps a filipina! nobody!
It's simple, there is no easy way. Just remember, when you do the deed, Karma is going to strike you back 10 times over. It sucks breaking up with someone, just don't be gutless and tell them via email or text message. Look them straight in the eye and tell them why. This way if they do try to hurt you, you have proof !!!
no matter how he does it, it would still hurt her if she's really into him. but he should be honest with his feelings. tell her that even if they continue seeing each other, it won't develop into something ';permanent'; and that it would only hurt them both if they continue with the relationship. it would be nice to offer to be friends. what's important is to apologize and make her see that there is nothing wrong with her, it's he whose feelings have waned. then just make himself scarce until she gets over him. if he is really scared of her, the thing to do is to break up with her, not really in a public place, but he should have someone with him, just in case she gets physical on him. break up at her place but with a male friend waiting for him outside. at least someone can bring him to the hospital just in case......kidding!!!!
There is no getting around it. If they've been together for that long, he is sure to break her heart, no matter how tough she seems (with her black belt and all). Telling it to her straight is the most manly thing to do, he may even end up being friends with her. Of course, he should expect being asked 7,000 questions so he had better be ready with good answers. A simple ';I fell out of love'; won't cut it so the explanation has to be detailed, when exactly what happened, who possibly has caused the drift (third party?), etc. Sugarcoat if he has to, but be totally honest. Filipinas have a keen nose for liars.
If they have absolutely no chance of seeing each other again, the easiest (and the jerkiest) way is disappearing into thin air. He avoids confrontation this way, and a possibility of a slight (or severe) injury. Again, they must never meet again after, or else he might as well have moved to the netherworld if they ever cross paths in the future.
This is tougher than it sounds.
I think he has to face her like a man to break the news. The initial beating won't be that bad. But, maybe visit some family in another region for a few months after that night. Once she gets to talking to her friends and new points are made about his punishment things could get dangerous. He doesn't want to be around for that.
sir purple, lol. having a black belt in taekwondo doesn't give her the edge when it comes to reality that her bf will break up with her. it's your friend who knows the depth of this woman's character and he should have an idea of how she will react to this kind of revelation.
there is no way to avoid hurting her feelings but if i'm the girl, i prefer the honesty and the truth and i don't care how much it will hurt me.
If you are going to dump/break up with a girl you'll definitely break her heart.There is no way out but to tell her face to face.And be a man to face whatever the consequences,be it a punch or a slap in the face.Be a man,take it and bear it.But please tell your colleague to break it gently,soften the blow and emphasize the positive attributes of the girl.
Thats the way I see it.Though have'nt done it yet,hopefully never will.
Should I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
my girlfriend has a weird problem with a freaky pee and poop fetish and i don't know how to tell her I'm not into that stuff. and now she wants to try animal stuff....should i break up with her or what?Should I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
um if you are ok with her doing that
to you then don't break up with her
but if she does or wants to do that to you
often then i think you shouldShould I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
I'd find a girl that isn't into feet, and pee pee and ****. But it's up to you. That is a dirty girl. Find a good girl that likes it rough and won't get a raccoon to piss on you.
Its really your desicion. give the relationship more time
tell her she need her and you are going to send to consluer
um if you are ok with her doing that
to you then don't break up with her
but if she does or wants to do that to you
often then i think you shouldShould I Break Up With My Girl Friend?
I'd find a girl that isn't into feet, and pee pee and ****. But it's up to you. That is a dirty girl. Find a good girl that likes it rough and won't get a raccoon to piss on you.
Its really your desicion. give the relationship more time
tell her she need her and you are going to send to consluer
How to make a girl break up with you?
i want her to break up with me :[ cause this relationship has top many problems so how do i make her wanna break up with me through textHow to make a girl break up with you?
Write a text about how good a time you had ect...and can't wait to get together real soon again %26amp; put a fake name in the spot ...where her's should be then send it to her ...That should do it ! Sucks but it's effective !How to make a girl break up with you?
Why don't you just man up and break up w/ her. and why would you want her to do it through a text anyways? Grow some balls and just end it yourself, you got yourself into this relationship, if you want out then get yourself out.
just break up with her.
It gets the relationship ended, which is what you want.
Write a text about how good a time you had ect...and can't wait to get together real soon again %26amp; put a fake name in the spot ...where her's should be then send it to her ...That should do it ! Sucks but it's effective !How to make a girl break up with you?
Why don't you just man up and break up w/ her. and why would you want her to do it through a text anyways? Grow some balls and just end it yourself, you got yourself into this relationship, if you want out then get yourself out.
just break up with her.
