So there is this girl that I am going out with but I don't really want a girlfriend. I don't want to break up with her because that will really hurt her. I don't want to act like a jerk to make her break up with me. So how do i make her break up with me without doing anything wrong.How should I make this girl break up with me?
Be mature and honest and break up. You are probably coming off as a jerk anyway. There is nothing like being with someone that you don't want to be around. It is better to get it over with as soon as possible, so that she can find someone who really wants to be with her. Good luckHow should I make this girl break up with me?
You'll hurt her if you don't break up with her, because she'll sense the change in you, wonder what's wrong with her, and wonder why you're leading her on. Just tell her that you like her as a friend and that you want to see other people. She'll be hurt for a short time, but will get over it. The first way, will hurt her worse and she'll lose respect for you.
Breaking a relationship is bound to hurt and there is no way around it. The best policy is simply be honest about the real reason. On the plus side is that you simply do not want a girlfriend and you are not dumping her for anyone. Make it clear there is nothing wrong with her by being honest. If she understands it is not her issue, but your issue, she will deal with it much better in time.
I think the only way you're going to get her to break up with you is to be a jerk. If you don't want to do that then you're going to have to talk to her about your feelings. It seems like you are trying to be a good person but you have to realize that no matter what you do she's probably going to be hurt. Good luck!
Short of setting her up with another guy that you know she'll dump your for? I don't think there's any way to do it without being a jerk in one way or another. You'll have to suck it up and break up with her. Don't worry, she'll recover, and it won't be the only time she has to cope with a break-up. We all learn to deal with it sooner or later.
You are going to have to 'man-up' and tell her how you feel. You can do it nicely by telling her that you like her a lot, but just don't want a girlfriend right now. That's much nicer and less hurtful than you 'making her break up with you'. Good luck. I hope this helps.
ok u need to grow some balls! and just break up with her its not fair to lead her on. and you dont want to make her break up with you cause then she will feel bad about it. emotionally tell her your not ready for a relationship and just wanna stay single. tell her you can still be friends and maybe in the future when your ready you may get back together.
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bud. What i would do is just tell her the truth.
If you start lieing this early you will become a lair. and no one likes lairs.
Just tell her that all of a sudden you didn't fell like having a girlfriend. and tell her sorry all so. Tell her you didn't know this was going to happen and if you really like her, maybe ask her if you two can try another time.
You HAVE to have the guts to break it off yourself. She can handle it. Truth is ALWAYS best. Just be nice about it, tell her you don't mean to hurt her, but that you have to be honest and that you can remain friends. It will be the best way for you both!
Well there's no way that you can get her to break up with you without you doing nothing wrong. You could tell her that you don't really want a girlfriend and that it would be good to see other people. That's probably the best way.
The best way to do it is to be 100% honest with her and communicate your true feelings. It's difficult to do, but it's always the best way for both of you. It would be worse if you give her false hopes. best of luck, Dave :)
dont do anything, just be normal with her, dont fk the relationship with her and dont go too far with it, in case you like her sometime later and you already ruined it so you dont feel sorry
Just tell her in an honest, gentle way. You said it all in your posted question: you don't want to hurt her but you don't want a girlfriend. The simple truth, stated gently is the way to go.
You don't. Be a man and break up with her.
Would you want someone to stay with you if they didn't have feelings for you? Cut the ties now before it gets much harder.
Good luck!
You should just be honest and tell her how you feel. She wont be as hurt as she would be if you started being a jerk to her.
So get a spine and break up with her yourself. Don't be a manipulative, spineless weenie.
ignore her, dont talk to her, avoid her, eventually she will feel like shes wasting her time with you and she'll break up with you
Just freaking ignore her and never talk to her. But your doing it wrong......string her along until you find someone else!!!!
Just explain that you aren't ready for a girlfriend yet. But dont use the ';Let's just be friends'; line. that hurts more than anything.
stop paying attention to her... act like youre just not interested anymore... then there won't b a reason why she would still want to b with you
Just tell her straight. You just want to take all the guilt on your shoulders and place it on hers.
Grow a backbone and tell her you are not ready for a relationship at the moment.
Tell her wat you really feel and you would like to still be friends.
Cheat on her. Or tell her you're gay.
Try to talk more to other girls and spend time with them. Or tell her honestly what you feel. The second one is the best option. =)
grow up and be honest with her.
Dont call her for a week! That worked for me... well not really!
youre better of talkin to her about it
just be honest, you might keep a friend.
just be boring
umm theres not reallly a way to do that.
just be kindof boring
well looks like you're in a bit of a situation. how bout u just suck it up and tell her how u feel
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