I gonna break up with a girl but the last few times ive done this the other girls have cried and i want to try and avoid all that this timeHow should i break up with a girl?
jerk. just do it u babyHow should i break up with a girl?
What I have done in the past is act like an *** so she breaks up with me instead of me having to break up with her. This is a very immature thing to do. Really there is no right way, being very nice will make her feel like you are a nice guy so she must have done something very wrong. You should just be respectful and honest but not brutally honest. Another childish thing I did in the past was find a friend who likes her and set her up on a date with him, that way she doesn't feel lonely. I have done that in the past and had that done to me and to tell you the truth everyone came out of the situation feeling ok. I know it sounds crazy, but in my life experience I have had best results by giving her an alternative.
There is no way to do it to prevent her from crying. Just don't be a jerk about it. Tell her that you don't feel the same about her anymore..and don't do it by text, and don't have someone else do it for you. Do it to her face, and she'll get over it faster because you can answer any questions that she might have, and you won't leave her wondering why you did it.
be kind. break it to her gently. do not place blame on anything. do not leave anything unresolved. if she starts to cry and act immature about it leave, your better off anyway. and do not tell her you love her the day before you do it. you need to stop doing things that you would in the relationship. like if u call her every night before you go to bed and say i love you and such dont. do not kiss her. do not encourage these behaviours. then break the news to her. in person. in a kind way.
Well most girls do cry if a guy breaks up with them .
She will probably cry no matter what, unless shes unhappy in the relationship as well. Just dont be a jerk, dont make her feel like shes the reason for it. Let her know how you feel while still being sensitive.
Theres always some pain involved in a breakup and people all express it different ways. All you can do is be sensitive and considerate in the way that you do it. If you are than you shouldn't feel bad no matter what her reaction. Good luck
She's going to cry most likely. That is how things work. Sorry. Just do it.
Don't do it by phone call, text- do it face to face. Make sure your like ';I still want us to be friends'; as by saying that she is less likely to cry. This girl might not cry this time depending on how you handle the situation, be friendly maybe like give signals beforehand- like say things like ';I'm not sure this is working'; etc...
that's easy just tell her you have given much thought to the relationship and you think you should go separate ways and sorry too-if you're nice
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if you can't face her just text her it's over and ignore her
just don't be harsh make shure the mood is normal and make things as unawkward as possible after that. there's no right way to break up with someone, just get to the point and don't start telling her all the thing you hate about her.
i guess good luck.
Just be upfront and honest. If she cries she cries, nothing you can do about that. just don't be a jerk.
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