It gets the relationship ended, which is what you want.
What is the best way to break up with a girl?
I have been dating this girl for about 8 months. How do I tell her and still remain friends?What is the best way to break up with a girl?
just stay away from her and have only normal conversation. she will get your message.What is the best way to break up with a girl?
You don't want to be tied down anymore, but you still really like her.
***** bein her friend just invite her over for dinner and be real sweet and when she comes over ***** that ****** up or throw off a balcony if u live high enough :)...or get two hookers to be there ******** u when she walks in the door....that'll get her to go away.
Tell her you want to be just her friend and still do things together, but you don't feel that you don't think you are in love now that you have really gotten to know her.
Don't be surprised if she is hurt and wants nothing more to do with you, so be really sure you don't love her before you tell her that you are not in love.
first of all
always do it in person
be a man
but ok
be really nice about it
really honest
eye contact
';I really want to stay friends';
don't say ';we can still be friends'; - that pisses me off
don't make her feel like a victim even tho she is
sometimes when you think they are going to get really upset or mad, they actually respect your decision and seem decently okay
it'll be awkward after
even if you don't think it will
The same way you told us. Be sure to tell her it's over or she could become obsessive. It's better to be honest even if it hurts because she could keep coming around.
Just tell her in the face. You don't have to give her a reason. Really.
Well I agree that face to face is best, I disagree with not giving her a reason, I know I'd be pissed if there wasn't a reason for it. If the feeling's gone, tell her that, if it's another reason, give it to her. BUT, if it's because you like someone else... DONT mention that. Just say you're feelings have changed. If you say you have feelings for someone else she'll assume you cheated on her, or it will atleast cross her mind. Bottom line, just be honest and kind, expect her to get mad at you, she'll get over it.
You dont do it any good way really.
She will cry and you will say we can still be friends, and it will be akward between you two for as long as you see eachother.
But just do it and get it over with so you can move on.
Get one last ride in before you go though, 8 months i think you've earned that much.
I dont think there really is a good way. I mean no matter how you break up with her your gonna hurt her. To her face would be a better way then anything else..just come out as nice as possible so you can still remain friends. Hopefully it wont be awkward if you remain friends
idk but i hate it when i guy says i dont want a gf right now
be honest with her. dont leave her confused. my bf of over 2 years broke up with me on sunday.. it will be up to her to be friends with you or not. by ex wants to be friends with me but im not sure... well see what happens.
jut be honest with her. answer al of the questiosn she has for you. tell her the truth.. hopefully you arent leaving her for someone else... or some other messed up reason.. just be honest wiht her though.
Just tell her that your feelings are more like those for a friend than for a girlfriend and that you want to be honest about it.
tell her straight up how you feel
if she cares about you then she will understand
just stay away from her and have only normal conversation. she will get your message.What is the best way to break up with a girl?
You don't want to be tied down anymore, but you still really like her.
***** bein her friend just invite her over for dinner and be real sweet and when she comes over ***** that ****** up or throw off a balcony if u live high enough :)...or get two hookers to be there ******** u when she walks in the door....that'll get her to go away.
Tell her you want to be just her friend and still do things together, but you don't feel that you don't think you are in love now that you have really gotten to know her.
Don't be surprised if she is hurt and wants nothing more to do with you, so be really sure you don't love her before you tell her that you are not in love.
first of all
always do it in person
be a man
but ok
be really nice about it
really honest
eye contact
';I really want to stay friends';
don't say ';we can still be friends'; - that pisses me off
don't make her feel like a victim even tho she is
sometimes when you think they are going to get really upset or mad, they actually respect your decision and seem decently okay
it'll be awkward after
even if you don't think it will
The same way you told us. Be sure to tell her it's over or she could become obsessive. It's better to be honest even if it hurts because she could keep coming around.
Just tell her in the face. You don't have to give her a reason. Really.
Well I agree that face to face is best, I disagree with not giving her a reason, I know I'd be pissed if there wasn't a reason for it. If the feeling's gone, tell her that, if it's another reason, give it to her. BUT, if it's because you like someone else... DONT mention that. Just say you're feelings have changed. If you say you have feelings for someone else she'll assume you cheated on her, or it will atleast cross her mind. Bottom line, just be honest and kind, expect her to get mad at you, she'll get over it.
You dont do it any good way really.
She will cry and you will say we can still be friends, and it will be akward between you two for as long as you see eachother.
But just do it and get it over with so you can move on.
Get one last ride in before you go though, 8 months i think you've earned that much.
I dont think there really is a good way. I mean no matter how you break up with her your gonna hurt her. To her face would be a better way then anything else..just come out as nice as possible so you can still remain friends. Hopefully it wont be awkward if you remain friends
idk but i hate it when i guy says i dont want a gf right now
be honest with her. dont leave her confused. my bf of over 2 years broke up with me on sunday.. it will be up to her to be friends with you or not. by ex wants to be friends with me but im not sure... well see what happens.
jut be honest with her. answer al of the questiosn she has for you. tell her the truth.. hopefully you arent leaving her for someone else... or some other messed up reason.. just be honest wiht her though.
Just tell her that your feelings are more like those for a friend than for a girlfriend and that you want to be honest about it.
tell her straight up how you feel
if she cares about you then she will understand
How do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
i want a boy that i like to break up with another girl so i can go out with him but the problem is that i got them together in the first place and now i realize that i really like him a lot and i want to go out with him!!!how do i get them to break up without them getting mad at me???How do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
Well, no that I reccomend it, but to do so your going to have to show how much better you are than the other girl... but serioulsly, guys have emotions too... be carefulHow do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
...YOU DONT..cause then that means that he would easily do it to you to.
You don't. You act mature, wish them the best and move on.
well; the girl might get mad at you, but i think you should just tell the guy how you really feel, and if he feels the same.. you guys can go on from there. but if he doesn't, that's just something you are going to have to live with, because you got them together, and you really have no right to break them up.
i think breakind them up is not that good of idea cuase it always brings trouble no matter what! besides if he wants to go out with you he would of broken up with her. but u can try talking to him not pushing him and hanging out with him and over time hell like uskin cancer c++
Well, no that I reccomend it, but to do so your going to have to show how much better you are than the other girl... but serioulsly, guys have emotions too... be carefulHow do i get a boy that i like to break up with another girl?
...YOU DONT..cause then that means that he would easily do it to you to.
You don't. You act mature, wish them the best and move on.
well; the girl might get mad at you, but i think you should just tell the guy how you really feel, and if he feels the same.. you guys can go on from there. but if he doesn't, that's just something you are going to have to live with, because you got them together, and you really have no right to break them up.
i think breakind them up is not that good of idea cuase it always brings trouble no matter what! besides if he wants to go out with you he would of broken up with her. but u can try talking to him not pushing him and hanging out with him and over time hell like u
How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
Ive tried a few times but i dont have the strength to do it. It is alot harder than i thought it would be. But i Want to be able to be a Man about it and do it and person. On the Phone or TXT is just plain Cowardly, Ive tried in person but i cant close the deal, How should i do it?How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
I'm going throught the same thing... I've tried to break up with my boyfriend a few times but the words just...wont come out. it's so frustrating...
I plan to do it tomorrow though... I just have to remember that if I were in his possition, I wouldn't want to be led on to believe I still have feelings for him when I actualyl dont...
I just need to find the strength to say it!
And you do too... I don;t know how we're gonna do it but it's not fair to the others to lead them on anymore...
good luck to you!How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
just keep in mind it's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship like this. after so many months, i think you should be strong and just do it in person. tell her you think she is awesome and you hope to stay friends, but you don't think the relationship is going to work out anymore (or if there is a particular reason for wanting to break up maybe add that). If you really really can't do it in person then at least do it on the phone. just don't do it over text or email.
well sorry babe but ur ****** be a man and be like its over but WHY DO U WANNA!!! what did she do.... just be nice about it tho
I'm going throught the same thing... I've tried to break up with my boyfriend a few times but the words just...wont come out. it's so frustrating...
I plan to do it tomorrow though... I just have to remember that if I were in his possition, I wouldn't want to be led on to believe I still have feelings for him when I actualyl dont...
I just need to find the strength to say it!
And you do too... I don;t know how we're gonna do it but it's not fair to the others to lead them on anymore...
good luck to you!How to Break Up With A Girl, Dating 6+ Months. Teenage Relationship?
just keep in mind it's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship like this. after so many months, i think you should be strong and just do it in person. tell her you think she is awesome and you hope to stay friends, but you don't think the relationship is going to work out anymore (or if there is a particular reason for wanting to break up maybe add that). If you really really can't do it in person then at least do it on the phone. just don't do it over text or email.
well sorry babe but ur ****** be a man and be like its over but WHY DO U WANNA!!! what did she do.... just be nice about it tho
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